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This is what I get for caring what other people thinkšŸ˜£  

partygald 41F
3082 posts
2/24/2018 7:04 pm

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3/9/2018 11:25 pm

This is what I get for caring what other people thinkšŸ˜£


Oh the sweet irony of this to follow my last postšŸ˜†

About a week and a half ago I went with the bf for a massage. Now there are plenty of massage places here but a good one is quite hard to find. Over the last year or so I found that I really like a particular massage therapist at a place not far from where we live so the Husband and I have been frequenting that particular place. As with such things, we got familiar with each other and Iā€™m usually there with the Husband in a couples room. So this time, I called to check if my favourite therapist was available and made a booking.

They must have assumed it was going to be the Husband and I whoā€™d show up cos when we got there and they saw that it was the bf and not the Husband who was with me, they got a little awkward. I didnā€™t notice this at first but I did wonder why my therapist wasnā€™t her usual chatty self. So we got the couples room, did our massages (which, while still enjoyable, was a little distant, I later realise. Not the usual). After we were done, they left us to shower or at least wash the<b> massage oil </font></b>off, which I usually do if I wasnā€™t heading home straight after. Anyhow, the bf and I were both oiled up and our shower quickly became rubbing our oily bodies against each other, which escalated into him fucking me from the back while I was holding onto a cabinet in front of a mirror.

We must have taken too long, or they must have heard us, I think it was both, cos they started knocking, no, banging on our door to get us out. We cut it short (which was quite a turn on actually. Left us both on edge til we got home), apologised and left. Later that day we were all having our dinner, I was telling the Husband about it and he planted the idea in my head that they might have thought I was cheating on him, and that maybe morally they disagreed with it. Normally Iā€™d give a rats ass but it somehow materialised into the potential of not getting good massages from that said therapist anymore. And that freaked me out. Good massages are sooooo hard to come by.

So!

I had this brilliant idea of making another booking for a couples room, with said therapist, the next day. This time, Iā€™ll go with the Husband. Thisā€™ll show them itā€™s all good between the Husband and I. We did our massages, and it was still a bit awkward. We were joking with my therapist after we were done and she wasnā€™t her jovial self. On our way home I realised she could still be thinking Iā€™m cheating on my Husband! Determined to not lose what has been the best massage therapist Iā€™ve had, I called to me yet another appointment with them the very next day, for all three of us! Ha! Thatā€™ll show her weā€™re all cool! šŸ¤Ŗ

So the next day we were back at the spa, trying to prove a point. At least I was. Then first hiccup. They didnā€™t have a room with three massage beds available. So we settled for foot massages instead. Not the same show of intimacy I wanted to display, but I settled. Then, my usual massage therapist wasnā€™t even there. Youā€™d think Iā€™d have checked before committing to a forty minute foot massage. She had to take an emergency leave earlier that day. Turns out, her mom was ill, hence her aloof behaviour. Poor girl was worried sick. Of course she wouldnā€™t be her usual self!

Iā€™ve since been back on my own (yes! Again!!) and have spoken to her and her massages are still fucking fantastic! Of course I didnā€™t say anything to her, it was all my own self-absorbed, dumbass-ness to begin with! Naturally op blame the Husband for this for putting the thought in my head. And of course the Husband is still laughing his ass off at my....epic dumbass-ness, and heā€™s even roped in the bf to both gang up on laughing at mešŸ¤£

But!! Hey, some things are worth going the distance for, even if going the distance means three full body massages and one feet massage, and a rather significant chunk of change spent, and the embarrassment. Oh the embarrassment.

Anybody. Thanks for readingšŸ˜

partygald 41F
1963 posts
2/24/2018 7:06 pm

Oh! For the record, I think thereā€™s a thing for getting too many massages. My back was a little sore in certain areas from being kneaded too muchšŸ¤£


moresbyexpat1 60M
9 posts
2/24/2018 7:30 pm

ahhh .. the perils of too many massages hahahaha
glad you resolved it a great problm to have!


sandj1963 67M/66F
30 posts
2/24/2018 8:54 pm

Wow what a great story and idea! I may try that!


cairnsguytoplay 59M
36 posts
2/24/2018 9:30 pm

head up babe


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
2/25/2018 12:05 am

I never know what kind of story you'll have to tell until I read it. Thanks for sharing!


ClitLickB4DickU 65M  
1392 posts
2/25/2018 1:57 am

Yes, it is so easy to project your own values and reasoning onto someone else's responses to situations. Particularly when living amongst a culture with such different value systems as the Balinese.

I hope you got a massage to sort that back problem out


Apollorising2057 63M

2/25/2018 3:25 am

Booking a massage is always a great idea!

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partygald 41F
1963 posts
2/25/2018 5:00 pm

    Quoting moresbyexpat1:
    ahhh .. the perils of too many massages hahahaha
    glad you resolved it a great problm to have!
Uhh...yeah. First world problems šŸ˜


partygald 41F
1963 posts
2/25/2018 5:01 pm

    Quoting sandj1963:
    Wow what a great story and idea! I may try that!
Hahahhaa! Ok...go for it! šŸ‘


partygald 41F
1963 posts
2/25/2018 5:01 pm

Heh...thanks


partygald 41F
1963 posts
2/25/2018 5:02 pm

    Quoting discreteSteve62:
    I never know what kind of story you'll have to tell until I read it. Thanks for sharing!
Again, thanks for stopping by šŸ˜‰


partygald 41F
1963 posts
2/25/2018 5:04 pm

    Quoting ClitLickB4DickU:
    Yes, it is so easy to project your own values and reasoning onto someone else's responses to situations. Particularly when living amongst a culture with such different value systems as the Balinese.

    I hope you got a massage to sort that back problem out
Yeah, thatā€™s exactly it right? Gotta be conscious enough to apply that. Thanks


partygald 41F
1963 posts
2/25/2018 5:04 pm

As a general rule? Of course!


partygald 41F
1963 posts
2/25/2018 5:05 pm

    Quoting  :

Yeah....but good massages are sooooo hard to come by. šŸ˜
Thanks for stopping by


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
2/25/2018 6:52 pm

like you said! A good massage is hard to find!!


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