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Coffee, office idiots and tits popping out. Get jealous much?
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Coffee, office idiots and tits popping out. Get jealous much? Im onto my third cup of coffee today. Although I DO love my coffee, I find that my need for caffeine increases with the amount of bullshit I have to deal with. And don't we all just love work crap.  As much as I love coffee, this is spoiling it for me though. Maybe I'll stop after this cup. I hate to call people names, but some people are just idiots Two cases in point : one We all need to work together to get things done. That's a given. For that to happen, we need to really give and take. Some people though, just HAVE to use this aa an opportunity to "stake their claim" on certain aspects of work. We are all in different office around the world. I've also heard of trying to own a virtual space but this is getting ridiculous. Someone needs to invent a virtual slap that translates to pain :S. So that's work today, thus far. Care in point: two This morning I rode out into town to run an errand. It was supposed to be a quick run down, pick up a few things and back in time for a call. This bitch in a car almost ran me over cos there was a queue going into a single lane and she thought she didn't want to queue, so she cut in at the very last minute, not giving a fuck if I had occupied said particular lane on my motorbike. What. A. Bitch. -_- Over the weekend past, we met up with some friends and tried kayaking. I wasn't too interested on socialising but kinda got talked into it so, the husband and I joined two other couples and went kayaking in a river somewhere It was fun, and for that point alone, I was glad I went. It wasn't too hard either. Maybe I was just expecting more...? Anyhow.After we were done, we went somewhere for lunch where we were seated on the floor and the food is served on low tables (Its quite common here). It was your typical Balinese afternoon of scorching sun, rain and high humidity so we were all in shorts and t-shirts mostly. One of the other ladies had on a tank top that was quite loose. Every time she bent over or move, the front kept dropping lower and soon enough, she kept spilling out of her top. She wore a bra, but still she kept exposing herself. I didn't think it was such a big deal, and there were no big reactions from everyone else, but I did catch the husband staring on a few occasions. She kept adjusting herself, but clearly was comfortable with the situation too. I was just watching everyone talk and suddenly wondered if this lady's husband was comfortable with it. He seemed like there wasn't a big deal or like nothing skipped a beat, but there were also point during that afternoon that I thought I saw him getting a little agitated. I might be wrong, but either way, that's why I wondered. When the husband and I first started out, he got really uncomfortable with how revealing I wore, which was weird cos it's never consistent. One day its fine, another it's not. I completely understand this. Someone once told me that initially, it's always ok, but as soon as the relationship moved into the next phase, it suddenly changes. LOL I get it. I'm just suddenly remembering once when we were here in Bali on a holiday years ago, I went for breakfast once in a long dress without anything underneath. It was a fairly thin dress and every time I bend over or reach for something, he'd get mad and excited at the same time. LOL I know I shouldn't laugh at this but damn it was amusing. He's fine now, although I think it's resignation more than anything else AAAAannnyway. A lotta people will tell you it's ok for their partners to wear whatever they want to wear, dress however they want to dress. But not all of these people really mean it. So, how "okay" are you really with your partner's choice of attire? Be it an evening or in general? |
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Me? I'd like a say in what my partner wears. Like there is no waaaay I'm gonna be fine if he decides to dress up as a clown for a fancy dinner date
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I get NO say in what my wife wears, nor am I particularly interested. Mind you, she doesn't bare all, or even show any glimpse, so I guess I haven't been tested properly. Generally she just looks nice and appropriate for the occasion. Me, I get told in no uncertain terms if she doesn't like what i'm wearing and have to change. Given that I only buy new clothes on a 3 or 4 year cycle (like most guys?) then I generally know what to wear when i'm in her company and reserve those items frowned upon for going out with "the lads" 
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if she's happy, be happy for her
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Keep having fun my lady - the idiots in our life will always be there, for sure As for the revealing feminine attire, I think there's a very thin line regarding things for the partner to say, Cheers - P
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People should be allowed to wear what they want (within reason) without being judged or attracting comment, but you know what society is like these days. Case in point, a "celebrity" appeared on early evening TV a we while ago wearing a very plunging neckline and was heavily criticised for what she was wearing given the potential young audience. But who defines what is and what isn't acceptable/appropriate?
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There is something so sexy in a male who is confident to the point that he understands clothing will not make him lose his woman and is able to enjoy her being comfortable in her own skin to include what she chooses to cover it with. Thankfully, I’ve never had to compromise who I am in regards to my choice of clothing or lack there of. TopShelf-Chocl8
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should dress for what you want to do
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I think it's hot when my wife dresses sexy. If other guys notice, my attitude is not, "She tempting other guys to fool around with her!" Instead, my attitude is, "I feel good about being with such a hot woman." I'm also fine with her if she wants to dress for comfort, even if that makes her look plain. Most people likely to see her like that have also seen her dressed up to look sexy, and they're not going to think less of her for being comfortable when she wants to be. About the only time I'd complain is if she were dressed wildly out of line for a particular setting. Dressing really sexy at an event where we'd be meeting up with a bunch of other parents from where our child goes to school, for example, wouldn't be appropriate. If we were to go to another sex party and she didn't dress sexy enough, that would not fit in. Dressing in ragged jeans for a high culture event like the symphony would also be inappropriate. But she knows how to dress appropriately for things such events; I've never felt like I should tell her to dress differently. Usually, when I dress to look sexy, it's likely to be a "distinguished sexy" look, like my profile picture, as opposed to a "naughty sexy" or "gym rat" look. There aren't a lot of circumstances where "distinguished sexy" is out of line, so I don't expect to get any complaints. That look makes her feel good in the same way, proud to be with a guy like me. When I dress for comfort, she's fine with it too, though sometimes she'll tease me if I happen to grab socks that are overdue for a trip to the rag bag. In general, I'm more likely to ask her opinion to get my look right than to get my look wrong to the point that she feels the need to suggest an adjustment.
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