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"Please enter from the back side"
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"Please enter from the back side" Lemme make it clear - this isn't an ass story. Well, as starting to type this, it isn't. It's just I've been seeing this sign on more than a few shops. Particularly, this sign has been posted on side entrances. thinking, it's a literal translation from the native language to English notifying you the main entrance is around the back. Or is front? Either way, I thought it was funny  in India for work and was schedule to leave this evening but was told last night I have a formal dinner to attend tonight so.... flying out early tomorrow. Did I mention I fucking hate these formal dinners?  But the boss insisted enough to change my flight back so I guess gonna go. I just hope what I have is appropriate Anyhow. Right before I left, I was spending some time with the husband and we were just lazing around at home. It was one of those evenings where I wear a short skirt and he kinda follows me around the house, perving away. (What? You mean not everyone does ?!? ) We got to talking about how some people just don't like giving head. (It came about cos I was thinking about the last time I was with the bf and his friends and one of them was reluctant and it ended being awful and awkward. But I didn't tell him . But anyhow). And we both agreed if the partner is reluctant, then we're better off not getting it. Spare everyone involved the pain, right? Which also got us talking about going bottomless - there're topless beaches, and generally, places where going topless is not too frowned upon. But the minute you go bottomless, then it becomes an issue? Doesn't make sense. And rule applies to both males and female too. Fuckin strange one, this is... Oh! On the topic of strange, the husband and I haven't had sex in awhile. Like a few weeks. I sat on his face and he made once. Does count? I don't think it counts...but anyhow. So yeah, no sex with the husband for about a little over a month now, since before we left Singapore. I suppose it's quite normal in marriages....right? But the thing is, we've had plenty of opportunities but we just didn't take the extra step. I mean, for fuck's sake, I grinned on his face til I came....if wasn't a prelude, I don't know what is. But it just didn't happen. I don't think it's something I should be worried about....for now. Right? I dunno. What do you guys think? |
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I DO realise this isn't the best place to be asking for advice, but uh....you know, it helps me think, writing. But hey, if you have two cents worth, share your thoughts. Heheh...thanks for reading!
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We men are strange creatures - try asking him. "Darling, I really want you right now, please fuck me". If that doesn't do the trick, there's a problem. It may not be a problem between you two, but he is worried about something. Communication is vastly under-rated in human relations! Good luck!
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Really that is not married life is just un horny husband for my opinion.....
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This is the perfect place to ask for advice....as we all have opinions....and you may take em or not....but if nothing else it broadens ones scope of thinking, IF one has an open mind. I agree......communication is the key. Come right out and ask..." do we have a prob", come right out and tell him...." i need you in me right now'. We never know whats going on in someones mind unless we ask. Same deal....have an open mind and see how he responds. Sending good vibes your way ~~
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3/22/2019 2:34 am |
i have to agree with you "I DO realise this isn't the best place to be asking for advice,". well for some things it may be... but fuckin' issues! well them should be discussed with ones mate... and maybe make it a threesome (a therapist) afterall you are just 36 and have, let's say another 50 years to live... dam! that is a long time to live sexually frustrated! bonne chance there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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I had a GF once (well, more of a concubine) that didn't give head. But that one deficiency was more than compensated by her other skills and attributes, and she Loved getting Licked by me in long, multiple Orgasm sessions. Our relationship lasted years, until she went away, got married and now has a son. Before she left, she introduced me to her friend, who took over her previous role (gotta love Indonesia), and that girl Absolutely Loved to give Blow-Jobs. So much so, that sometimes you had to fight to get your Dick out of her mouth and Fuck her. Oh, and she didn't like having her Pussy licked. Different Strokes for Different Folks, I guess. On the hubby front....not sure. Perhaps ask. Legs Open....."do you want to Fuck me?" Is he having a prostate problem, or other medical issue? Worry and stress so can't get hard? For sure he hasn't lost interest in you, from your accounts. I'm sure you'll work it out. Enjoy your Formal Dinner 
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Sign outside Family Planning clinic: "Please use rear entrance".  
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i always enjoy reading. I wouldn't worry about the lack of sex, in marriage there are spells where it does happen. Sure when you get home from this trip things will change. Would love to see a photo sometime in your formal dinner attire. Enjoy every moment,
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Seeing the very sexy body images you have posted and observing how your dirty mind works on your blogs,..... I cannot imagine why your hubby has not taken advantage of your presence, but that is just me........! I agree with previous comments that you need to talk to him about it. Good luck!
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I was having almost this same conversation the other day - for some reason men and women seem to be oil and vinegar. As long as someone is shaking things up, oil and vinegar blend in an awesome way and everything is great. But, when neither side actually takes an action to shake, to agitate, to really keep things mixed up... then, we separate. We may still be together like in the same bottle, but, we separate into our separate daily lives and daily activities. Married, lovers, friends with benefits - what ever the relationship is doesn't seem to matter - when things get comfortable, busy, or just ignored it seems that separation of events occurs - and the sexual relationship is the first that goes. So, yep, I would definitely agree talk to the boy, see what's going on, and BTW be prepared to be the one who's going to shake it up and keep it going. Don't be the one who waits. Have fun and enjoyed the post!!
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Kinda normal for a couple after married for a few years, afterall we do get bored over time, thats why you have a very understanding husband and im sure you have waysssssss to spice things up
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We men are strange creatures - try asking him. "Darling, I really want you right now, please fuck me". If that doesn't do the trick, there's a problem. It may not be a problem between you two, but he is worried about something. Communication is vastly under-rated in human relations! Good luck! Yeah, I suspect that'll get a real reaction. Could be stress too. He gets affected by that quite a bit. But still. Yeah, need to communicate better. Thanks for responding
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Really that is not married life is just un horny husband for my opinion.....
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This is the perfect place to ask for advice....as we all have opinions....and you may take em or not....but if nothing else it broadens ones scope of thinking, IF one has an open mind. I agree......communication is the key. Come right out and ask..." do we have a prob", come right out and tell him...." i need you in me right now'. We never know whats going on in someones mind unless we ask. Same deal....have an open mind and see how he responds. Sending good vibes your way ~~ It is much appreciated.And yeah, seems like we all need to be better communicators though.
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i have to agree with you "I DO realise this isn't the best place to be asking for advice,". well for some things it may be... but fuckin' issues! well them should be discussed with ones mate... and maybe make it a threesome (a therapist) afterall you are just 36 and have, let's say another 50 years to live... dam! that is a long time to live sexually frustrated! bonne chance And yeah, needs to be nipped in the butt now! Still, I suspect it might require some time though....but at least I'm gonna try. Fuck no to sexual frustrations!! Now THAT is a slogan...: Thanks for stopping by!!
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I had a GF once (well, more of a concubine) that didn't give head. But that one deficiency was more than compensated by her other skills and attributes, and she Loved getting Licked by me in long, multiple Orgasm sessions. Our relationship lasted years, until she went away, got married and now has a son. Before she left, she introduced me to her friend, who took over her previous role (gotta love Indonesia), and that girl Absolutely Loved to give Blow-Jobs. So much so, that sometimes you had to fight to get your Dick out of her mouth and Fuck her. Oh, and she didn't like having her Pussy licked. Different Strokes for Different Folks, I guess. On the hubby front....not sure. Perhaps ask. Legs Open....."do you want to Fuck me?" Is he having a prostate problem, or other medical issue? Worry and stress so can't get hard? For sure he hasn't lost interest in you, from your accounts. I'm sure you'll work it out. Enjoy your Formal Dinner Dinner was a mixed bag of......well, just a mixed bag. And yeah, I think stress might be it. But I don't know until I ask and I WILL ask. But yeah, thanks for taking time to read and respond. Although, as much of a good idea of asking blatantly is, I don't think I need to ask with legs open. THAT, might be a bit much 
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Sign outside Family Planning clinic: "Please use rear entrance".
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i always enjoy reading. I wouldn't worry about the lack of sex, in marriage there are spells where it does happen. Sure when you get home from this trip things will change. Would love to see a photo sometime in your formal dinner attire. Enjoy every moment,
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Seeing the very sexy body images you have posted and observing how your dirty mind works on your blogs,..... I cannot imagine why your hubby has not taken advantage of your presence, but that is just me........! I agree with previous comments that you need to talk to him about it. Good luck!
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I was having almost this same conversation the other day - for some reason men and women seem to be oil and vinegar. As long as someone is shaking things up, oil and vinegar blend in an awesome way and everything is great. But, when neither side actually takes an action to shake, to agitate, to really keep things mixed up... then, we separate. We may still be together like in the same bottle, but, we separate into our separate daily lives and daily activities. Married, lovers, friends with benefits - what ever the relationship is doesn't seem to matter - when things get comfortable, busy, or just ignored it seems that separation of events occurs - and the sexual relationship is the first that goes. So, yep, I would definitely agree talk to the boy, see what's going on, and BTW be prepared to be the one who's going to shake it up and keep it going. Don't be the one who waits. Have fun and enjoyed the post!! And I don't have any problems taking the initiative . Least I can do is make this fun....Thanks for stopping by
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the fact that you are writing this means you are starting to get atleast a little bit concerned. might as well just do something about it - like just fuck him or if that's not happening naturally, then talk about it with him. Its easy for things like this to build up getting extra hard to break the cycle. How about a sweaty workout to feed his scent fetish to get things going?
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I guess it take two hands to clap. Both of you have been tied up with work recently, and i suppose if my memory serves me accurately you have had these dry spells before. Nothing to worry about - but the next time you guys have sex - i’m sure its going to be explosive... and i’m sure you will share with us
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My wife and I occasionally have dry spells. We tend to get pretty cranky at each other if they last more than a week though, and at that point we have to find a moment to get busy with each other, instead of whatever else it is that we're busy with. Of course, we don't have any other sexual outlets, so the sexual tension builds faster than it might if we were each able to find someone on the side who doesn't mind being on the side.
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