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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Were You Mislead?  

tresennui 69F  
2842 posts
7/16/2013 8:59 pm

Last Read:
2/7/2015 9:31 pm
Were You Mislead?


Sure it's disappointing, but it happens. You email, chat, send pictures, talk on the phone. You flirt, talk about sex, maybe even cyber with each other. You feel like you've made a real connection. You arrange to meet anticipating, hoping, that maybe you'll have sex or at least an indication that if not tonight, it will be inevitable.

Then you meet................no physical chemistry. Your "date" just isn't feeling it. The urge, the desire isn't there. You feel dejected, like you've been mislead, bs'd to, led on. But while you're pissed off you need to also consider that your date who wasn't feeling the attraction is also disappointed. Most likely he/she was looking forward to meeting someone they'd want to have sex with and often was hoping a relationship of some sort would result.

So before you pass judgment on someone who didn't have sex with you...who gave you the impression they would. Keep in mind it wasn't necessarily done intentionally and not everyone who doesn't follow through with what you thought would happen is a misleading lady....or man.
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
1/31/2015 3:11 am

 I was fortunate that I had exchanged cell phone numbers with my first TSdates.com lady. The bar we were meeting at wasn't open that early. I would have missed out on ecstasy.


tresennui replies on 1/31/2015 7:19 am:
A well planned meet can lead to...well..so many things . BTW thanks for reading and commenting on my blogs. It's much appreciated!

rm_craven1on1 64M
682 posts
9/11/2013 6:14 pm

 I don't think I've ever been mislead. Maybe I'm just mature enough to understand that there is no such thing as a sure thing. If you go into it with that understanding, you will never be disappointed.


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
7/17/2013 6:44 pm

 Funny how there are so many blogs and profiles written by men who seem to think women here lead them on and aren't really interested in sex. I suppose it's just hard for them to realize .. Or should i say, admit, that they are just not interested in having sex with them.

Fortunately, i am only writing this because of what i read here...not because of anyone I've met.
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


packageman57 67M
1093 posts
7/17/2013 1:19 pm

 I never expect anything more than a nice meeting and a kiss or 2 for the 1st time. Even if we have been working towards everything else.

Have I been disappointed, yes, but I don't let it get me down.


AlvinBooth 70M
Ask me for a photo
5468 posts
7/17/2013 4:32 am

 Good point.

AB
No Bozos


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
7/17/2013 12:52 am

 well said. Yes your right there everyone figures you will have sex with them when you meet up no matter what. hugs V
Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
7/16/2013 10:41 pm

 i wish more people understood that...well said
some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


Lynn1812 54M
4928 posts
7/16/2013 9:47 pm

 Yep.


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