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More Masturbating Questions  

skierchick 60F
5225 posts
11/10/2008 8:17 pm
More Masturbating Questions


In the last poll many of you mentioned masturbating for a partner. I love it when my man does that infront of me. I love it when I'm close enough that I can play with his balls while he jerks his cock, and when I'm close enough for him to come all over me! But it really makes me crazy when it's done right infront of me and I am unable to touch or lick him!

And I am always happy to perform for my lover, (with or without toys) but here's the funny thing......... as much as I love watching my man masturbate, I always think "it must be boring to watch me do it, especially when toys are in the way of a good view".

So today's poll..........
Have you ever masturbated for a lover?
and if you have any good stories to share, or advice, please tell us!

[font face=kristen itc][COLOR darkred][SIZE 3]Yes I have masturbated for a lover[/font][/SIZE][/COLOR]
[font face=kristen itc][COLOR darkred][SIZE 3]I never have, but I would[/font][/SIZE][/COLOR]
[font face=kristen itc][COLOR darkred][SIZE 3]I never have and I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that[/font][/SIZE][/COLOR]


SkierChick



shyscorpio5 73M
1859 posts
11/10/2008 10:13 pm

I never masturbated in front of a girl friend but we did mutual masturbate one another. That was enjoyable.


Gedalia3 60M
13613 posts
11/10/2008 10:19 pm

Done it, watched it, and shared it. It is amazing. I don't know why so many women don't understand how all three versions of this little "scene" are SUCH a turn on for a guy.

I love watching a lady masturbate for me. It gives me great insight into what, and how, she likes to be touched.


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Ivana_Kissalot 35F

11/10/2008 11:34 pm

I'm with you. I've done it, but I don't understand why it fascinates men.


skierchick replies on 11/11/2008 5:23 am:
Glad I'm not the only one! LOL!

rm_sircernuunos 55M
11959 posts
11/11/2008 2:37 am

I prefer just having my partner over masturbating though.

I am only a stranger the first time...

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skierchick replies on 11/11/2008 5:20 am:
Yes, I think we'd all agree but.............. restrained, watching my lover masturbate, close enough to almost reach with my tounge, but not quite.........DRIVES ME CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!

hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
11/11/2008 3:03 am

I have done it and watched but I think I prefer at least some kind of participation in both cases, lol.

I think men are fascinated for two reasons. Firstly the view doesn't really matter that much I don't think - I think it is the mere fact that you are getting off that excites us. Secondly I think we also may believe we can learn how to do it better for you ourselves by watching you. Whilst there may be some truth in this, it seems more than likely that you rub yourself in ways we couldn't replicate. I would ask the guys if they would want a woman to rub their cock the way they do it themselves? I wouldn't - it would hurt and wouldn't give me the best results. The movements I would usually use on myself would be too rough and fast for a woman (or a man for that matter) to duplicate without accidentally causing pain, whereas I myself can feel if that were about to happen and make adjustments.

Giving a good hand-job is probably the hardest thing for a woman to learn. And part of what is so good about a good blow job is that however good she is, she can't actually feel what I am feeling and therefore inevitably slows down the process and keeps me on the edge just that little bit longer. Oh hang on we were talking about masturbation not blow jobs, lol.


skierchick replies on 11/11/2008 5:22 am:
Don't get me started. Remember what happened last time I blogged about blow jobs? (were you reading back then?) I think I went on and on and on for weeks. One of my all time favorite topics.

androseeker 65M

11/11/2008 3:14 am

It really turns me on, and my cock gets huge when I do it! Often my lover makes me cum in her.


androseeker 65M

11/11/2008 3:22 am

Often my lover insists that I give her an orgasm with oral before she lets me enter her. After she comes and tries to push me away, I want to penetrate her deeply, I place her legs over my shoulders. She protests and moans a little, which makes me go deeper and deeper.


skierchick replies on 11/11/2008 5:23 am:
Stay on topic here, darlin'. Were talking about masturbating. Your getting ahead of the topic.

tahomee 59M
196 posts
11/11/2008 1:46 pm

Actually, I love to watch a girl at play. As someone said already, you learn a lot about what she likes and how she likes it.

I think it's interesting that you like to watch us guys. Really? That seems like it would be far more boring to watch.


skierchick replies on 11/11/2008 6:14 pm:
Tee hee. Glad it's not just me. I love to watch, but think it must be boring for my lover to watch me.

rm_fn491 64M
39 posts
11/11/2008 9:32 pm

At lease every AM!


curiouscpl4fu1 46M/46F

11/12/2008 1:31 am

i have never actually masturbated in front of a partner before. If my partner asked me too I probably would. I just never thought it would be as exciting for women to watch men as it is for men to watch a woman.


dream_angel2006 54F
6 posts
11/12/2008 8:01 am

yes I have ...


draz1981ro 43M
1 post
11/12/2008 11:29 am

en wat dan nog?


rm_aknowno 59M
9 posts
11/12/2008 9:19 pm

I have wtached been watched and both at the same time. We even filmed one another doing it at one point. It's also a turn on to send a quick video clip of yourself to your lover by cell phone although it may take some practice. You can only send a 15 to 30 second video so you have to get the timing right, plus the phone can get sticky if you're not careful.

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rm_sexfu2008 63M
18 posts
11/13/2008 2:00 am

I have watched and been watched ,both are massive turn ons.


penguinfishing87 36M

11/13/2008 5:12 am

I've done it with my gf and its way better than doing it by yourself.


lotus04079 44F

11/13/2008 9:27 am

often


rm_rjc36_us 60M
428 posts
11/13/2008 8:08 pm

I think that one of the reasons that guys like to watch their woman masturbated is because most women in the past didn't admit to doing it so when some guys find out his woman dose it is a big turn on. well it is to me because my wife just dose not do it and I wish she would for me. But that is up to her.


rm_rdfrlv4u 70M
25 posts
11/14/2008 8:21 am

My girl would play with her pussy while I was driving then she would suck me. If we were in bed she would suck me and get it wet so I could jack-off on her face and tits. Then I would lick the cum off and it would lead to a hot night for both of us.


openmindedcpl05 60M/53F

11/14/2008 11:03 am

yes, i have, when i do, i have multiply orgasms before coming and she loves to here me have them.


Carmelshake25 47F

11/15/2008 11:40 am

I never masterbated in front of a guy but i dont mind i the option came my way!!!


deal542 33M

11/15/2008 5:32 pm

Mutual masturbation is where its at.


rm_ilivili3 40M
9 posts
11/16/2008 6:43 am

Yes I have


kymmark 113M/113F

11/16/2008 7:04 am

I do it alot it drive my lady crazy she loves to watch me do it.It really turns her on.Sex is sooo good after it.


poutielips4u 65F

11/17/2008 4:30 am

yes, i have..once when my husband and i were driving home one afternoon when i got this wild idea to start stripping in the car so he would hurry up just a bit (meaning no side trips) and he started freaking out..so i just kept going and then i put my seat back and started playing around and then really got into and noticed so did he and a few truck drivers along the way..it was very wetting


openmindedcpl05 60M/53F

11/17/2008 10:48 am

i love masturbating for my wife, she loves to watch my hot cum shoot out of my cock.


ggooffy 44M/41F
9 posts
11/17/2008 1:38 pm

it is so hot to watch her


rm_hotrod71197 52M

11/18/2008 2:08 am

wife and i love to perform for each other, sometimes we include each other other times its hands hands off, totally depends on the mood at the time for each of us


rm_Zippo_PT 113M

11/18/2008 3:04 am

I have and would. Love it


rm_jondon9999 55M

11/18/2008 2:43 pm

and she loves it.


HeavyMetal613 39M

11/19/2008 6:40 am

have done many times.


trisha_ann_glynn 51T
1982 posts
11/19/2008 10:41 am

Yes, I have engaged in masturbation for a lover and for a group of people. You can masturbate on camera, but it's not personal enough for me. I want feed back from live people.


ms_dd 57F

11/20/2008 12:45 am

i love it, doing it on cam, face to face , on the phone, but especially face to face so i can clean up all his lovly juices with my tongue mmmm [152998]


Openwide4eight 62M

11/20/2008 2:20 pm

I love masturbating in front of people.


mymegacock4u 48M
53 posts
11/20/2008 5:40 pm

i would do that for her provided even she like it

but may be she will prefer something else

who knows


rm_lost_1274 49M

11/21/2008 12:10 pm

i just did a 2 year deployment and that was the only thing that kept me loyal. we would do it alot even before i left. either mutual or we would bring each other off with hands only. expescially if she had a doctor appointment or something. sometimes it is even better than intercourse once you both learn each other.


rm_hrdnwet1 55M/47F
5 posts
11/22/2008 3:53 pm

The hottest part of jerking off with her is squirting on her wet pussy.


rm_gina_9 52F
2 posts
11/23/2008 2:37 pm

I did it and I loved to do it and to watch him doing it...


69pervert 75M
10 posts
11/23/2008 7:32 pm

i have done it and i enstill do it and enjoy it


happie2cu77 46M

11/24/2008 11:25 am

i think it is very erotic having somebody watch me masterbate


ricardo69taz 44M

11/25/2008 5:59 am

its also really awsome to do it at the same time and try to cum at the same time


rm_secretstory5 77M

11/26/2008 12:15 pm

You are hot!
I prefer this practice as it guarantees the timing for the maximum fullfilment. Either party can control the orgasm moment which can be difficult sometimes when the partner is doing the work.
I have a particular position I like involving her in a head or face straddle as she pleasures herself while I have that close observation and a free hand
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ela450 34M

11/26/2008 2:06 pm

Hell I've never done it but I'd cum all over my bitch if she wanted me to.


rm_Kittelicker 69M
4 posts
11/26/2008 8:03 pm

yes, many, many times! Great!


hyme1964 58M
21 posts
11/28/2008 10:49 pm

My current partner loves when I jerk off for her. Her sexual enjoyment is beeter when I do this for her


sexy607couple 64M/64F

11/30/2008 8:43 am

Lovely T and I masturbate for one another or together quite often and both love it. She uses toys sometimes also which is great to see. I love to watch her while i am stroking my cock for her and see how she gets hotter and hotter as I get closer to cumming myself. If I cum on her she usually cums herself when she feels that hot load on her body. T&D
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mau1234565 47M

11/30/2008 10:20 am

com você até masturbaria....
beijos


sirjoseph33772 49M

11/30/2008 11:38 am

An ex lover introduced me to mutual masterbation. To watch her face as she fingered her clit, to watch the muscles in her face change as she slowly brought herself to orgasm was the best sexual pleasure I've ever experienced. She would look at me lustfully as she climaxed, sharing her orgasm with me in a way that is as personal and as sexy as anyone can imagine. When I masterbated for her, she wanted me to cum all over my chest and face, this excited her very much. She would lick my face clean, and then began to slowly feed me my own cum. Needless to say she introduced me to my bisexual side, and she taught me how to suck cock the right way. I always shared with her, but I enjoyed her watching me as I serviced the men that she brought home for us to play with.


Asianguy4youNow 42M
14 posts
11/30/2008 8:31 pm

I haven't been watched or watched ... sounds like something to add on my to do list =D


pantie_loverO 62M
9 posts
11/30/2008 10:04 pm

Yes I have Masturbated for my lover anytime she asks, she also does the same. HOT


ladyfor3some0 62M/62F

12/2/2008 10:54 am

Yes I have and will do it again and again.


ronsusie 64M/59F

12/2/2008 11:28 am

We love masturbating for each other. It is a big turn on for both of us. There are times I play with her while masturbating and then when I am about to cum she rolls over and and engulfs my hard cock and swallows every drop. there are also times she takes it in her mouth and shares it with me. Then I usually end up sucking on her very wet cunt and enjoying every drop.


ready2tryit4unow 58M

12/2/2008 12:51 pm

My answer would be yes. My lover and best friend asked me if she could watch me do it one time. She said that she wanted to learn how to better please me. I have to admit that I was embarrassed at first, but it turned out to be a very exciting experience. I have to tell you though, that even though she said she would, she has not yet let me watch her....


rm_freesoul928 67M

12/2/2008 1:31 pm

I have a question. Is masturbatng not good for a male. The reason why I ask, I was told It is, but I think this person is wrong.


skierchick replies on 12/14/2008 11:57 am:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating. It is a very naturaly thing for all animals, including humans.

rm_Netjoe961961 62M
2 posts
12/2/2008 6:22 pm

I love doing it for a lover ... as long as it turns her on ... otherwise whats the point?

It can be very erotic ... especially when she starts to touch herself as she is watching ... and not even aware she is doing it.

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rm_JelenaJ 50F
13 posts
12/3/2008 12:40 pm

yes, i did it and we both loved it!!!


rm_ROBHANAMICI 40M

12/8/2008 8:03 am

always


yxj900 63M
2 posts
1/21/2009 12:04 pm

Any Dutch lady wanna watch me masturbate???
Live or on cam


EASYLOVER5877 66M

2/14/2009 9:37 am

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