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Girlfriend vs. FWB Lets discuss.
Girlfriend vs. FWB Lets discuss. So, I was sitting at home thinking, and I came up with this really crazy thought. I had a fleeting thought that some days, I just would like to have a girlfriend. Then other time I think finding a good FWB would be best. I know the success of either is based on finding the right person. But what are the experiences of the group? Relationship vs. FWB. Let's have a rational and nice discussion. |
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To me the ONLY difference is what the other guy said.. ONE you have agreed that you CAN see other people. As for the 'emotional attachment'.. people.. don't kid yourself. Men (not all) but most are far more able to 'just screw' and walk away as if she is used toilet paper than women are. NOT saying women can't, but when you START having sexual intercourse and repeatedly with the SAME person you CANNOT stop from having SOME sort of feeling. Unless you are a selfish pig that is. If you are just using someone as a cum depository, that is sad. Truly it is sad. I have seen too many "FWB" situations BECOME that and the friendship is lost as the men think as (no insult intended here to anyone), but as you yourself said 'you got laid easily but she wasn't the relationship type'. Okay..what does that say about YOU?? If you just want a hole to have.. hey go for it. BUT... you can have the same thing with a meaning to it in EITHER situation. So many men (again NOT AL, but too many get into the "I can get sex from her" brain pattern and forget that she WAS A FRIEND and you used to actually TALK to her not just f*ck her. Even the "all you are left with is your hand" comment sounds like you didn't miss HER.. you missed you got sex. THAT is not a girlfriend.. that is again.. well you get the idea. lol DATING is the word here.. that is where it starts. You DATE and have a good time.. there is NO commitment to be one on one and no one else. You talk about it right up front. IF BOTH people have no trouble then you have all the fun you want. That would equate to the FWB. But remember.. she IS a person and SHE will have days she wants some talk time, maybe cuddle time. That isn't something only girlfriends want. If you are not doing the 'friend' thing.. then she IS just a cum depository. As time goes on if you BOTH decide you want a commitment.. then you go from there. Everyone is so busy worrying about the END of the game, you forget the 'how to get there' part. I was taught at a very young age why would you commit to a total stranger?? DATE THEM and find out if you click. Take it one day at a time.. but no matter what anyone says.. yeah sex is good. But it is MORE fulfilling with someone you actually can connect with in the long run, not just someone that is 'easy' and you don't have to work to get laid. An honest answer from a TRUE friend. xoxox
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