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Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

So where have all the good men gone?  

reallyready46 64M
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9/2/2020 7:49 pm
So where have all the good men gone?

Not sure this is a great topic for on here with all the fakes and no shows on here, but here goes.....

I have heard this from younger woman several times in the past few years, there are no good men left! Even the woman from Fox News made a PSA,lol calling men trash. Over the past several years starting with the woman are wonderful (WAW) there has been this movement raising woman up while degrading men. In schools Girls are taught to have it all, boys take a back seat. In many ways behaviors which I found unlikable in men when I was growing up now are common traits of woman today. Around 90% of all divorces in the US are filed by woman.

So what gives here? A radical shift in power. Woman today have choices that seem sometimes to carry no stigma with them. Gone are the days of the scarlet letter. The stigma of divorce or abortion. Woman have careers and can opt more to have no or small families. Now before someone starts screaming at me here, these things are not bad. Its this idea of I can do whatever I want now that creates a toxic environment. Look attractive, nope I am woman. Be interesting to talk to, nope we will only talk about what I want. Mean while many older woman only want younger men. The barrier to having sex outside of your race had fallen away.

So what do I see now? Well I see woman wanting big dicks, with hard bodies. When I first joined this site I use to see words like polite, nice , treat me well, used on profiles. Gone are those days it seems. Those things seem secondary or not even important enough to mention. Woman want equality, but still expect men to pay for everything. There are good men on here and out there. There are good woman also. I believe that the internet has made it harder to find whom you want. 30 years ago you were surrounded by people in the flesh. You got to know people. Today the world is at your finger tips. Do we really meet most of the people we connect with on line?

The solution to this starts with honesty and equality. Real equality not this bogus kind going around today. I think many of the good men are just baffled by today's world. I am baffled. When I get called a pig for holding a Door open for a woman, then called worst for letting it close on her. I have been ripped off by woman, then told I was greedy expecting to get paid back. Please do not get me started on the divorce process in this country! It seems that nice guys are finishing last and are tired of being in last place. So we are just leaving you to your own devices. Ya I know I hear how great woman say dildos are. But they can't kiss you or lick your pussy can they??

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