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Guys will say anything
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11/29/2009 7:27 am |
Venting your frusturations, on here and by making all inclusive statements, about how bad, scheming, dishonest, etc. guys are with women, is not attractive, in my opinion. I don't know how all other guys feel. However, I am not attracted to negative people, in the long run. What you said applies to some and perhaps lots of guys. I don't condone those men that do. However, there has to be a better forum for you to vent your gripes than in here. I don't think you're yourself a favor venting in here; it may turn off some of the very guys you want to attract.
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Ok yes you're right and Im sorry Im not one to usually be gender sided. Im usually a lot more careful when I write, as Im sure everyone understands we all have those frustrating moments or days when things just are going wrong. So I will be more careful when I write. Always be yourself
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Total honesty in a person is a rare thing. Most people will say a thing or exclude something, in the right situation, to get what they want or need. The best that can be hoped for is that the "right situation" is not applied to you. A totally honest person will appear blunt, brutish and mean. If a child does poorly in an activity, only a cruel person would say "That was awful!". On the other hand honesty can be tempered with creativity and and love. To say "You did your best" would be a more honest and kind answer then "You were great, scouts will be looking for you.. etc.". Such dishonesty disillusions and causes pain in the long run. Just a thought I could be way off... Sapere aude, cor ad cor loquitur. RaMbLiNgS oF a LoSt MiNd
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I think you're right. Most guys will say anything to get what they want. Maybe it's because they can't always get what they want. Maybe they're tired of trying. Maybe they thought the truth wouldn't work. But I could be wrong.
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12/9/2009 11:01 pm |
It really screws it up for the real "nice" guys. There is a reason why "Good guys always finish last!" became a common term. And the gold diggers out there who will use their hubbies money for a tummy tuck. It works both ways, as you can see. If you get hung up on it, it will ruin you. In todays technological world we meet so many people from afar. You can be, say, what you want to and NOT be held accountible. In older days..hehehe.. I'm not THAT old... the only way people knew each other was through personal contact. And there were much higher conciquences if you did not keep your word. I do find it more humorous on this site than I expect to have fun. But once in a while.... I am surpised!
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12/10/2009 11:14 pm |
no not all men that isnt fair to the rest of us that are
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Well I am on who has an opinion and will voice it people dont have to read it, they are free to voice their opinions just as well. We all have bad days and we vent that is what blogging is. And you know it works that nice girls finish last too. Always be yourself
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Thank you gentlelion and you are right Always be yourself
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I didnt think you were being rude gentlelion so no worries Always be yourself
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One CANNOT judge one sex by just a few bad people...Keep looking YOU WILL find that gem... FUN
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