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Doing This Does Not Make You Shine Brighter
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Doing This Does Not Make You Shine Brighter  The world is full of so much anger and negativity. Yes, it has always been around but lately, it seems worse than ever. Look around you and it is everywhere. I have heard and seen comments on pretty much everything: the way people look, on the way people write, on their photography, on what food they eat, on what they wear. It’s an infinite list. Calling someone fat won’t make you any thinner. Calling someone dumb doesn’t make you any smarter. Calling someone ugly doesn’t make you any more beautiful/handsome. Ruining someone else’s day won’t make yours any better. While it is difficult, remember that negative comments say more about the person making them, than the person they are intended for. The fact is that you do not make yourself better hurting someone else’s feelings. Use your words and actions t.o be kind and lift someone up. You and everyone else will be better off for it.  |
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Words hurt and can last forever. Why not be the instigator of a better tomorrow?
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I agree, and I really like what you wrote: "While it is difficult, remember that negative comments say more about the person making them, than the person they are intended for." absolutely true.
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This is so very true, thank you so much for pointing this out, and I hope everyone reads this one.. I hope you enjoy a terrific Tuesday.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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True... ❗😊 You and I have shared so many thoughts on this topic! 🌹❤️ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Great post !. I allowed a negative testimonial because i ve always felt that those kind of statements say more about the poster than it does abt me. Those that continually post comments in the negative vein...are suspect to me. Not good energy~ We never know whats going on behind the scenes of another. Its no skin off anyones back to be less critical and exhibit...kindness ~~
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You have nice thoughts and it would be real nice if all could abide.. But you know this is not a perfect world . We try to be nice, thoughtful and kind, even to turn the other cheek.....BUT when it is needed slap the shit out of them , call them out.. I know, not nice but some times it gives you just a GOOD feeling.. "Words hurt and can last forever. Why not be the instigator of a better tomorrow?" Yes they last forever. but sometimes they are needed to correct a yesterday... Sorry to have this opinion today , But I live in this real world with these other people. And some will never be nice, polite or truthful.. I do hope for you a good day , do be safe and careful.. I really was not raining on your parade, just some comments from down south.......   Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Very well said! My first reaction was to think "I hope those that need to hear this the most, will listen to such wisdom and recognize where they need to make changes in their own lives." It didn't take long for me to do some self assessment and recognize that, although I am very careful not to speak negatively toward or about others, I do not always make the extra time or take the extra effort to encourage and support others and "be kinder than necessary." Thank you for encouraging kindness today. “As with the butterfly, adversity is necessary to build character in people.” ~ JB Wirthlin 
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Its the new way of thinking !! You are not allowed to have an opinion that is different from the Mob The Mob will now tell you what you like and want !! The cancel culture is here rewriting history of all our nations and people facts don't matter much anymore only what makes the Mob feel Justified in their actions matters !! I am so glad i lived in the time I did cause the society is crumbling fast !!
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I agree, and I really like what you wrote: "While it is difficult, remember that negative comments say more about the person making them, than the person they are intended for." absolutely true.
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This is so very true, thank you so much for pointing this out, and I hope everyone reads this one.. I hope you enjoy a terrific Tuesday..
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Its the new way of thinking !! You are not allowed to have an opinion that is different from the Mob The Mob will now tell you what you like and want !! The cancel culture is here rewriting history of all our nations and people facts don't matter much anymore only what makes the Mob feel Justified in their actions matters !! I am so glad i lived in the time I did cause the society is crumbling fast !!
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Great post !. I allowed a negative testimonial because i ve always felt that those kind of statements say more about the poster than it does abt me. Those that continually post comments in the negative vein...are suspect to me. Not good energy~ We never know whats going on behind the scenes of another. Its no skin off anyones back to be less critical and exhibit...kindness ~~
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You have nice thoughts and it would be real nice if all could abide.. But you know this is not a perfect world . We try to be nice, thoughtful and kind, even to turn the other cheek.....BUT when it is needed slap the shit out of them , call them out.. I know, not nice but some times it gives you just a GOOD feeling.. "Words hurt and can last forever. Why not be the instigator of a better tomorrow?" Yes they last forever. but sometimes they are needed to correct a yesterday... Sorry to have this opinion today , But I live in this real world with these other people. And some will never be nice, polite or truthful.. I do hope for you a good day , do be safe and careful.. I really was not raining on your parade, just some comments from down south.......
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Kind of like everyone gets a participation trophy rather than a winner being declared. Of course, not everyone is required to share the same opinion. How boring would that be? Special treatment seems to be on a sliding scale. There are a lot of things wrong but we need to focus on the things that are right. Thanks for stopping by and providing your wide-ranging perspective.
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Very well said! My first reaction was to think "I hope those that need to hear this the most, will listen to such wisdom and recognize where they need to make changes in their own lives." It didn't take long for me to do some self assessment and recognize that, although I am very careful not to speak negatively toward or about others, I do not always make the extra time or take the extra effort to encourage and support others and "be kinder than necessary." Thank you for encouraging kindness today.
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True... ❗😊 You and I have shared so many thoughts on this topic! 🌹❤️
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I've always loved the quote "you can't catch any more wind in your sails by cutting holes in someone else's". B
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I've always loved the quote "you can't catch any more wind in your sails by cutting holes in someone else's". B
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Hi pretty lady ... I'll never understand people that put others down, for whatever reason. If there is one thing the human race does well, it's causing conflict and the killing of it's own ... In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Hi pretty lady ... I'll never understand people that put others down, for whatever reason. If there is one thing the human race does well, it's causing conflict and the killing of it's own ...
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