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Our view on the lifestyle  

strokin65 82M/77F
5 posts
2/26/2012 1:09 pm
Our view on the lifestyle

How long do you stay in the lifestyle. First of all we like swinging but we are not hardcore, and it doesn't consume our everyday lives. For us it is a recreational part of our lives, and it adds to the quality of our sex lives, but it is not something that we have to do every weekend to enjoy. There are some people where the lifestyle is a huge part of their lives. Every weekend they are at a club, or event, or with a couple. It seems to us that, that would take away some of the fun of it, and it would get old and repetitive after a while, and they might not look forward to it as much as they did before.

We look at it as a vacation. We look around and see if there is something we would be interested in and go for it. Like a vacation, it is something you look forward to, and if you have to work to hard at it, then it isn't as much fun. That's one of our perspectives on the lifestyle. We don't always get to play as often as we would like to...but such is life. There is always next time. That's another thing that keeps us going in the lifestyle. The anticipation of the next time.

For us, we're swingers, we are in it for the sex, and it is not all that important to us. Don't get me wrong we love the sex, that is what swinging is all about, meeting other people and having sex with them. If it leads to a good friendship that is a bonus. It is a form of recreation for us. If we are able to be with a couple once or twice a month that is more than enough for us. We don't feel we have to do it every weekend. By not doing it so often, gets us more excited and looking forward to it more every time. There again it is more quality than quantity for us.

In summary, I think people who don't take swinging so seriously, and don't make it such an important part of there lives, will tend to stay in the lifestyle longer and not get burnt out with it.

timexxx69 55M
64 posts
1/8/2014 1:24 am

 Very Well Said!


sonnny49 92M
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1/20/2014 12:41 pm

 You sound and look like very sensible mature people, just wish there were more like you and with the same philosophy. Hope we can meet and chat sometime.


JimS557 66M
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3/16/2014 9:28 am

 Love you attitude about sex.Hope to see you sometime.


sonnny49 92M
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2/5/2017 12:06 pm

 Wish you were both active. would love to be able to chat with you sometime. maybe over coffee or a glass of wine. Mail me please


tryingtwoscore2 55M
48 posts
6/9/2021 4:18 am

 Well done! Very well done indeed.Rarely have i come across such a well written,informative & entertaining posting.I do have one minor question if you don't mind? I understand that you've cut back on your activities preffering to focus on quality over quanity. I also can understand looking at swinging as a hobby or shared past time rather than an all consuming passion.However,as the moderators of a group called gang bange'rs of Omaha i'd be very interested to learn whether or not you & the Mrs.still engage in the occasional gang bang yourselves?


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