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idblueswoman 65F  
830 posts
7/2/2019 3:27 pm

I find both equally boring. 20 yrs ago erotic cyber was fun. I personally don't find the erotic stories here erotic at all. Just my 2 cents.


Kanatacock 54M
189 posts
7/2/2019 3:36 pm

I definitely find the cyber sex to be far more satisfying. Besides being my kink it involves 2 people exploring a sexually charged situation where they don't necessarily act as they would with current partners. Its a virtual world where you get to explore your sexual nature without causing harm to anyone(provided its mutual and consensual)


funsnellvillecpl 66M/54F  
3901 posts
7/2/2019 3:56 pm

like erotic stories more


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
7/2/2019 4:11 pm

I still enjoy both but I do tend to read more now...


ChrisOnHere801 47M
33 posts
7/2/2019 4:14 pm

I think both can be equally arousing and satisfying. However, I understand your reasoning for preferring erotic stories. Finding a person who is into the conversation and narrative to the extent that you are can be a challenge for cybersex. It tends to work better when you have some established relationship with the other person, or you are both turned on by a particular kink.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
7/2/2019 4:32 pm

Great question hun and it's so hard to choose just one..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
7/2/2019 4:35 pm

I celebrate their differences and the complementary needs they serve.

Like visual porn, erotic stories seek to inspire and animate our imaginations by asking us to suspend our preconceived notions and *submit* to the storyteller- who promises to navigate us to a climatic bliss. As the pilot commands us from the flight-deck: "Sit back, relax and enjoy the flight." Other than turning pages or scrolling a screen, your hand(s) are free to focus on self-pleasure

Cyber-porn can/should be interactive. Ideally, two creative minds (with good typing or verbal skills) are riffing off each other. There is a requisite input of energy that can elevate the sexual tension, but also exhaust. The *rewards* here can be a bit more elusive, but the *journey* has a unique physicality you don't feel reading someone else's fantasies.


shark15001 63M  
23 posts
7/2/2019 5:31 pm

Both have their place in different situations


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
7/2/2019 6:37 pm

Cyber sex is fun, but hopefully it's just really foreplay.

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GimmeAThrill 55M  
24635 posts
7/2/2019 8:43 pm

Does nobody do phone sex anymore?

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hazeleyes198469 39F

7/2/2019 10:03 pm

I love cyber sex


Shots30 48M
2312 posts
7/3/2019 4:08 am

I am not a big fan of either, but I do enjoy reading more than I do the cyber sex. Both are fun, but not my regular thing. Not sure exactly what I would do if visual porn was completely gone. LOL

Cheers!


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
7/3/2019 5:23 am

I've written a lot of stories in my blog, some fiction, some real. I enjoy writing out things as they happened or as I wish them to happen. I don't do it quite as much as I used to, because I am spending more time chatting directly with women and cybering/sexting with the ones that will drive over here once I get them so horny they cant stand it.

But I enjoy both equally.


RobK2006 56M
5998 posts
7/3/2019 6:07 am

I voted for cybersex because I can get REALLY horny chatting with women. But I also love reading erotica here. I love getting to read about what really turns women on.


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
7/3/2019 8:43 am

Cyber as a form of foreplay or teasing can be fun my lady
- although the two parties should be attuned to their needs and mood

(Not an small feat, I'm afraid)

As for erotic stories, very few allure me, in the blogs mainly

Cheers - P


caleliyan 60M
16 posts
7/3/2019 8:34 pm

I like both! All depends! But i prefer "real"! By the way, nice view in you profile photo! Kisses!


markymarky696969 43M

7/4/2019 2:05 am

I enjoy cyber with a very good friend that ive known for a long tim.
If we cant cam we do little videos for each other


freespirit11501 53M
1542 posts
7/5/2019 12:18 pm

My preference would be the erotic story. There are some people that when they write, they can paint such a detailed picture that I can see myself as one of the players in the piece. That to me is truly erotic. I write out my experiences in my blog and I try to capture all the little details of how I was feeling at the moment and I hope that the reader can feel that as well.

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Lonely2518 59F

7/7/2019 7:27 am

I like both the stories and cyber sex. The stories I can imagine what is going on and sometimes I can put myself in the stories being told. With cyber sex, I am usually the one that is doing the typing because the women who want me to chat want me to do all the work. Which is fine, I don't have to wait for responses and I can imagine the women are squirming with delight as I tell them what I am doing to them.


TJAY762 47M

7/9/2019 12:09 pm

id say the cyber....and if all goes well hot phone is way better....the interaction and ability to talk sex free open and uninhibitedly with a woman is extremely sexy.


Afarmerguy1 47M
16 posts
7/11/2019 10:40 am

They both have their time and place


Chuckk48 67M

7/13/2019 8:58 pm

Actually truth be known I enjoy writing erotic stories more than reading them When you write you can lose yourself in the story, make it exactly what you want it to be. I have tried cyber sex but I found it to be repetitive. Once you do it that's it. Frankly I think the optimum is a cross between cyber and writing. Writing a story with someone allows you to think about what you say, where you're going with the story line while you still have the interaction of cyber.


sexy_notes_4u 57M
108 posts
7/14/2019 6:20 am

I enjoy both. Cybersex is good when we are both turned on and trying to get each other off. I enjoy seeing her immediate reactions and then the virtual orgasm. With certain friends you can tell when they orgasm (besides them telling you) because their chat slightly changes.

With erotic stories, I think of 2 different types. 1 - Stories that the writer is communicating through their own experiences (true stories are hotter). 2 - Stories that put the reader in the narrative. The writer describes sexual acts on you (the reader).

I've experienced a combination where I'm emailing a friend and we are exchanging back and forth scenarios of what we're doing to each other. We go at our own pace but still get some "immediate" interaction/reaction to our exchanges.


seekingbifmm 40M

7/17/2019 10:57 am

What kinds of erotic stories are you into? I tend to gravitate towards incest.


Acquaman2019 48M
25 posts
7/22/2019 2:58 pm

i like to mix. i like to write erotic stories bi imagination when i'm chatting with a girl


Lostent61 47M  
28 posts
7/24/2019 4:48 pm

Depends on the other person, if it someone that I know or have had spent time with cyber is better for me. I, however, really enjoy stories because you don't have to worry about being completely on the same page as the author to enjoy it.


BungalowBill1965 59M
24 posts
7/26/2019 7:21 am

I guess it depends on the mood you're in at the moment


rm_1littlehose 61M
528 posts
7/26/2019 1:45 pm

I voted equally. I too, do mot find many stories erotic, just sexual in nature. Some are more like a fiction story than a real experience. Just my 2 cents.
thanks for the poll and Bra-less Pic!


The2ofus007 56M/55F
59 posts
8/2/2019 1:20 am

I like stories more


jrtex12 51M
18 posts
8/5/2019 7:47 am

i love the erotic stories. they get me so hard.


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
12/28/2020 3:35 am

I mostly prefer erotic stories.

It would be interesting to see the same poll with gender attached.


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