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scoupe42 60M
6747 posts
3/27/2014 7:13 pm

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3/29/2014 1:16 pm




We all have choices in our lives. What we choose, may have consequences. A while back I made a choice and I choose to take my gas, food, and entertainment money for the pay period and go to the casino. I figured that I would quadruple my money. WRONG! I lost everything but the draws off my ass. I had to borrow money for gas, and lucky for me I had some food in the house. I couldn't get mad because it was my choice. Probably a good thing, if I would had won. I would have eventually lost it, so but not winning, I hardly go at all now. I knew of a young person, a young , during my years, that choose to hang with some bad people, they did some bad things, but by him being there with them he had a check mark against him. The same team, was really a good , but he was poor and broke and he lived in a bad environment. The young man made a choice to steal a few things, he got caught, the man who owner the store was so upset with people stealing from him, so he press charges against the . It was under $5 for the items he stole, his parents paid the store owner and the team got another check mark against him. Years passed the got excellent grades in school and excel, he became a great young man, he was being around a different crowd of people, he made honor roll. When It was time for him to graduate, his parents a school try to find a way for him to get a scholarship. Well, he didn't, so sad. His choices in the pass mess up his future. Wow! No scholarship. Not sure if we ever went to college, this was a long time ago. Another story, when I was in the military, I had a friend, who him and his lady was tied at the hip. They were a great item. He loved her and was good to her , she was 5 yrs older, but he didn't care. There was another guy in the military that always had a crush on her, he knew it and couldn't stand that guy. My friend, had a girlfriend back at home, he was from Maryland. He was going to got back and end it with her and stay with his lady here. He was going to go on vacation, he mentioned to his lady, not to talk to the other guy, he told her that the other guy was no good, he was a good talker, and whatever she does, don't listen to him, he's a great bull shitter too. If she will sleep with him it would be over between them. He said, he going to be back in two weeks, if she cheat and be with that other guy, it's over. So one Saturday she went out, unfortunately she went on base. Of course, you know who was there. He told her, why is she waiting for him, he probably sleeping with his girlfriend now, don't be a fool. She listened and had a few drinks, and you know the rest, she was under his sheets and she slept with him. She was hurt,and said she going to deny it when he get back. He came back in town, when to her place and ask for his stuff, she said why? He said, I told you not to sleep with him, I broke up with my girlfriend and you do this to me, It's over. He moved on. He put in for orders and left the Air bases. She went to the other guy and ask if he want to try to start something, he told her, you crazy, all I wanted was sex! Get the fuck away from me. So as life passed everybody moved on. Years later, about 15yrs, I was visiting some older military friends I knew. This one older guy come to the BBQ and he has a much younger woman with him. I said, I know her, and behold. I was my buddy in the military lady. This guy was 30yrs older. She was embarrass to see me, especially after all these year. So I kept it brief and only said hi, and how is things? She said hi, and not good, I mess up, years ago. I made some bad "CHOICES"!!!!!!

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
3/29/2014 10:24 am

We all make choice they might be right or wrong but we have to accept the end product when we do. Wow this is a story. ty for sharing..

Some choices we live not only once but a thousand times over, remembering them for the rest of our lives.

Richard Bach

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