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"Throwing the first stone"!  

scoupe42 60M
6747 posts
5/26/2021 5:02 pm

Last Read:
5/27/2021 1:26 pm

"Throwing the first stone"!

I have a friend who been fucking up for years! He's a bull-shiter , crook and a lier and his wife is nieve! He so good at lying he can get you to believe his Shennanigans! In life sometimes things comes to and end or we reap what we sow. This guy is lucky, he always "Get of of jail free card". He mess up and never learns. He got an answer for every situation and being on a surveillance camera, he would alway say the same thing. "It wasn't me"! He been doing this to his wife and for 20 years.

Still shcoked, she has no clue! Several weeks a got him on expired tags and there was a warrant for his arrest, with multiple charges. So when he called his wife, he deny all the charges. "It wasn't me'! Knowing him, he's guilty! I bet for all the charges. His wife told me his has bail is $175,000 and she not going to get him out. Did his luck run out? I want him to learn from what he done, for if he never learn he would always be a repeat offender. So I had that mindset when I talked to his wife.

So when asked, I mentioned stuff in a round about way and even volunteer information, for she had no clue. He fooled her for 20 years and I mentioned that he had another life, a criminal life. That he's selfish, a crook and don't care. It was revealed about some of his affairs. He messed around with this woman 3 years, and ofcourse, she had no clue! After all I said, I fiqured his wife deserve better. Then my conscience got to me. So was I wrong for letting her know his dirty.

I felted bad for her. I exposed a lot, and his relationship with her might not be the same. I have early morning appointment, but last night I could sleep. I kept thing about a quote from the bible, about the woman who committed adultry, some men was going to stone her. Jesus said " He without Sin cast the first stone". Maybe I should had let God handle the situation? I meant well, but I feel like I stoned my friend, eventhough he was wrong. I was so mess up and did make it for my appointment. I felted so bad, maybe I should be the one being stoned!











scoupe42 60M

5/27/2021 1:26 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Well my friend you know sometimes we just have to say what is on our minds. I am sure his wife appreciated you telling her all his dirty deeds. I hope she gets smart and tosses him to the curb. I am glad she left him in jail he needs some time to think about all the bad things he has done.

    I hope you enjoy an awesome Thursday..
Hi my friend, thx for viewing and feedback. I wish you have an awesome day too


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
5/27/2021 8:41 am

Well my friend you know sometimes we just have to say what is on our minds. I am sure his wife appreciated you telling her all his dirty deeds. I hope she gets smart and tosses him to the curb. I am glad she left him in jail he needs some time to think about all the bad things he has done.

I hope you enjoy an awesome Thursday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


scoupe42 60M

5/27/2021 7:40 am

    Quoting luv2suk1966:
    I think you did the right thing, too. She would've found out sooner or later. Wives always do! We have a friend that has led his life the same way. Nothing is ever good enough. He cheats, lies, exaggerates all the time - needs a bigger house, more badass motorcycle, bigger pool, bigger deck, etc... He was cheating on his wife years ago with this coke whore. He and his wife divorced, now he has to deal with this scumbag of a girlfriend who doesn't work, took over his bank account, and constantly brings in her worthless kids and grandkids. It's killing him, he knows he screwed up, but here he sits. Lately, he lied about the motorcycle he sold to a gang member. Not good. They're coming to get him.
Karma! My friend used his last "Get out of jail free card". I wish no bad, by he going to pay the price and he going to lose everything. I was given so many chances to redeem himself, but he would say, just one more time. I hope they don't hurt ihim in jail, besides that I don't feel bad for him.


scoupe42 60M

5/27/2021 7:36 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    I have told people that I will not rat them out but I will not lie for them either.

    It was a married friend meeting a GF out of town at a seminar we were all attending. I wasn't going to call his wife. But if she asked, I wouldn't lie to her either. He made sure I never saw his GF so I could honestly say I did not see him with anyone else. Thankfully she never asked about that weekend.
I do agree on not raing on someone's parade, but his wife is so nieve, I just gave hints, I didn't directly say what he was doing, I just gave hints.


scoupe42 60M

5/27/2021 7:32 am

    Quoting  :

Hi my friend, I had to. His wife was believing the lies and we could had got her back in his web and he would had gotten another "Get out of jail free card"


luv2suk1966 63M/57F
1927 posts
5/27/2021 4:09 am

I think you did the right thing, too. She would've found out sooner or later. Wives always do! We have a friend that has led his life the same way. Nothing is ever good enough. He cheats, lies, exaggerates all the time - needs a bigger house, more badass motorcycle, bigger pool, bigger deck, etc... He was cheating on his wife years ago with this coke whore. He and his wife divorced, now he has to deal with this scumbag of a girlfriend who doesn't work, took over his bank account, and constantly brings in her worthless kids and grandkids. It's killing him, he knows he screwed up, but here he sits. Lately, he lied about the motorcycle he sold to a gang member. Not good. They're coming to get him.

Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


Ultraviolet_Sol 43M
622 posts
5/27/2021 1:04 am

That is a though one...

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PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
5/27/2021 12:15 am

I have told people that I will not rat them out but I will not lie for them either.

It was a married friend meeting a GF out of town at a seminar we were all attending. I wasn't going to call his wife. But if she asked, I wouldn't lie to her either. He made sure I never saw his GF so I could honestly say I did not see him with anyone else. Thankfully she never asked about that weekend.


scoupe42 60M

5/26/2021 8:46 pm

    Quoting nsnguystill:
    tough call. did you tell him for her good or for your good?
    " His wife told me his has bail is $175,000 and she not going to get him out"
    you could have just agreed with her and left it at that.
    and in the end, when she changes her mind, and after they have the makeup sex... you will be the bad guy
    bonne vie
Your right, I probably should had kept my mouth shout. Did I do it for me hor him? Both, I want him to learn a lesson and I feel bad for how he treat her, I had a mom and have a sister, I don't want them to be mistreated. I know he going to be mad, and our friendship must be over. But if so, let it be. But his wife won't have to live a lie. The way she love him, who knows she might forgive him.


scoupe42 60M

5/26/2021 8:36 pm

    Quoting Ellasboudoir:
    Not sure you were throwing the first stone as much as helping someone who could potentially be hurt very badly. I see you as a hero not a bad guy.
Thanks for viewing and the kind words!


scoupe42 60M

5/26/2021 8:18 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I'm the last person to judge anyone about anything but, I have my 'lines'.
    Your 'lines' are yours to own and do with what you will. ❗❗😎
Hi Paul, I felt bad at first, but what I did was something I should had done years ago.


nsnguystill 71M
428 posts
5/26/2021 7:15 pm

tough call. did you tell him for her good or for your good?
" His wife told me his has bail is $175,000 and she not going to get him out"
you could have just agreed with her and left it at that.
and in the end, when she changes her mind, and after they have the makeup sex... you will be the bad guy
bonne vie

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


scoupe42 60M

5/26/2021 7:15 pm

    Quoting  :

Hi my friend, I appreciate the feedback, awesome feedback. I probaby should had mentioned it to her years ago. We got back in touch 9 years ago, and it was 8 years that I knew. He mentioned to me that he was going to get help and stop messing around. I didn't want to ruin the marriage and I really didn't know her, I met her twice in 9 years. I guess If I did know her like I knwon him, I might had told her. But, I feel good she knows now! My freind, I appreciate your opinion!


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/26/2021 6:59 pm

Not sure you were throwing the first stone as much as helping someone who could potentially be hurt very badly. I see you as a hero not a bad guy.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/26/2021 5:51 pm

I'm the last person to judge anyone about anything but, I have my 'lines'.
Your 'lines' are yours to own and do with what you will. ❗❗😎


scoupe42 60M

5/26/2021 5:12 pm

So if this was bibilcal time and somebody was a snitch, would they be stoned?


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