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"Life is too short to be stressing......  

scoupe42 60M
6747 posts
12/6/2021 6:38 pm

Last Read:
12/31/2021 4:20 am

"Life is too short to be stressing......

I'm broke as hell, I'm not going lie. I'm broker than a Broke Dick Dog! Now, that's broke. We all need money for bills, food, and just survive. But are some don't $$, they just waiting to die! So sad, but true. But, the same person finds money for alcohol, drinking alcohol not rubbing. Broke, but get their drank on. I knew a guy had too much timeon his hand, he eventually drank himself to death. Then you got the guy with criminal record, they use that as an excuse not to apply for a job.

They got a grip of and they got " BABY Mama Drama"! This guy said, I can't work for if I do, they would take the for back support. I said, how many ? He said, 4 from 3 different women! I said him, STOP FUCKING!!!!!, Then I said to him, dude heard this thing called a "Vesectomy"? Get this and no more " BABY Mama Drama!" He said, No one is going clip my balls! Stupid Motherfucker, almost 40 but still act 17. I told him, if they take half the money , you still the other half.

He so broke, he can't even a pack of gum. He's the Mercy of the person he lives with. In the 80s, was a man in my neighbor, that would climb in dumpster and fill trash bag with cans. He would no less than 10 full big trash bags with cans. During this time the can was .65 a pound. Several weeks he make about $300 selling his cans. A honest week of work. He get a check, but he realized do more he need more . He got a disability .

With the money from the cans, he was good! But, I knew women that had "SuggarDaddies" and I had a buddy had a"SuggarMomma". We can't just stay home, we need some fun! I retired and I now panic attacks so 's hard for me do a 9to5. But, i'm lucky. I also a 401k, once in a while I can tapped into that a get do fun things! I do enjoy fun things. "life is too short to be stressing over "! Some can cut someone grass, or clean apartments, always ways make $$$$$.











scoupe42 60M

12/31/2021 4:20 am

    Quoting lunchandconvo:
    older me would tell younger me to stay at the boring ass job for the pension... but what they did was because i was young they flipped me to a 401K but my older friend lulu got to keep it as a pension. she stayed to retirement and has a comfortable cushion along with money from her husband and the government monthly.

    i'm in a saving mode with my big job this year. i've been stockpiling cash into retirement. it's not enough w/ folks saying you need 1M to retire. how in the world?! i save but i'm not saving like THAT?!

    one day i finally asked my friend renee just WHAT did her sister do for a living? i had known renee all through our MegaU days and well past those university days. never a convo on her sister's occupation. finally she spells it out. her sister has a lot of "friends". all the friends pick up a bill. but now her sister finally has a job. i dunno what it is. i'm not asking.

    i'm glad you have your retirement and can grab a spare job when you need it.

    i will likely shift gears as i'm 51 now and do high dollar contract work for The Client. they don't always work you every month as a temp. but it's enough in a year that it's worth not doing salary with more bullshit. Client just wants their metrics met. they don't want to get into a drama fight.
My friend, I always love your feedback, I'm blessed to have the retirement, since like life is treating you good as well! Thx for viewing


lunchandconvo 53F  
4034 posts
12/28/2021 11:57 pm

older me would tell younger me to stay at the boring ass job for the pension... but what they did was because i was young they flipped me to a 401K but my older friend lulu got to keep it as a pension. she stayed to retirement and has a comfortable cushion along with money from her husband and the government monthly.

i'm in a saving mode with my big job this year. i've been stockpiling cash into retirement. it's not enough w/ folks saying you need 1M to retire. how in the world?! i save but i'm not saving like THAT?!

one day i finally asked my friend renee just WHAT did her sister do for a living? i had known renee all through our MegaU days and well past those university days. never a convo on her sister's occupation. finally she spells it out. her sister has a lot of "friends". all the friends pick up a bill. but now her sister finally has a job. i dunno what it is. i'm not asking.

i'm glad you have your retirement and can grab a spare job when you need it.

i will likely shift gears as i'm 51 now and do high dollar contract work for The Client. they don't always work you every month as a temp. but it's enough in a year that it's worth not doing salary with more bullshit. Client just wants their metrics met. they don't want to get into a drama fight.


scoupe42 60M

12/7/2021 8:17 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You know my friend life is too short to stress over money especially. Although we need it to survive. There is an old saying. Money doesn't cause happiness sometimes it causes more problems.

    Just live your life and enjoy it my friend as you have worked hard your whole life and you deserve to enjoy your life now..I hope your Tuesday is filled with many fun thrills..
Always, thanks for the kind words!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
12/7/2021 10:54 am

You know my friend life is too short to stress over money especially. Although we need it to survive. There is an old saying. Money doesn't cause happiness sometimes it causes more problems.

Just live your life and enjoy it my friend as you have worked hard your whole life and you deserve to enjoy your life now..I hope your Tuesday is filled with many fun thrills..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


scoupe42 60M

12/7/2021 5:32 am

    Quoting  :

Yes it does!


scoupe42 60M

12/7/2021 5:31 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Regular use of a condom will prevent baby mama drama. Our county health depts hand them out for free.
I wish someone told that guy a while back! Thx for viewing


scoupe42 60M

12/7/2021 5:30 am

    Quoting  :

Morning, thanks for sharing the awesome feedback!


scoupe42 60M

12/7/2021 5:28 am

    Quoting  :

Wise words of wisdom!


scoupe42 60M

12/7/2021 5:27 am

Thanks for viewing


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
12/7/2021 1:26 am

Regular use of a condom will prevent baby mama drama. Our county health depts hand them out for free.


DarkStar629 43M

12/6/2021 11:03 pm

truth


scoupe42 60M

12/6/2021 8:30 pm

    Quoting LadiesR2B1rst:
    Enjoyed reading this. Some people never plan ahead. Others work and save every penny and never enjoy life. They usually pass away and leave everything for family or strangers to enjoy. I guess we all need to find something we enjoy doing and at least keep the bills paid and have food and shelter. Thank You.
Thanks for viewing and feedback


scoupe42 60M

12/6/2021 8:29 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    I learned early in life by watching friends and some family members, You got to work every day , even a lot of Saturdays and Sundays. Save, build up the 401-K, work at places with pensions. You need anything that will pay you when you get ready to retire.. work and you can enjoy life and as you work save for the time when you can retire, It works.. One can be comfy later in life, but you got to keep it to the grinding wheel while you are young..
    Good post, makes people think..
Thanks for viewing and awesome feedback.!


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
12/6/2021 7:37 pm

Enjoyed reading this. Some people never plan ahead. Others work and save every penny and never enjoy life. They usually pass away and leave everything for family or strangers to enjoy. I guess we all need to find something we enjoy doing and at least keep the bills paid and have food and shelter. Thank You.


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
12/6/2021 7:26 pm

I learned early in life by watching friends and some family members, You got to work every day , even a lot of Saturdays and Sundays. Save, build up the 401-K, work at places with pensions. You need anything that will pay you when you get ready to retire.. work and you can enjoy life and as you work save for the time when you can retire, It works.. One can be comfy later in life, but you got to keep it to the grinding wheel while you are young..
Good post, makes people think..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


scoupe42 60M

12/6/2021 6:43 pm

There's money to be made.


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