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When your play partner gets a new gf  

VegKitten 57F
117 posts
12/25/2014 7:40 pm
When your play partner gets a new gf

One of my very best play partners changed his relationship status to 'in a relationship' on fb today. Though, I AM happy for him, I don't know if I will fit into the picture anymore with him. I am his friend and want him to be happy. He doesn't seem the type who could be tied to just one person, but with strong enough feelings, maybe he can be.

I do not know what type of relationship they will be having. (mono, poly, open, evolving….?). I haven't had the chance to speak with him yet…

If I am phased out, I wish him the best of luck, but will sorely miss playing with him… I know that everything in life is temporary, though, and still have other play partners to have sexy times with…

Oceana1969 58F  
442 posts
12/25/2014 7:49 pm

 It's aways nice to be the last to know when we are involved, isn't it? I'm sorry for your pain and his lack of honesty.


VegKitten 57F
53 posts
12/25/2014 7:52 pm

 May not be lack of honesty… It seems that this just happened for him.


VegKitten 57F
53 posts
12/25/2014 7:55 pm

 To be clear: he and I were never in a monogamous or committed relationship, so him dating other women was not off-limits. I also date other men, and he was fully aware of that. If feelings developed for him, I should be happy for him. Like I said; not sure what kinda relationship they have (open/mono/poly?). I still may be able to play with him, but maybe not.


NudeDon69 54M  
1442 posts
12/25/2014 10:38 pm

 Maybe he changed his status because of you. Maybe he just wants to be more committed to you.
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VegKitten replies on 12/25/2014 11:41 pm:
I don't know.. He never expressed anything like that to me…

MovingOn001 68M
929 posts
12/25/2014 10:53 pm

 Hopefully within the next day or so you'll have the chance to talk with him. When you do, you will then have a better idea what's happening with him and whether or how you may fit with him in regards to his new relationship.

I've always found that it is when things are uncertain that my stress levels are highest. Once the uncertainty ends, even if the news is not good, I can then deal with it because I know what the situation is for better or worse. Best of Luck to you and hopefully things will turn out the way you wish them to do so.


VegKitten 57F
53 posts
12/25/2014 11:42 pm

 Yes, I hope to talk with him soon...


TALL_GUY_IN_STL 49M  
102 posts
1/4/2015 9:29 am

 There are only 3 things that I can think of that might cheer you up:

1. Massage oil
2. Hot wax
3. My cock


VegKitten replies on 1/4/2015 2:21 pm:
HAHAHA you seem to know my weaknesses, ML!

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