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11/15/2017 10:23 am |
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There are several benefits to me residing in this community. First this is a place where I can be open about my sexuality and that of others in a relatively judgement free zone. This includes being able to write about my experiences in this creative outlet (blogging) and even educate others about some of what I consider the right ways to go about adult behavior. Second...I can actually but rarely meet an individual from this community and occasionally engage in sexual and/or adult behaviors. I have had a great time! It is all about attitude, approach and presentation! What is your AAP?
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I am still here because I have chatted with and met some very wonderful people... including my late wife. I have received and given great advice and have gained a lot of incite into who I am and why. And most of the people I have met in person have been worth the work and effort.
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There isn't one really and just force of habit keeps me logging in. However latest gold status expires in 48 hours and really done with renewing it as the site is old and tire and lost its way completely It used to be blogs but i have so much less to say now and frankly the period about 2 years ago when the femi nazi/SJW brigade were rampant was probably the nail in the coffin
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What's the incentive to you for being on here? - Originally, I can here looking for a local playmate. YES someone to have sex with, but also someone that I genuinely liked as a person, someone that, as I like say, has a good time with me, even when we're NOT nekkid. I was moderately successful in that, and at least two are still very good and close friends, though no longer playmates (for varying reasons.) What is the continued benefit to you - One of the aforementioned local playmates was also a major blogger. She introduced me to blogging, which in turn opened up a wider geographic spectrum of potential playmates, in the form of "blogging buddies" Blogging provides a way to get to know these ladies. Once they know me, how can they POSSIBLY turn down a chance to play, when I show up (after being properly invited!!) in their hometown? Direct, honest, and blunt enough for you? Music, On HNW Im Sooo Confused Clue the Jetsons [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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So questions to the men...what's the incentive to you for being on here? I get to interact with all types of interesting women from all over the world. I'm a huge flirt and I can do a lot of that here and not suffer any negative repercussions from it. I can also be a generous person and have occasions to display that here. I get to compete in certain aspects of the site with men and don't have to say anything directly to them. What is the continued benefit to you? Stroking egos and having my ego stroked on a daily basis makes me feel good.
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I came here after an essentially sexless relationship that also had other unpleasant aspects to it. I did not want to get into a similar situation. A simple “get laid” situation seemed like it would fit the bill. That is something not easy to find in person in the little communities near me. I have found some of that here and also found a couple women who I think/thought something long term with would be a good thing. Blogging tends keeps me here regularly in case an opportunity to meet someone presents itself. The idea of this post is good. However, not allowing interaction between people detracts from the ability of people to discuss important issues. Feel free to post this up. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I stay here for the entertainment. Love to view profiles and the information the you can gather is quite amazing.I have been to 3 carnivals 2 circuses and a goat ropin and it don't get any better than this. Feel free to respond I love the banter
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Not much benefit left to being on here. Like flowerkings said, mostly force of habit these days. Mostly I just read the blogs and magazine page where one in 1000 post will be even slightly entertaining these days. I did meet someone from here and we now live together so that will always be a positive.
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I was originally here for reasons very similar to redrockrascal. I only met 2 women in about 2 and a half years. I wouldn't have signed back up for gold if it wasn't offered at a steep discount. I discovered the blogs and articles and I like to read and learn so that's why I'm still here. There are very few real women on this site in my area and even fewer respond to polite messages. I'll let my gold expire and keep reading until they start charging for that too. Great post La la.
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Just a space for people to speak freely and without [perceived] judgement That is good and may have allowed some to open up more than they might have - or not. I would suggest a post to solely discuss whatever benefits people get and/or want here. And, hopefully, you get more than just the usual complaints (male assholes, fake females et al). If people want to just copy/paste their first responses that's fine. It's a thoughtful discussion (no anger but questions are good IM you're looking for. Call it: Open Discussion About Your Benefits of being on A*F*F. Or something like that. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Just a space for people to speak freely and without [perceived] judgement That is good and may have allowed some to open up more than they might have - or not. I would suggest a post to solely discuss whatever benefits people get and/or want here. And, hopefully, you get more than just the usual complaints (male assholes, fake females et al). If people want to just copy/paste their first responses that's fine. It's a thoughtful discussion (no anger but questions are good IM you're looking for. Call it: Open Discussion About Your Benefits of being on A*F*F. Or something like that. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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There really is no incentive to be on this site. You sign up expecting to find a lot of sexual partners to share some experiences with but quickly realized that you're just one of thousands trying to be acknowledged by at least one women. You send message after message like a shipwreck survivor throwing messages in a bottle hoping someone finds it in the vast ocean but eventually that hope dies. I'm still here because of the blogs. It may not be an acceptable answer for you but it's the truth. There's not many places where a guy can be open and honest about sex or my case my lack thereof and not have to put on this false bravado to hide your vulnerability. Because it's hard to talk about your struggles or conquests without sounding weak or like an asshole. It's cathartic to get those ideas out of your head.
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Hi Lala--I'm only responding because you asked for input and this is really relevant and important subject, and timely because I haven't been active and have seriously almost quit like 100 times, lol! What's the incentive? Well, there are actually real people (women) here. Originally it was to meet people, and yes, to have some adult fun. Because, duh it's in the title! I forgot how I found out about TSdates.com but what I did notice right away the quality of women, and I actually was contacted by several very early on...which does NOT happen on vanilla sites. Traditional dating sites have gone to the shitter, seriously. Even trustworthy ones (match, pof, okc) are shells of their former selves. I occasionally see an TSdates.com'er on there but do NOT contact them. Seems like poor etiquette. But I do slyly smile to myself. Digression, anyway. I met several women (yes, several--is there an emoji for arrogant smirk? lol). And had some good fun on the way. But then things sort of dried up. Less activity, less interesting people. Ghosting...etc. It got boring. The reason I stay, is like a lot of people (men and women) who responded to your two posts: lack of opportunity to meet people because of where they live. And I live in the damned boonies. There are more cows than people. So I need as much of a pool of potential people as possible. Going back to the quality factor, TSdates.com remarkably has proven to have really nice, intelligent, shall I say, normal (lol) women and I presume, men. It is unfortunate that so many live so far away. We are all so spread out. I think blogging is the elephant in the room. You can't blog on most traditional sites and that is TSdates.com's secret weapon. We can't have this honest conversation without admitting that if TSdates.com decided to end the blogging platform, the site would sink faster than the Titanic. Stroking for answers... Q
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So since I can't say for blogging ....because I really don't do that myself any more. I'm going to say for the mental stimulation I get from reading interacting with an ever decreasing number of bloggers (i.e. at this point there's really only two blogs I routine read and comment on ...... and your is one ) So yeah, I'm gonna say you're 50% of the reason I even bother logging in here any more.....
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