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3/27/2018 7:18 pm |
The Mind works in Mysterious Ways....
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Not a man so this is what some men might think. If a woman doesn't want a man who is attached she must be looking for more then sex. If all she wants is sex then it should be ok if he is attached. If she wants a regular sex partner, not a one time fast fuck then she must really want more. If us women are not wanting what the ads say we must want more then sex. Again what some might think. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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Wow, Pirates of the Caribbean and Rush Hour in one post how diverse. Before I read War and Peace . . . er . . . I mean your profile - 3 words "Less is More". Just sayin When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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*kicks back with pop corn and a glass of wine* brought my own snacks to this one, Miss Lala...I'll be waiting to see what you get here. "Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black
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I will be watching with interest. My own thoughts are: 1) Many of the men on this site don't bother to read and digest profiles. 2) Many of the men here have bought into the fantasy of female members who are free sex vending machines...text at a moment's notice when it's convenient for you, and you can be on your way over for a booty call. Anything beyond that - like going out to dinner or a movie before having sex - how DARE you expect that Lala!? 3) Most of the men who bother to read blogs are of a better ilk than the ones I mentioned in 1 and 2, so probably you're going to get a lot of responses saying "your profile is just fine Lala".
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BiggLala replies on 3/27/2018 9:04 pm: Wait...does the less/more thing only pertain to women (me)? As I've mentioned only a few times before men and women aren't all that different. Women don't seem to read them either So my less is more is to everyone. But you can make it ALLLLL about you if you wish. Yours and my profile is about the same length. Geeez really? Why does EVERYTHING have to be about size with youse wimmen? I recently cut mine down some and I'm going to shorten it more soon. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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3/27/2018 9:36 pm |
Wow, Pirates of the Caribbean and Rush Hour in one post how diverse. Before I read War and Peace . . . er . . . I mean your profile - 3 words "Less is More". Just sayin Just an opinion though Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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Hmmmm, just my thoughts but are you really interested in a man who can't read and comprehend the written word. Seems to me that might be the first test of suitability.......
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3/27/2018 9:53 pm |
Your profile is about you, and I think that you are long term happier to exclude those who are a poor match for you anyway, so make it what you want and if it ends up being a list of negatives, that is great, because that is you. I would personally love to meet you in person and I think that I would have a riot taking you out, but I have accepted that I am not the sort of person that women are looking to date. But the profile that I read, has two paragraphs in both the what you are looking for section, one very small, and about yourself part, the second of which was significant, now I am special but if I was just scanning your profile I would almost certainly have passed over the second paragraph, totally unread. I instantly liked the you that you presented in the first one though so you might consider just that. To be Honest, my read of your profile is that you are not down to fuck in the first 15 minutes of meeting someone, you just aren't. You might dream about it but odds are you are not dragging some guy you just met off to the powder room for a hot fast one. Not that that is an in any way and bad thing, you are looking for something enduring if not extremely defined and mature, the sort of person that I would like to meet but for distance and time. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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I can't help thinking of junior high class elections, where someone would post a sign that said: "SEX!!!! - now that I have your attention, vote Timmy McBurgelson for class president." Even back when our drippy fun-parts were fresh out of the box, we knew what sold. I don't know, I like your profile. I've read it before and did again just now. It's well written - identifies you as intelligent. It's playful, light, straight forward - gives me a fair snapshot of who you are and what you're looking for. Mixes in a bit of sex, which is where 99.999999999999999999% of the hetero-male readers will zero-in. But then, I'm not your target audience. Still, I want to be helpful and find a decent guy that will help feed this blog with all sorts of fun dating stories, and a little dirty-filthy-naughtiness to boot. So, if I want to be constructively critical - a few thoughts. First off, you say absolutely nothing about yoga and hiking. Perfect! You have a brief profile on your, well, profile page, along with a link to your blog, where all the really descriptive and important stuff resides. But then, your whole blog is just a big-huge extension of your profile. Tons and tons of text where, if someone's interested (and interesting), they'll read through and find out more than you even write in the profile description pinned here. They need to click-in to get here and find all this great stuff, though. I think maybe you could use a better grabber. I know, I know - your profile invites to your blog, but there's really nothing about YOU on your profile page. Just this paragraph that directs guys to keep reading (and working) elsewhere: Please visit my site blog to view my full profile, Lala's Main Profile Viewable by All Members, on which Standard members can also message me. You may also follow this link ---> The Lalaverse or click the tab from my profile page above. Note: you must use the full web version of the site to view my blog page, it is not available via the mobile site. So, let's pretend I'm a guy. Your picture caught my eye and got me to click on your profile. When I get there, your profile tells me I need to go somewhere else to find out about you. Guys are lazy. I think it might help to give them something more about you. Call it a reward for that first click on you photo. Just a suggestion, and it won't hurt my feelings one bit if you think I'm off the rails here, but maybe you could take your profile from this page, cut it down, and then post it on your profile page along a link to your blog where they can find more. But, in the mean time, you've given them a taste. Here's what I had in mind, using your profile description (oh, *cough* and I spiced it up just a smidge). Visit my blog and find out more => The Lalaverse.
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Ooooo...I like what Januaryman99 wrote for you.....not that I am a man and Sorry to say I dont know if its actually any "better" than your own words in your profile as I havent read it. You could always add your own twist to his words or some of them.
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Seems clear enough, IF anybody reads it. Perhaps the issue is the size of the pool that meets the requirements in the OKC metro. Tools, on HNW BBB Best Boobs on Blogs Volume 8 Rachel Ways to be a Better Person in 2018 [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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BiggLala replies on 3/28/2018 12:38 pm: I love getting people to do my homework. Damn I'm good!!! ================================================== Just trying to get you laid, is all. Worth putting the work in.
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Did Januaryman really just say back when our drippy fun-parts were fresh out of the box?????" Dang... I don't know if I want to throw up or have sex. This is a whole new feeling! Honestly, I think you'd be better off with just the bare bones on your profile. List your requirements and your dealbreakers and then invite men/couples to write you or visit your blog. Take it from there in terms of compatibility. I'm thinking about rewriting mine but I probably should wait for a cunty-level 2 or lower day first.
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BiggLala replies on 3/27/2018 11:31 pm: I'm waiting as well. As you can see, we're gonna need a bigger bucket of popcorn because we might run out waiting for the show to start. You have any cheddar flavor over there? Sorry, no cheddar flavor... Well, so far, some interesting feedback...and bonus stars to Januaryman...stellar job on the rewrite. That man has a talent...I agree, he could write all of our profiles, lol. I know I'd pay pretty much whatever price he asked, within reason...or not. Do you need a refill?? "Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black
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I'm a prolific profile reader (try saying that when you've had a bit too much to drink). Your profile is straight forward enough. You get your points across as clear as day.
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so, knowingly breaking the no girls allowed rule, but men go to a profile and then they have to go to a blog.............they already zoned out. so if it's important. it needs to be in your profile. and not in the Q&A because only the women read those. You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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Have you tried using the exact words " seeks casual, non-exclusive dating, but NOT [necessarily] long-term, exclusive commitment". Or you could a "disclaimer" in bold in another colour "not looking for ..." (insert whatever you are NOT looking for). Men need it spelled out. They can't even find the lines, let alone read between them. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Personally, I find your profile very appealing, would struggle to find fault with it, and the smidgin of you that I now know makes you all the more attractive. I canna see where it says you're looking for a boyfriend, not sure where you get that impression at all, unless some bawheid has given you it? Alternatively, you could write something like: 'I have lovely coconuts, support required, apply within'; or: 'My snogs are moist, but not sloppy, excess sloovens will be rejected'..... Both good alternatives and clearly no reference to friendship of any sort, so they cannot be misconstrued. You're welcome!
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single attractive BBW...words...words...ooh I like that black bra...I'll just message her anyway. I think for most men, it's just too long and wordy. I don't wanna read stuff. I just wanna fuck someone so I can tell my mates and then chases someone else. As for me, you know I like to read profiles so perhaps it's good to be longer to pick up the more discerning males.
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3/28/2018 8:33 pm |
You asked, Still...I'm curious what I wrote that leads you to think I want something enduring. When I was reading your profile you specific talked non sexual and time-intensive activities that you seem to be expecting from a potential applicant, or as you said: "a variety of activities including spending time with new and old friends to engage in great free-flowing conversation that includes serious laughter. I also enjoy dining out/trying different cuisines, movies, nature exploration and reading" By the way, if I am ever so fortunate as to hang out with yourself be not only ready for the head-slapping but be sure to wear comfortable shoes Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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No I mean bare bones like skeleton bare bones... like just a skull and maybe a femur bare bones. Not even what you don't want... just what you do. Your parameters on things they can't change like age, race, location, relationship status. Everything else, likes and dislikes can be finessed through conversation. Dem bones dem bones dem.... dry bones.
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No I mean bare bones like skeleton bare bones... like just a skull and maybe a femur bare bones. Not even what you don't want... just what you do. Your parameters on things they can't change like age, race, location, relationship status. Everything else, likes and dislikes can be finessed through conversation. Dem bones dem bones dem.... dry bones. BiggLala replies on 3/29/2018 12:23 pm: Ahhh, okay...understand what you meant now. Basic, and hopefully, truthful stats (I say hopefully because we know people put...whatever on their profiles, true or not 🙄😒 ). Of course, I could just put this ---> 💀☠️ ...but something tells me I would receive the complete opposite responses to what I want. ==================================================== Scrap all that other foolishness I said before, I think you two have really hit on something. No words at all. Just something like: [image] Guys get tricked into doing things that could potentially kill them all the time. We're used to it. We accept it. It's how college fraternities turned the guy who invented Jagermeister into a bazillionaire.
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I have always heard (since 2005 anyway) that men don't read profiles carefully on here. Since day one I have seen this complaint in the blogs. I do not know the reason for this phenomenon, just its history. That's all I got on this, blog on!
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