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You know the best sex is when you can just relax with your partner, and pleasuring them in every way possible and making sure that you both are completely sexually gratified. And sometimes when its a bit dangerous too.. Bad sex is when your partner doesn't give a shit about your needs, and only their. And when sex is rush or hurried it isn't the greatest either sometimes as there is always a time and place for that. Great questions today hun, and I hope you enjoy your afternoon..  Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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oh hell no, sex is not always good. If the man keeps stopping for random reasons and doesn't allow the woman to get into a groove where she might actually cum, then it is bad sex. If the man bangs away for a minute or two and then comes, bad sex. If the man won't stop talking about random stuff during sex, bad sex. If the man forces anything on you, such as forcing my head down during a bj, bad sex. Man does nothing to try to turn you on in terms of foreplay, bad sex. Anything that does not allow the woman an opportunity to achieve orgasm is bad sex. Whether or not she orgasms is not relevant to this, as long as an effort to make it happen was allowed to both parties. OMG so much bad sex out there I could write a fricken book.
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2/27/2020 2:43 pm |
Sex is not always good. It depends on the partner, circumstances etc... I have to be attracted to the person. If not, they better know how to dress like a total 80's slut and know how to fuck like a porn star.
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sex is most of the time good, for me...but if sex is not the mutual interest, of course, it is not good... oh and, i know it's not about the size, but one time, i tried and tried, to please a man with a micro penis...i was only 19??? of course i have no knowledge of what the fuck i was looking at...regarding the micropenis...and he was young, too...we had no communication going between us, about sex... i tried, tried, tried, and did just about anything to please the man...and i could not even make it hard..Nor I came...and we did this for like good 2 hours??? I was sooooo frustrated... finally I just picked myself up, and left...sorry...that was one mission unaccomplished...and that was one of my biggest bad sex...
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I guess you could make the old argument that it's like pizza - even if it's not very good you can still enjoy it. But I can think of a couple of occasions that were super-bad. As dayzeeme said, "Man does nothing to try to turn you on in terms of foreplay, bad sex".  
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Sooo many questions Inspector Clouseau and sooo many possible answers.  Is sex always good? Always is always an almost impossible hurtle so, no. When is sex good? Well when I'm satiated is one gauge, as is when me and female X are both satiated is another. and when is sex not good? The opposite of the answer above. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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No, sex is not always good though most of the time it's at least, fun. What makes it good or bad is how I'm treated. Achieving orgasm is irrelevant there. And the participants can have different opinions. What I thought was bad, he thought was great. Yeah, there's a story there. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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All has been said! I just need to say that I prefer good, tender, respectful, sharing sex! 
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All about mood, timing and personal chemistry that makes sex wonderful or not so good...
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No it's not always good. Sometimes it would be "ok" and other times I think "Why did I bother?" Not wanting to sound like I'm bragging, but I've always considered myself to be a "giver" and always wanting to make sure she is satisfied. Well one day she'd already had two orgasms in fairly quick succession and then she fell asleep for the best part of three hours. When she eventually woke up, it was time for her to go home with little in the way of a "Thank you". I did wonder why I continued to see her when she kinda used me like that, I guess I valued the company and physical contact more than any gratification I got out of it.
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I'll respond that it's never bad, but sometimes are absolutely better than others. Many factors play in to that, but more than anything what makes some better than others is comfort with, and connection to, the partner. That's the good news. The "bad" news is there really only is one way to that destination - sustained "work"/contact. Though of course some stations get there faster than others depending on the personalities of those involved. What39s Going on Here BW, on HNW Jail Break [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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A number of things can spoil what you hoped would initially be good sex. Nerves plays a part (I've been there more than once!). It's not ideal to rush into it and having an understanding partner helps. Make it fun not a chore! 
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Yep....exactly what Tmpt says. For me.....its more abt the connection to the person. THAT enhances everything else.... .......or not ~~
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Sex is not always good, sometimes it's GREAT...lol... kidding. Tmptrzz explained it perfectly. I couldn't explain it any better.
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As some one said " just what is your definition of GOOD" If one is real hungry any food that you can get mort likely would be GOOD for you. Now what are your taste buds going to rate it? Maybe GOOD maybe not so GOOD . but always some form of GOOD.. The word has such a range of real meanings. from " Not so GOOD' "to absolutely very GOOD" Now to give you my answer, it is always as GOOD as you make it.. But always some form of GOOD. I like to think that it is super good all the time..Maybe my glasses are rose colored but I always leave her with a smile that matches mine.. just the facts as I see them...Have a GOOD day.. If I had an inclination that the sex was not going to be good, I think I would forgo to the time when I thought it would be better, as there must be something in the way that needs to be removed..Never settle for less than the best!!! That is good-er, one better than Good. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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Is sex always good? NO Why? Because some people just go through the motions like it is an obligantion and not something for mutual enjoyment. I get more out of self pleasure than doing it with someone who is just going through the motions, or worse... just lays there and expects me to do everything. When is it good? When there is a mutual desire to make the other have the time of their life. Then both parties are left breathless and fulfilled.
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Making love has become *always good* for me because I have learned to approach it like waking up in terra incognita- where its beauty is unique, its customs and language are unknown and its flavors are exotic. Our sexy-time is filled with the joys of discovery and revelation and not the frantic exorcism of lust and desire. Finally, I have come to appreciate that trust, patience and communication make for exquisite foreplay. Even when our connection is ephemeral, it is still informed with friendship, recognition that we tried our best and understanding that things do not always work out.
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Aye McBiggles, sex is always good, albeit occasional in its frequency. I definitely find that it improves with familiarity........getting to know a girl always helps.
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Hell, I guess it depends on what the definition of good is. There are definitely different levels of satisfaction in sex... Some instances being much more satisfying than others but if you aren't finding it better than watching TV then, well, maybe you ought to be watching sex on TV instead. Lol Vive La Difference
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