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I agree, I'm going to be a lot more tolerant of something a little artsy, than the standard "drop trou, snap a quick picture with the toilet bowl in the background" rendition. I like it when it's not an extreme close-up and you can see some of the person's body. BUT, I get it, a lot of us don't exactly have Adonis-like bodies. Especially after two months of quarantine comfort food!    
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As you likely know wimmens are all over the map on this subject. I've seen some profiles asking for the dic pic and some who will "block yer cock". I figure if I posted one, I would (or wood) be just another sausage in the deli. Like you said, a guy's "success rate" should be the answer to should I or shouldn't I. But I suspect that those who do publicize penis don't have the ability to honestly assess that. In part because "all the women here are fake". IME, the simplest approach is no dic pic, but send one when asked if a meet (or meat) is a good possibility. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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5/12/2020 12:25 pm |
That's the most sane post I've ever read on this site. I post a cock pic once in a while 'cause, yeah, it does fulfill some weird thing to show off what I have in an environment where it doesn't bother anyone (or at least..that's what this site is for, isn't it?). It doesn't really bother me what other people think or how it affects my "success rate." I'm here to find the right people for me and I guess if they don't like me then whatever - no harm, no foul. (That said I don't like the one I see as profile pics b/c that is kinda in-you-face, and I'm not gay soo...extra not my style but it is that kinda site so whatever - it doesn't bother me I wouldn't be here if I wasn't 100% comfortable with people and having fun ).
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from the perspective of a no picture profile...id like to chime in. I maintain its all about whom they are hoping to attract. There are some of us who welcome those pics...and some who tolerate and are ok with them. So..that seems like a beginning match made in heaven. I mean some advertise their need in the profiles. Other profiles are more subtle in tone /pics /wants etc. Then others only want to see ,when they ask to see. All kindsa people here...something for everyone. I wouldnt want my partners goods all over the internet for all to see anyway. Yet..i agree a creative pic , any pic ...says something about the vibe of the person. That may be worth further explorations ~~
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I do have a few but not on full view  (in my private place)
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Ms. Lala thank you for including my insight in your discussion, Hope you not working the 7day a week still. What ever be safe. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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I had a discussion along these lines once with another (long since departed) blogger. At her suggestion, I took the shot below. Let39s Forget About it For a While A Different Kind of Mothers Day Who Owns That Round 4 [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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I went and looked at your favorite picture. I see you are more of an Ass Lass than a Dick Chick. Myself, if I must see a cock picture it had better be a big cock! [image] (had lunch with this fella last fall) Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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I never, ever thought I would be saying this to you, but.....I like your cock pic! But then superbj just had to go and out-do you with a bigger cock. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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oh, lala, you know me...i love cock pics...i don't think anything wrong with them...i am a person who wants to see the goods before i buy...ya know what i mean??? i am one of those people who opens a boxed item, to make sure, the item in a box is in good condition, before i buy... funny, i was thinking, the other day, "the men who posts cock pics as a main profile pic are decreasing..." for real...so as the men who used to send me "wanna fuck" mails... nowadays, i get "hi, how are you doing?" no wonder why i just wanna yell back, "fuck off"....lol...
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I had a discussion along these lines once with another (long since departed) blogger. At her suggestion, I took the shot below. Let39s Forget About it For a While A Different Kind of Mothers Day Who Owns That Round 4 [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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I've used this one before, in response on someone's blog. This is what goes through my head whenever I get a message from a guy about his *fat cock*.    [image] "Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.
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As my auld gran used tae say McBiggles, ye need tae be careful wi yon thing, ye'll poke some'dy's eye oot!! For me, I'm not a fan, an unsolicited dick pic displays a certain lack of.......well, you ken! Hope you're well McGorgeous!
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People still obsessing over cock today and will still be obsessing over cock come 2030! A man doesn't kiss with his cock, or touch with his cock, or tell gentle words or express his love with his cock basically the cock is the last thing used in sexual intercourse, after all the foreplay & touching & kissing, so yeah, it's about the man's skill, NOT COCK !!! Just My Humble Opinion !!!
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First I have to say love your COCK picture you posted.. too funny. And I agree with you about posting cock picture, make it count always a good idea. There doesn't seem to be to much creativity here for the men that post their cock pictures. I have see a few that have great creativity either, dressing up their cocks which really was interesting made me look twice. But for me I don't want to see a cock picture as I am so desensitized by them for the most part being a moderator for the popular cam room here. Like I used to say seen one cock you seen them all lol.. I like to get to know the man behind the cock and see what else he has to offer like, his mind, chest, sexy arms, and sometimes an ass picture is nice too.I hope you have a great Hump Day hun.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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re: even the over the toilet ones? any photos, either cock shots or not cock shots, are such a turn off....do you not have any other room you can take a picture, but in bathroom??? i mean...who does that...why??? lol...
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"I know, right. Who knew she had a bigger cock than me. Oh...by the way...there's a dude who has in his status that your profile is turned off. I guess he's trying to signal that he wants to chat with you. Though...I suspect you've blocked him. I just found that funny. " You should send me a message with his profile name so I can check my blocked list. There are quite a few names on there. lol Most likely his included. And I'm baffled as to why someone would put that on their profile status! Pagan Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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BiggLala replies on 5/12/2020 9:22 pm: Otherwise...we know you have one (right? you do have one? ) Uhmmm . . . yeah its here somewhere. Been a while since I used it.  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Conclusion #1: Let's face the reality, we all know what we signed up for when we joined the site. Women who are on an anti-cock-pic crusade are as annoying as the men trying to shove their cock pics in my face. So I agree, have an opinion, but don't go so far as to demand people not do it. However, that doesn't mean I'm pro-cock-pic either. Leading us to... Conclusion #2: The overwhelming majority of cock pics I see are BAD pics. Why would you post unflattering pics at all, much less unflattering cock pics??? I mean, they're taken from an angle that makes it look smaller than it is. It's semi-soft due to trying to get the camera right. The lighting is poor or the quality is grainy. Just take a few minutes and get a few of them that come out right, is that really so difficult? Don't just thumbfumble the first thing that falls out of the phone. Conclusion #3: The feedback I've gotten suggests that men get more responses here when they post cock pics. Considering how difficult it is for men to get a response at all, whether or not that is a quality response or not is mostly irrelevant. I don't know who these women are, and there's an inner journalist in me who would love to find out. Not to be critical, but just to understand. I suspect it is about a snap conclusion of cock pic = NSA, whereas face pic = "I have to see you and treat you like a human being, when I really just want to get off" So if it gets men responses, I can't say I blame them (but see Conclusion #2 about getting it right). Lastly, and I think this needs to be said: Conclusion #4: The floppy tit pics and the ugly snatch pics from the ladies aren't exactly flattering either. Women here don't exactly have the high moral ground. I actually see more bad self-porn from women than I do from men. Yes, gravity and kids demand their tribute eventually, but I'm sure you ladies have better attributes to lead with … or maybe you don't, and that's sad. Just a heads up.... a horny man will get off the generic picture that comes with the picture frame. So posting them and receiving "praise" isn't a victory in self-affirmation of personal beauty.
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I'm not generally a fan of cock/dick/penis pictures simply because most of them are not all that impressive. I shoot down most men who send one simply because the picture shows me that it's just going to be a waste of my time meeting up to fuck since I won't get off on what he's got to offer me. Shallow? Yeah probs, but I know what my body needs to get off, especially if my heart isn't involved.
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One of my theories is that men don't bother to look at pictures of other men, for ideas and inspiration. Not just on this site... in general. They could be artistic photos by Robert Mapplethorpe, Bruce Weber, etc. or even photos used in advertising campaigns for underwear, cologne, etc. to get some ideas on how to "pose" for their selfie shots.
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