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positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
9/13/2021 10:24 pm

I hate thiose pics.. The worst is the gaping anus. Oh, how hot. Not. I hate working with humorless people. I am the oldest at work and the worse culprit for being , let’s say, innappropriate. Lighten up people. And we do perv hot men. Code word, “hottie in the hole”.


G000dbuddy 36M
1676 posts
9/13/2021 11:16 pm

Very long blog.. that I ever read

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
9/14/2021 1:07 am

How the hell does one try to say ‘miso soup’ and have it come out as ‘ding dong soup’??

I’m kind of notorious among my vanilla friend groups. Like, when playing Cards Against Humanity I’m the one who will kindly explain to some overly innocent player what ‘bukkake’ means.


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
9/14/2021 1:43 am

I always felt that the married women bitched about their husbands and kids and the single women all acted like they were Gods gift to the world. I was wandering around with my mind in the gutter all shift. I feel your struggle


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
9/14/2021 2:07 am

I think the work environment is becoming very sensitive to certain words and phrases and how they are used these days. Which is not necessarily a bad thing given some of the things that used to go on and I dare say still go on in some places.

People are becoming much more aware of the implications of their words and actions and the way they can be interpreted...

Hot Guy: Oh, I like your hair.
Woman: Mmm, thanks!

Guy: Oh, I like your hair.
Same Woman: I find that comment borderline sexual harassment, I'm going to make a report to HR.

Same words said with the same good intentions, but handled entirely differently depending on how the recipient wants to interpret them.

Which is not to say that a group of women should not bring some innuendo into the office space, but it just needs one with a grudge to stir things up and make it difficult for everyone else.

Isn't the Mona Lisa supposed to follow you round the room? So if a dick pick is like that too, should they be categorised under the moniker Boner Lisa?

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TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
9/14/2021 4:20 am

awkward huh... that ding dong soup comment. Personally my mind would have gone right to it being a racist comment (ching chong soup would have been too over the top but that's what I'm thinking your coworker meant but just couldn't go full out racist at work)

I can't say I've ever had the pee hole eye effect before. I'm on guard now tho!


Ghetto_cowgirl74 50F

9/14/2021 4:48 am

What a lovely blogg to read thanks for sharing - last office I worked in (full of females majority) would quite often have those humorous conversations, yes including myself, the Team Leader would tell us to have our R18 talk after 5.30pm - good for a laugh I think within reason and our joke was - ya got to have your dose of Vitamin D lol and you dare not eat a bannana in the office.

Women think and talk about sex more than is known I think - is just kept more discreet.


Avonsenior 70M
1458 posts
9/14/2021 7:55 am

The larger the group the larger the HR department.
Maybe with more time on the job you will find some people lighten up but if someone is having a bad day you never know who will take things wrong

Good Luck with the training. Some people do not understand why they do things but that is how they were shown and therefore it must be done

Good Luck and use your own brain and see if you can find some short cuts or ask someone that may be a little faster than others to see what they have found.
Good Luck and remember to smile (even if it is when you are thinking of something long and thick behind you and not on a wall


New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
9/14/2021 8:01 am

Corporate and team culture can be strange things, but it sounds as though you just work with boring people. So sad, because a majority of women I've worked with (that weren't universally disliked) could at least be counted on to laugh at the occasional dirty innuendo, if not contribute toward its advancement. Float a few of those out there and see what happens. They could just be repressed.

Referring to miso soup as ding dong soup? That's good old midwest racism and / or ignorance. Never could develop a liking toward it; tasted too much like feet, to me.

Anyway, glad to hear you feel you're accomplishing good things there. Focus on that when you don't feel comfortable uttering 'that's what she said'.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
9/14/2021 8:07 am

23 years of working in a gynecology office makes everything too clinical to be dirty.

I will admit - whenever a patient came in complaining of vaginal dryness or decreased libido, my brain would silently whisper, "Maybe you just need a new lover."

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/14/2021 9:21 am

I have to say hun it sounds kind of like you work with a bunch of prudes.. oh no did I really say that!! LOL... I hear you it's not fun working with people like that, at the minimum they have to at least have a good sense of humor.

Just keep being you, but don't say something that would get you turned into HR as that wouldn't be good as you just started your job there.

I hope things change and become more fun for you, I hope you enjoy a Terrific Tuesday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
9/14/2021 12:19 pm

    Quoting  :



PUT THE WEAPON DOWN.......

Coming from someone who 'crotches' every guy you ever see, this is no surprise to me McBiggles......your colleagues are unworthy!


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
9/14/2021 1:01 pm

Why change the habit of a life-time


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
9/14/2021 1:56 pm

I was at a job where I was the only unattached person in an after work group. They always asked about the "dating world" (pre-A*F*F), They may have been "getting laid" through me.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


lunchandconvo 53F  
4034 posts
9/19/2021 12:44 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    awkward huh... that ding dong soup comment. Personally my mind would have gone right to it being a racist comment (ching chong soup would have been too over the top but that's what I'm thinking your coworker meant but just couldn't go full out racist at work)

    I can't say I've ever had the pee hole eye effect before. I'm on guard now tho!
well... i be naive sometimes.
tickle -
i was immediately thinking of those chocolate cupcakes but that didn't make sense for soup!

lala... at the office i usually just have one or two BFFs. i don't socialize a lot at work.
but this means my social life majorly sucks! so maybe i need to be a bit friendlier like you?


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
9/21/2021 6:23 am

I worked with a bunch of men who were married - when they were in their home town.

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Daytimer09B 55M
901 posts
10/13/2021 2:18 pm

It is SO refreshing to hear a woman with a pervy mind. I use to work with a lady who we were really good friends and did lunch together all the time. Someone would say something completely innocent but we could look at each other and and know what the other was thinking and it was always dirty. We have not worked together in years now and I really do miss having that one female friend who would talk dirty and know that there was nothing going to be taken the wrong way and that we were just really good friends who could openly be ourselves without either getting offended. Stay who you are and I hope you will get a special pervy thinker friend at work soon.


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