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Has Anyone Noticed A Change In . . .  

redrockrascal 65M
8395 posts
2/5/2021 9:45 am
Has Anyone Noticed A Change In . . .



What can be done with points? I recently, twice, paid the 0 points read a local woman’s profile. Both times the Points Page said I could go read 1 profile and my points were deducted. Both times when I clicked go the profile I was taken a page saying I needed buy a membership.

That’s not how things had operated prior recently.

I have posted the sitesupport (January and February) – no response yet.

Anyone have any info on any change, recent experience, or? ? ?

Thank you



When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Iamhim999999 49M

3/3/2021 8:21 am

I honestly think points is a contentious issue...I remember when you didn't need them....


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/20/2021 8:00 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    And now Red, I find that most of the time I can't look at my "Top Fan" profiles, so again what good are points if we use them and have no benefits from them..
    Hope all is well at your end.. All good here I did get my second shot yesterday and so far no side affects , have a cold one on me and be safe..
I've only used the fan deal to communicate - so far that still works.

Plenty of cold . . . Coronas here

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/20/2021 7:57 pm

    Quoting q_d_mcgraw:
    I can't help ya with ya problem, but I have to ask. You've been around at least as long as I have. I pay $9 a month(annual). Why don't you?
    [image]
When I first came here I did pay – not really worth it for me. Because . . .

1. I live in a small town/area; the immediate area (within about 15 miles one-way) has 3 towns and a few much smaller communities. There are few female members on this site in this area. Typically less than 5 who are within my parameters.

The next closer towns, which are larger but not “big cities”, are within about 50 miles (1 hour one-way drive). With the same parameters there were less than 10. But distance becomes an issue.

In the whole area many/most are in their 40s – generally not interested in a guy over 60. And, I’m not attracted to all of them.

The big city is at least 100 plus miles away, with lots of women who fit my parameters. But distance is a big issue.

2. Security on any site that accepts credit cards and the related info is subject to being breached – actually breaches are inevitable. A*F*F/et al have been breached at least a couple times and other similar sites have too. I won’t give them my card info again – it is really a stupid thing to do.

3. Making contact is not the problem – I can still use points. Reading profiles to see if they are worth contacting is – using points is a problem of unknown causation now.

So having a paid membership here is of little value in my situation. Been there, done that.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/20/2021 7:56 pm

    Quoting CvilleM4U:
    TSdates.com seems bound and determined to chase off folks. Especially the free members. They keep choking back on the services provided.

    I had an old email address on file that I had tried to fix for a couple of years, to no avail. No big deal, I just wasn't getting TSdates.com emails. Then, all of a sudden, I couldn't see who had viewed me, and the message I got was that if I updated my email address, that I'd be able to see who had viewed me. So I fiddled around and found a way to update the email addy. Still can't see who has viewed me, so they blatantly lied about that. Not that it surprises me.

    Like someone said earlier, we're all here to get screwed, it's just that TSdates.com is the one screwing us.
Passion seems bound and determined to chase off folks.

They are doing a fine job of that

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/20/2021 7:55 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    I won't surprise they took the points off, yet you can't do what you wanted to do. So points were taken for nothing.

    I tried to watch cams, and they asked me to pay 28 points. So I used 28 points to view, the points were taken out from account. The cam never loaded to view, and message flashed, "Error occurred, please try again". Sure, I tried one more time, another 28 points, taken out of my account, and same thing happened. The sounded pretty fishy to me, so i quit spending any more points after that.

    Off topic, but a few free member friends of mine, asked to donate them some points, recently, which I game them a few points. I still have some points to spare. They said, they wanted to use their points to chat. I kinda suspected, they too used their points to chat, but they were never actually able to chat after all, so they used up their points? I don't know...I don't use chat system on this site, it never work for me...so i never tried if that was the case.

    All I am guessing is that, the points system seems are not working, for now. I just won't do anything to spend. Maybe the site is going away with the feature? Who knows, they took off the Icebreaker feature while back for female members, too. It seems like they want us to spend hard cash.

    I met a few great people though this site in the past, the site was not the greatest. But before, they gave us some privilege for even free members. But the site is changing into something different now. And I am not blaming, they site must make the profit, that's the business.

    But it's not fair for us to use our points yet the service they promised for the points were never delivered.
Yeah, the problem is I don't know if they have taken away the ability to use points to view profiles or if it is a glitch.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
2/20/2021 3:17 pm

And now Red, I find that most of the time I can't look at my "Top Fan" profiles, so again what good are points if we use them and have no benefits from them..
Hope all is well at your end.. All good here I did get my second shot yesterday and so far no side affects , have a cold one on me and be safe..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


q_d_mcgraw 105M
107 posts
2/11/2021 4:37 pm

I can't help ya with ya problem, but I have to ask. You've been around at least as long as I have. I pay $9 a month(annual). Why don't you?
[image]



CvilleM4U 63M

2/10/2021 11:44 am

TSdates.com seems bound and determined to chase off folks. Especially the free members. They keep choking back on the services provided.

I had an old email address on file that I had tried to fix for a couple of years, to no avail. No big deal, I just wasn't getting TSdates.com emails. Then, all of a sudden, I couldn't see who had viewed me, and the message I got was that if I updated my email address, that I'd be able to see who had viewed me. So I fiddled around and found a way to update the email addy. Still can't see who has viewed me, so they blatantly lied about that. Not that it surprises me.

Like someone said earlier, we're all here to get screwed, it's just that TSdates.com is the one screwing us.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
2/7/2021 2:49 am

I won't surprise they took the points off, yet you can't do what you wanted to do. So points were taken for nothing.

I tried to watch cams, and they asked me to pay 28 points. So I used 28 points to view, the points were taken out from account. The cam never loaded to view, and message flashed, "Error occurred, please try again". Sure, I tried one more time, another 28 points, taken out of my account, and same thing happened. The sounded pretty fishy to me, so i quit spending any more points after that.

Off topic, but a few free member friends of mine, asked to donate them some points, recently, which I game them a few points. I still have some points to spare. They said, they wanted to use their points to chat. I kinda suspected, they too used their points to chat, but they were never actually able to chat after all, so they used up their points? I don't know...I don't use chat system on this site, it never work for me...so i never tried if that was the case.

All I am guessing is that, the points system seems are not working, for now. I just won't do anything to spend. Maybe the site is going away with the feature? Who knows, they took off the Icebreaker feature while back for female members, too. It seems like they want us to spend hard cash.

I met a few great people though this site in the past, the site was not the greatest. But before, they gave us some privilege for even free members. But the site is changing into something different now. And I am not blaming, they site must make the profit, that's the business.

But it's not fair for us to use our points yet the service they promised for the points were never delivered.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/6/2021 6:34 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I got a gold crown so I couldn't say.
That crown looks good on you

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/6/2021 6:33 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I hope you share their response I bet you it's another one of their form letters.. Sorry that happened to you, but the site doesn't care how they take advantage of the members. Just saying from experience. I hope you enjoy your Friday evening..
If I get a response I will share

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/6/2021 6:32 pm

Well we are here to get screwed

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/6/2021 11:52 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I don't even get the option to use points to view a profile...it's straight to the 'renew' page.
Just so I understand, when you go to the Redeem Points page paying 100 points to view a profile is not there?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
2/6/2021 8:38 am

I don't need points to view profiiles but for a while last week I had to log in twice before I got to the site. I think they are trying to get in the Guinness book of records for the number of glitches!

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
2/6/2021 8:02 am

Like superbj, I don't even get the option to use points to view a profile.

Elevate me...


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
2/6/2021 3:16 am

Alot has changed since the site got acquired by a different company. There has been modifications after another.


Longus2005 65M
1100 posts
2/5/2021 10:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Great.
110 points to determine that you are viewing a fake profile from the TSdates.com.
These points are badly invested ...
You have more success in Las Vegas at a slot machine.
Stay healthy

Stadler: Die Show war gut!
Waldorf: Ja, bis sie angefangen hat!

Mein privater Briefkasten: Unter vier Augen


Longus2005 65M
1100 posts
2/5/2021 10:32 pm

Nothing works here as it should.
Only the payment for the site still works ...
They make more and more false promises that they don't keep.
Support is practically non-existent (probably just a cheap hotline in India that sends back standard answers)
I think the operators are up to their necks.
Never before have members been so aggressively directed to the payment functions.
An example: (German) Was soll das denn nun wieder
But unfortunately many Gold members are already complaining about functions that do not work properly, even though they are paid for.

Stay healthy

Stadler: Die Show war gut!
Waldorf: Ja, bis sie angefangen hat!

Mein privater Briefkasten: Unter vier Augen


mc_justmc 63M

2/5/2021 3:38 pm

I got a gold crown so I couldn't say.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/5/2021 3:06 pm

I hope you share their response I bet you it's another one of their form letters.. Sorry that happened to you, but the site doesn't care how they take advantage of the members. Just saying from experience. I hope you enjoy your Friday evening..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


ruintowood52 66M

2/5/2021 2:47 pm

Just another way to screw us


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/5/2021 2:35 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Seems like points don't make prizes after all
That would kinda suck

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/5/2021 2:34 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    The only glitches I encounter are when posting to my blog. Missing words and delays in posting are amongst the most annoying. Others have submitted change records so I look for “work arounds”.
Hopefully this just a glitch and not a new restriction.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/5/2021 2:33 pm

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    Haven't needed to view a profile recently, but whenever I've spent points to view a profile in the past, I've not had any problems.

    No doubt this is a more recent "feature".
Yes, in the past it worked well. Wooo Hooo a new "feature".

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/5/2021 2:32 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    Yes,, another glitch i think... I've done it with people who have viewed me and sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't .. I find if you search their name in the user name search box it shows their profile.
    I only ever pay for one view at a time... because it doesn't always work and surprise! you lose the points.
    I also have to log in twice
search their name in the user name search box it shows their profile.

I tried that a while ago - it wouldn't let me read the profile.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/5/2021 2:30 pm

    Quoting  :

Interesting I haven't tried to see who viewed me.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
2/5/2021 2:27 pm

I don't even get the option to use points to view a profile...it's straight to the 'renew' page.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/5/2021 2:14 pm

    Quoting bbuckwwheat:
    I have not used points to view a profile recently, but I have had occasion where it took an hour before I could view the profile.

    I tend to use hotlist/fan as that probably can be done for fifty points, but that is not able to be private if you want it to be private.
I've had delays with the fan thing also. I like to read profiles before doing the fan deal.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/5/2021 2:12 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    If you 'top fan' the profile you can read it for less than what ever it says on the points page, as long as you're within the top 10 fans. If you're fan ~1 you can also email, though the profile needs to enable mail from standard members I think.

    I've not experienced what you describe though it comes as no surprise.

    Hope you're well McScally, who's going to win LV?
I generally use the ran thing after reading a profile. And it is sometimes sketchy too.

You can use points, 300 IIRC, to email but that is a lot compared to the fan way.

All is good - life goes on.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
2/5/2021 1:14 pm

Seems like points don't make prizes after all


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/5/2021 12:19 pm

The only glitches I encounter are when posting to my blog. Missing words and delays in posting are amongst the most annoying. Others have submitted change records so I look for “work arounds”.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
2/5/2021 12:05 pm

Haven't needed to view a profile recently, but whenever I've spent points to view a profile in the past, I've not had any problems.

No doubt this is a more recent "feature".

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
2/5/2021 11:06 am

Yes,, another glitch i think... I've done it with people who have viewed me and sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't .. I find if you search their name in the user name search box it shows their profile.
I only ever pay for one view at a time... because it doesn't always work and surprise! you lose the points.
I also have to log in twice


bbuckwwheat 65M
6265 posts
2/5/2021 10:35 am

I have not used points to view a profile recently, but I have had occasion where it took an hour before I could view the profile.

I tend to use hotlist/fan as that probably can be done for fifty points, but that is not able to be private if you want it to be private.

Private mailbox at my blog bbuckwwheat
Fayette, Iowa


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
2/5/2021 10:08 am

If you 'top fan' the profile you can read it for less than what ever it says on the points page, as long as you're within the top 10 fans. If you're fan ~1 you can also email, though the profile needs to enable mail from standard members I think.

I've not experienced what you describe though it comes as no surprise.

Hope you're well McScally, who's going to win LV?


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/5/2021 9:46 am

Is this thing on?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


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