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scott6250 61M

11/9/2018 1:28 pm

Great pics. Happy Friday.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
11/9/2018 1:30 pm

I'd say 50 - 50. If I'm in here answering blog questions and flipping through the pages of the A F F blog island ( and other spots), then I am NOT standing on my USUAL street corner. So the two even out . . It's about where you want to invest your time.
Looks like a busy weekend for you. Have fun!


Dtts43rt35 65M
15090 posts
11/9/2018 1:40 pm

Gostei do post!

Rio flows in its bed and goes around with its waters!


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
11/9/2018 1:56 pm

i'm not very good socially so I consider I've got a better chance online than in the "real world". Plus I don't go out much so there's also the likelihood I'll meet more people online than off - the only place I go out to is the supermarket and the only conversations I have there is with the self-service machine.

Plus it's less painful getting a text "No thanks" online than a spoken "No thanks" and that tilted head and "Aww I'm sorry" expression on their face as they try and let you down gently.

And it's cheaper staying at home too.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


astute2r3 68M

11/9/2018 2:25 pm

I do prefer the actual face to face, as it seems to at times have a higher potential of being frank, accurate and real, VERSUS hiding behind the monitor and key pad, where you can elect to deceive, imitate, fake and even alleged accurate up to date photos of you can be photo shopped, cut, pasted and even be "many" years old. However, it is noted that seemingly more and more people and human beings are having difficultly with articulation, communication and simple socializing skills. Oddly enough, even texting while sitting across the table, the room, the city from each other condoned and tolerated. Go Figure. It is What It is!


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/9/2018 2:49 pm

I've dated more than a few women I met online, since I've been divorced. And I've met some just out, shopping. Out for drinks. Set up by friends.

Can't say either side has been completely successful, or a utter failure.

One thing that does irk me with online sites, such as this. I end up finding people that interest me, that I think I'd like to meet. And they're on the other side of the globe. LOL or at least too far for a meet.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/9/2018 4:11 pm

Have you had more success offline or online?
I would say both have pros and cons that essentially offset each other. I've had success in both and not-so successful in both.

what has been your success rate between online and offline dating?
It kinda depends on the definition of success. Here success may be measured by finding sexual partners. That I've done - of the dozen or so women I've met I've had sex with about 75% and had ongoing (more than 3 dates) things with 2.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


CNYMale4Fun 63M

11/9/2018 5:16 pm

Mostly Offline dating for romantic relationships although I have met and dated a few Women online that were positive and resulted in dating multiple times.

Mostly Online for sexual relationships and meetups. Since I am Bi it's much easier to meet Couples and Men on TSdates.com for naked fun where it's in the open as to why we are here, especially when traveling.

I have found that offline can work very well for purely sexual get togethers also. Nothing like meeting a Couple or Guy on a few occasions in a bar and that leading to sex down the road!!!


luvgluv19 75M

11/9/2018 5:48 pm

    Quoting  :

I like the blue snow pants. We got our first measurable accumulation today here in mid Missouri about one and a half inches. Careful that tongue doesn't freeze to some thing lol


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/9/2018 6:51 pm

Hi Joy.

thanks for taking me online further...

anyway...

I'm about time investment with people, especially my lover...

it's not about the quick hit... have I said "no" to many on this site... "yes"...

everything tastes better with time...

have you ever taken the time to watch someone eat for the first time...

have you ever listened to the beauty of a laugh for the first time...

I've met women online before... and, dated them...

when people are in a hurry... I wonder why the rush...

I'd rather take my time with someone...

I don't run numbers on my lovers... I don't like to compare...

I want to be passionate with someone...

thanks again...

hmm...

Akcent - "My Passion"

I still got feelings you are my passion
You are the one for me
I still got feelings you are my passion
You are the one for me

Can you, can you hear me say
When I'm moving closer
You keep going away
Cause you're my guilty pleasure
And you caught me so tight
I wanna love you always
Let's melt into the night

Don't let go
Don't run away love
I still got feelings you are my passion
Don't let go
Don't run away love
You are the one for me...

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Good luck!!!


mc_justmc 63M

11/9/2018 6:54 pm

My last big dating spell was a mix. I met some women online, got invited to a NYE swingers party and met 4 more women there, then met more from dating them. So, one led to another, but I did better offline.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
11/9/2018 7:43 pm

Good evening my friend I think you hit on a lot of pros and cons here, the one thing that I hate about being on line is people who feel the need to LIE that is not a good thing as people really do meet on here, and if you lie well lets just say things don't go well!!

All I can say IS BE FUCKING HONEST as I am sure people would like others to be honest as well.. I hope you have lots of fun this weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Story435 76M
3791 posts
11/10/2018 5:28 am

Hello Joy
I am not sure but the lady I am with now I went to high school with. Hadn't see her in many years we got together on FB this year. The other lady I have been with I did meet her on TSdates.com.
Butch


RockKickAss69XXX 55M

11/10/2018 9:34 am

I have never met with anyone from online.


HoHowdy 62M
1279 posts
11/10/2018 1:59 pm

Good ones!


banjo6660 57M
615 posts
11/11/2018 3:50 am

Honesty I totally agree with both online and off line statements you have made. I have not had any luck on here period but that might just be my own fault.


scoupe42 60M

11/11/2018 6:34 am

Hi my friend, Offline or online, sometimes I think Its better to get someone we can click with and just kick it with them. I never been a player, I'm just someone who got played!


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
11/11/2018 12:12 pm

First, it isnt about buying women drinks! At least not for me. I spent way to many hours in a bar while in the band to want to go back to a bar to find a date, and sadly, I never had much luck trying to find a date at a bar, even while I was in the band! It is about the smoke, the noise, the drunks, that turn me away from bars for dating. And for online dating sites, I have done so mauch better, in fact close to 100% luck with those I CHOSE to respond to. Yes, if pics dont match, thats not good, but my pics are not so great either, pics tend to be how you look at your best, not what you usually look like. As to your profile info, that is the most interesting part I find, as you can understand alot about someone based on what they say about themselves. My profile is brutally honest about myself, and so, if read, many women move on, and thats fine by me. For those that DO read it, and want to make contact with me, well, I hope I am all I said I was. And my luck with those from my past has been almost ZERO, so ... I dont even bother looking back !


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
11/11/2018 8:19 pm

I haven't looked for a date online....only shopped for friends!!
Our son found his wife on a dating site although it wasn't "this site"


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
11/12/2018 3:09 pm

Yes, it was so much simpler back when you got a note passed to you by your g/f's best friend saying; "I don't want to go out with you anymore"


ItsThtPervertGuy 44M
484 posts
11/13/2018 2:00 pm

Interesting Blog. I was just discussing this topic with a person I have know for sometime and met off this site but we have never met in person.

I agree that there are most possibilities online then off. But that is a good thing. Variety. Its the same when shopping for produce in the store. You have so much where some looks better than the other and you can pick and choose. As far as a distraction. Well if you know what you want and are looking for and that is that no matter how many people you come across you will stay focused on you and what makes you happen with and in a person.

I am not sure how it is in Canada (I am sure they are allot more out going and friendly then the U.S. and maybe most places) but here in the U.S. (Depending on where you live so forth) it is not that easy too meet. If you are not into the bar scene go like to go out allot (such as myself) then there are not many places you can meet. I found that High School and above was the best places to meet people.

As one gets older it become a bit more difficult (specially if you are a bit o a introvert) to find and meet people. They say you can meet people and the store or mall or Church but that is by chance or luck as any meet.

As I began this post. I was talking to a Woman about this and I said online dating is wonderful specially sites like this (even this crappy site has its moments) as they provide allot of help (to me) in what I want and over all I would suspect for other's.

Now you take main stream sites like the ones you mention and this one also as it is still a dating site. To me it is like going through a interview process. Often people meet in person and think it is ,chemistry ,connection maybe even love but more lust in most cases.

Also I believe that site allow people to talk and get to know each other and get a sense of peoples personalities better. The written word can tell allot about a person and voice speech. Its gives people the chance too meet a person from anywhere in the World. Seriously if GOD wanted us all to be together we would be in one place! Sometimes you might have to meet that special person somewhere else.If that person was the person you had a almost 100% feeling about being the one does it matter the distance for real, true life long, everlasting love?

And you spread that communication out over a long time( if you are in different states so forth) and you really begin to learn about a person! Me personally I use the site too perv a bit yes (Hey I am a Pervert! Smile) and it is a bit fun and entertaining at times (when it works) but this site works for me as I have been in a few relationships where they were okay but sex was not good and if so was to far and in between and sex is not the most important thing but one of the top five if not three for me.

I use this site (maybe you can with main stream site but since this one is sexually oriented ) in a reverse way. First lets see if we are sexually compatible then we go from there. If sex is important to you then a first meet offline date it might be a bit forward and or rude and ill mannered to bring that up off the bat.

With online dating you make a profile. If it is precise and detailed (such as mine!! Smile) then most of the talk is done and you pretty much have a understanding of that person and if you my connect and have some chemistry and not have to go on a blind date, get dressed up for a ass hole!

I have to say online is allot better. You can interview your potential dates and talk to them in the safety and comfort of ones home and .find who matches and go from there. I have more reasons but for the sake of this already being a long post I will keep it there!!


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
11/14/2018 12:48 pm

The guys I have met online (via this site) are rarely local, so I have only "met them offline" when they were traveling through the area and we met for dinner or drinks. NONE of them had any potential to become more.

Other than meeting men at my Nudist Resort, I have NEVER met someone "offline". This is a small town, I don't get out anywhere that I might meet guys, and no one I know has ever "fixed me up" with someone they think I would like.

I've often wondered if I need to sign up for every nigh-school class, and join every Club, but that is just NOT ME.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


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