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Hello Joy! No need for a guilt trip on your part I think sweetie. Your ex husband should know better than to do that to you I can see that it's not going to happen again. I am sure your friend dose understand. Your ex lover wants something from you and you don't need to do that for him at all he just wants sex and has played around many time I bet. The long distance can suck! I think your doing good sweetie thinks I'm sure will get better!  Butch 
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Sod that! Who needs the added complications? If a realtionship is mostly about sex and a companiable mate then they have no claim on you - that is not what the lifestyle is about. If it is more, then they owe it to you to be mindful of your feelings: in that scenario, they should be on your team and your biggest supporter. Life is just too damn short for unnecessary complications.
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8/23/2019 1:00 pm |
guilt! what a powerful tool it can bring the strongest person to their knees crying like an infant. joy my dear don't wear another's anger as if it was a taylor made suit of shame. be good be proud be you there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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I'd tell you, what I'm going through, but I don't think hearing someone else's fuck ups would cheer you up. Fuck guilt! And fuck all those fuckers who try to trip anyone out, about it. NH has a great license plate moto. Live free... or die. Or maybe... that's just the way I feel today. Ahh.. fuck it! ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Ah the ex's what would we do without them? I don't know but I'd surely like to try. My ex will be in town next Monday for the daughter's big move to Texas. Wouldn't care if she said boo to me or not, I'm over that. She should be too. So no drinks or dinner for the two of us, and there never will be. As for your Ta-da-ta with the old lover, you explained yourself quite well in your blog on the events of the wedding. Everyone dreads the walk of shame in the morning, and it would have been awkward if you had stayed longer. Leaving without saying good -bye was a fair call. You had your reasons the ex lover should have understood them if he'd really payed attention to the kind of woman you are when you were together. As for the comments from those you say your not type of woman to do that sort of thing, that's their problem not yours. Have a good one my friend! 
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Don't let them guilt you! If you get back to Winnipeg, let me know and I will buy you a beverage.
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8/23/2019 2:05 pm |
^^^5^^ Good One Coach !   FCK'e(\/) ! ]['m walk'in here ! <<<point*z down to the ground <<< 
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8/23/2019 3:09 pm |
some of us men appreciate a woman who has her own mind, her own soul, her own life....others are threatened by it....they think that caring or loving a woman means controlling her....it is totally the opposite. Lucky guy who was that blogger I am thinking....
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Not A/all 'Ghosts' are bad guys.....  just saying.....
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Happy Friday my friend, sorry to hear your being ghosted, I don't understand why some people do that. And all I can say is you have to DO what is RIGHT for you my friend, and screw what others think, as all that matters is what you think. I hope you have a great weekend my friend.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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8/23/2019 6:47 pm |
The only thing I can say is have confidence in yourself and fuck everyone else As long as you can look yourself in the mirror each morning, you are the only one you have to please. Other people's disappointment is there problem An orgasm a day , makes you so much happier at work and play
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Growing up, my Father just had to give me the 'look' and I would know not to press my luck. If you make choices knowingly and willingly and others are disappointed....It's their problem, not yours.
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taking me further with my little piece of Canadian bacon... you just be you... I had a great today... a friend of mine called me up, wanted to have drinks... so, we went... with her, it's like time stands still, and time doesn't pass... she laughs at my stories... and, tells me her woes... we listen to each other without judgement... she told me things that she was going thru... and, it was all good... and, then, she picked up the tab... that was so sweet... I've told her that I want to be a kept man... she thinks that that is funny... life is good. have a great weekend JOY... I'll share this one... T.I. - "Live Your Life" (feat. Rihanna) You're gonna be, a shinin' star In fancy clothes, and fancy cars And then you'll see, you're gonna go far 'Cause everyone knows, just who ya are So live your life (Hey! Ay ay ay) You steady chasin' that paper, just live your life (Oh! Ay ay ay) Ain't got no time for no haters, just live your life (Hey! Ay ay ay) No tellin' where it'll take ya, just live your life (Oh! Ay ay ay) 'Cause I'm a paper chaser, just livin' my life (Ay) my life (Oh) My life (Ay) my life (Oh) Just livin' my life (Ay) my life (Oh) My life (Ay) my life (Oh) just livin' my life... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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Just got back home.... Went to see that live band. It was a private party at a nice club. Hot dogs, wings, chicken 🐔 legs, hamburgers... Sixty... seventy... people. The band was progressive rock. A cross between Early Genisis, meets Rush meets Slayer... meets Metallica? hmmm lol 😂 What a fucking great group. Kicked major ass! Then they opened up the kareoke machine... Total blast. I took one set on the kit! There were four drummers there... (not to mention all the other musicians). You know.. it was an insiders get together! Musicians are the best people I know! Yep... my ears are ringing. I'm feeling much better! 👍 lol I'll be ok. You? 🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Musicians truly are the best people I know. Have you ever met one who wasn't chill! Just such a relaxed vibe. Ya know what I mean? Or maybe... it's because all my close friends are musicians and they're the ONLY people I know.... lol 😂 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Like everybody already said my lady , " you don't need that shit " All I can offer , is the assurance that full frontal exposure to light is what drives the ghosts away keep it up Sparkles And Cheers - P
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8/24/2019 7:34 am |
Guilt, not a good thing! Especially when someone use it against you. In the past, I dint need anyone to make me feel guilty, I did that all by myself, and almost destroyed myself. We can't change what we did, but we can change what we do!
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8/24/2019 11:52 am |
".I shall not give them the power to make me feel guilty for making the choices I did.." ... and that is the way it should be! only one person can know what is good for joy. there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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8/25/2019 7:11 am |
"I'm disappointed in you Joy," -for only posting 3 butt pics! 
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Disappointment is what happens when expectations fail to meet our needs. So knowing that, these guys had expectations that they would benefit from your travels and when they didn't, they sulked. Unless you promised to spin some tongue on certain parts of their body while in the area, FUCK their expectations. Disappointment is a key word used to trigger a certain emotion. Because as people we always want to make as many people happy and if someone is disappointed, they certainly can't be happy. So we feel bad or consider making it up to them...… Those guys are lucky you talk with them. I expected you to have sex with me is no reason for you to have sex with anyone.... you do or you don't WITHOUT expectations..... such an asshole thing to say and do... I am disappointed in them The Hubby
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I can count on one hand the times I was made to feel guilty by someone and it happens NO MORE. I can create my own "trip" I do not need the help of others and I know you dont. Fuck 'em and not literally (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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