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LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
1/5/2022 12:11 pm

Thanks for sharing. I'm not sure what the answers to this problem are but, common sense goes farther than in life than anything else. Have a great day.


leefury7 73M

1/5/2022 12:17 pm

Sticks and stone may break my bones but words will never hurt me?

I will have to check this site out. Personally, over there years, there was NO better site in all of the web to meet what you were looking for than Craigslist. Yes, you had to be on your guard, especially women. But scammers were easy to block and they never really knew who you were. Also, you could be very narrow in your search area. I met a lot of women, nice women, for lunch, walks, and for years, as massage clients. Sadly that all ended when supposedly CL was targeted as being available for sex trafficking. I never saw any of that. Never. So I think CL mostly wanted to reduce its server usage.

TSdates.com has been a BIG disappointment as far as meeting women is concerned. I would never purchase a membership here because of the fake, the LONG outdated profiles and that for being just outside of Chicago, county population of 6 MILLION, there are less than a dozen in my particular area and only one or two of those are active.

TSdates.com needs to do some proactive sh*t to gain a greater female audience and membership.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/5/2022 12:34 pm

The site has plans to allow non-members to join the new Community, which will make it more difficult to block any trolls etc.


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
1/5/2022 12:52 pm

Some people’s self worth is based purely on their ability to be a parasite.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
1/5/2022 12:56 pm

Thanks for sharing, guess Dio does not have much of life.Sorry this happening to you.


BiGuy4Fun19020 53M
10 posts
1/5/2022 1:13 pm

I'm done forum / site moderation and administration. It's actually really difficult to ban somebody if they don't mind some effort to circumvent it. The easiest, of course, is to just make a new email address and register using that under a new screen name.

Based on my experience, many sites are unwilling to resort to banning somebody by IP address. Banning by IP address often has unintended fallout. For example, many large ISPs (such as Comcast) cycle IP addresses through their customers. So while I have one IP address today, tomorrow my neighbor may have that one and I have a different one in their range. And even if the admin of a site decides it's worth it, bypassing it still isn't difficult. Many VPN programs, for example, will mask your IP address. Or you can make it appear as though you're from anywhere you choose.

I can specifically recall having to ban one troll something like a dozen times. Whenever he'd get bored, it seemed, he'd make a new email address, make a new account, and then shit-post until we were able to ban him and clean up the mess.

I'm not trying to say your problem isn't a real one; it most definitely is. I'm just saying that from a site admin perspective, resolving it is tricky at best.


scoupe42 60M

1/5/2022 1:26 pm

My friend, WOW! This site/system really gets to you! Seem often that your upset. Whatever flaws you feel the system has, I hope it can be fixed. I was angry about a site years ago, not this one. I just stop my membership. I hope whatever they do or doing wrong, there got to be a point of contact. if they treating people wrong in any way, they shoud stop! But whatever is going on, my friend, I hope it can resolved, I hate to see you sad or angry!

To be honest, I never been on any site that was perfect! If it's that bad report them!

PS, there are fake profiles on here, a bunch of youngens that protray themselves as older women, but just someone on a scam looking for money. I laugh, for they can't get nothing from me, for I'm broke. No matter what the system flaws, I like this site. I have friends, i would had never had, like you! Again, every site got flaws and con-artist, why compliant? They not going to change their site. What it comes down to it, either we except it or move on.


scoupe42 60M

1/5/2022 1:29 pm

PS, my friend, I wish people leave you alone! Now that not right to be mean or slander people. To me after a while, I'll move on.


Eros97531 45M

1/5/2022 1:31 pm

Nice!


synergy7002 56M
20 posts
1/5/2022 1:58 pm

Sites can not block anyone anymore due to VPN's . Some people may not use a vpn and you can find out their IP address but more and more are resorting to VPN as there are even free or very low cost ones.

So unless a site is run by a telecom or the FBI there is not much use in trying to ban or block people.


scottv69 61M
6791 posts
1/5/2022 2:19 pm

Thanks for sharing my friend


BanDilzerian 29M

1/5/2022 2:37 pm

tell me about it lol


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
1/5/2022 4:01 pm

Sadly, TSdates.com don't seem to care on how to regulate anything on their property or properties


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
1/5/2022 6:16 pm

i went after the powers that be too, i wanted access to remove those people who hot listed me even though i said i do not want a man, profile says no men, but there are still those that can not read


DeInSLC 59F
84 posts
1/5/2022 8:00 pm

What baffles me is how these haters don't seem to realize that, by continuing to post about you and comment about you, they are allowing you to live in their heads rent-free, day in and day out. Obsessed? Absolutely! MOVE ON already, haters! Surely all the time they've spent posting their snarky, not-so-discreet comments could be better utilized? Sewing, knitting, crocheting, exercising, or volunteering at their local non-profit agency? I believe the following expression sums my feelings up accurately:

Get. A. Life!


anastasia666 45F
2231 posts
1/5/2022 8:25 pm

Joy,

Hello My Friend...Even though the so called "Bloggers" have threatened to leave...they are still around. It is quite possible that the member banned for life has more fake accounts to watch you and then go race to type about you on his other blog.

This might very well be something to bring up in the new community group chat. Members block other members for a variety of reasons and the " new " version of the site should respect that also.

Hugs,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


CarpeJamie 54M
289 posts
1/5/2022 8:37 pm

8t kinda sounds like you've reached the point where legal advice may be helpful. I feel like there is a duty 5o follow through with protecting members.

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PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
1/5/2022 11:18 pm

I have never understood the stalkers. Just be happy.
Hugs!


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