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carolinachick52 55F
148 posts
9/3/2015 2:24 pm
Messages with no reply's


Why is that someone can send out over 50 messages and only get maybe 5 reply's back? Is it really that hard to say not interested. Wow

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
9/3/2015 2:34 pm

I learned a long tome ago on this site, that no reply, is a reply.

With the ratio of men to women on this site, I can understand why.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
9/3/2015 2:44 pm

I have an automatic reply, is that rude?


ecapsretro 50M

9/3/2015 2:46 pm

i don't know about that.i have to respond reguardless whether i like it or not,it's an automatic response.if somebody shows an interest and takes time to do it the least you can do is reply yes,no,,maybe.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
9/3/2015 3:06 pm

That IS different. Usually women say they get too many messages. What have you been saying?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


PaisleyPolly 32F
120 posts
9/4/2015 2:07 am

You're attached which might come into play. Why bother with someone who's attached with so many single people available. Maybe they don't have time, maybe they just don't want to waste time on people they're not interested in. As someone else pointed out no reply is a reply.

It's not a big deal. I wouldn't waste too much time thinking about it to be honest.


charlestonmale11 64M
18 posts
9/4/2015 7:14 am

I always reply to messages.....it's rude not to reply...even if it's a "no thank you"....


ohsodirty2 67M
949 posts
9/5/2015 8:46 am

I haven't sent you one ! but that's is the Number one reason Why I'm not renewing my Gold membership !


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