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My Thoughts On Transgender Bathroom Use  

blacklatex3 64T
49 posts
5/26/2016 12:45 pm
My Thoughts On Transgender Bathroom Use


I have been very fortunate to never had a problem the last 4 years when Annette goes out day or night in our vast world - we live in - i always have had respect for the women and the steps i follow - it is a privilege an not something that i think i have a right too - i am short in stature an very lady like - yes good genes but a lot of practice and more practice not to be standing out as a man in a woman's dress - i have studied every move a woman takes - i have been Annette 24/7 for the last 9 months - i had no problem using a women's restroom no matter where i go - i don't bring my birth certificate with me - i wonder how many people do - most women i meet are very cordial and believe i am a woman like them - i would be afraid to go in the men's restroom - i have never heard of a crime scene in the female restroom because of a real t/s or transgender wanted to harm a woman or heaven forbid a - i am sure there have been - there are to many crazies out there in both sex and in between - i think that the politicians and lawyers should stay out of it - it has been going on for many years - now it is being pushed on the innocent - soon we will have separate gender neutral restrooms - just like we have now - family - handicap - male - female - on and on -
I am apprehensive to visit my in North Carolina -
oh well - life goes on - have a great day and a better tomorrow - i know i will
Annette

P.S. true transgenders have been using the restroom of their choice for years - most people never knew or cared - now it is the main subject for a few that want to be in the limelight for a few minutes in glory -

bestfriend2156 68M
840 posts
5/26/2016 1:25 pm

I think you hit it on the head when you say it is a few publicity seekers. It should be a non issue, but some folks just have to make a fuss to get the attention.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/26/2016 1:31 pm

Yes, the gov't got involved. Now look at the mess it caused.


sika41 62M
643 posts
5/26/2016 2:12 pm

I am very TS/TG open . The only thing about the whole situation that I take exception to is some old creepy guys who aren't really TS/TG/TV but are rather perv borderline pedaphiles who will try dressing as a female to try and sneak in the ladies room to watch young girls !


blacklatex3 64T
10 posts
5/27/2016 10:36 am

I agree with you in a way - Woman tend to look at other women directly to see what they are wearing - they are very good in observation and can usually see a phony woman - so i think a borderline want to be - who is voyer for whatever reason - will be recognized and kept an eye on - women with children are always on the look out for anyone - the women's restroom i have gone in are all with stalls with doors and locks - so it hard to see through the cracks - it is the outside of the restroom in the store or outside that they can become a victim - that is where they put their guard down - i think everyone has to be aware of their surroundings - I am always on alert - there are a lot of crazy people out there -
thank you sweetie for your comment
Annette


delraylove9 58M
103 posts
5/31/2016 11:20 am

You are quite beautiful. I enjoyed reading y our blog


delraylove9 58M
103 posts
5/31/2016 11:23 am

A incredible majority of TG women who want to use the bathroom just want a safe place to go to the bathroom. They are not sexual predators. I can not imagine any TG woman I have ever been with would ever entertain the idea to enter a bathroom looking to molest some young girl.


blacklatex3 64T
10 posts
6/1/2016 11:20 am

delraylove - you and I agree very whole heartedly - thank you for your response -
Annette
p.s. thank you for ur compliment - ur a sweetie xo


Gina_L07 67T
387 posts
6/19/2016 10:34 pm

We did have a situation in the Baltimore area at a McDonalds where a transfemale was attacked by cisgender girls when she used the women's restroom. I don't know the entire situation concerning how passable she was. I imagine she just wanted to use the restroom and nothing else. Congratulations on passing well in public and in the restroom of your choice. That is a very difficult thing to do. I have not been that bold. I hear a lot of how I pass well, but we all know that passing has more to do than the physical appearance. Like you said, you need to study and learn what we should have learned years ago but did not learn because we were trying to fit into what society demanded of us. Take care and be safe. Ciao.

Gina


Gina_L07 67T
387 posts
6/19/2016 10:36 pm

Sorry. I wanted to add that this happened years ago and like you said, it does not happen often. However we still need to be careful and vigilant. Ciao.

Gina


blacklatex3 replies on 6/20/2016 9:22 am:
Thank you Gina for your reply on my blog - like i had said it is not the real TG that is the problem to real women or children - it is the TG who has more of a problem with the crazy people out there - we always have to be very vigilant in our surroundings not only restrooms - your example of young girls acting as pure bullies taking out their transgressions on the innocent - it is those people that need help -
bye sweetie Annette xo

blacklatex3 64T
10 posts
7/4/2016 12:04 pm

tu sweetie for ur reply - now you got me thinking - not sure if that is a good thing lol - yes a bathroom is a place you have the added advantages to take a bath or shower - while a restroom is a place to rest - oops to logical - i have been to some room that have and added convenience of a couch or chairs - so maybe we should say "i'm going to refresh and maybe eliminate some bodily functions - now that's a mouth full - refresh room - lol
i never said i had nine months of practice - i said i been Annette full time - i got the hose gene when i was born - it sprouted when i was 5 yrs old- grew into a female
loving in my teens - in my mid twenties it blossom into a female form - i practice as time went on - one step at a time - i suppressed my cd somewhat - my wife gave me boundaries to adhere too - she passed over four years ago - then i waited for a few months an Annette came out on the weekends - the woman i was born to be - i retired early and decided to be Annette 24/7 - i'm a transexual my breast are real and i have had laser hair removal on my legs -
have a great day and a better tomorrow - Annette


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