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Fetishes  

Jadzia11 55F
144 posts
11/20/2021 2:18 pm
Fetishes


We all have them, whether we admit them or not. Maybe some do not think of them as fetishes. I have one I will openly admit to. My boots. I have them for all occasions, all sizes (in reference to heels, the actual size fits my foot silly) and all styles and colors.

I have work boots for outside in the summer doing yard work. I have winter boots for when I need to go out and deal with the feet of snow that piles up. I have dress boots when I need to look classy for special occasions.

My most common and comfortable boots are my cowboy boots. I wear them the most. Going to lunch with the girls, jeans and those boots. Got to run to the store, those boots. They are nothing spectacular to look at but I love them. As a matter of fact, wore tennis shoes to the store the other day and felt naked without my boots. It was just not right.

Now do I have other fetishes, maybe yes maybe no. Not sure I would call some preferences a fetish, but there are things I enjoy more than others.

But I recently had a conversation with someone (he admits he reads my blog, so he will know who he is) about combination fetishes. In this case he was talking about showers (real not golden) and heels. Now this one upon thinking more about it, could be detrimental to someone's safety. Certain heels are just not safe in water and no one wants to fall on their ass in the shower. Even if someone is there to help pick them up and laugh at them while they do. Flat square heels might work but not sure they are as sexy as what most men consider with stilettos. So for this one, it is iffy at best.

But this got me thinking about other possibilities. Now there are some that just go together without any issues. Blindfolds and well... anything can be pared with a blindfold and be a whole lot of fun. So that one is a yes and super easy.

So what are combo fetishes that someone might not think of but might actually work together. The world of fetishes are wide open. If you can imagine it and it turns you on and you can incorporate into your sex life, more power to you.

Since my boot fetish is pretty basic, I can admit yes I have had sex with some of them on, not that makes a difference in the sex, but it can be fun in the right circumstances. Had one guy, wanted me to wear nothing but my cowboy boots and my cowboy hat (yes a real one) and nothing else. I was happy to oblige him. It was fun for us both. Yes he was ridden well that night. No he did not neigh like a . However the tag line save a ride a cowboy was mentioned. So maybe I saved a that night.

A common fetish, is a foot fetish. For me, not a turn on. There are a lot of fetishes that could be paired with that one, but one that makes me just shake my head and say no would be food. Sorry do not care how clean your feet are, keep them away from any food you want me to taste. So that one for me is a hard NO.

Underwear fetishes... had a guy offer to pay me for the panties I was wearing while we chatted. I politely said not, there were multiple reasons for that offer being turned down. But recently had a man offer to buy me the type of underwear he finds sexy if I would model it for him. There are a lot of options for combine with this one. Put some of that underwear on the feet? Maybe put some type of food in the underwear? I do not know all the options.

These are just the tip of the iceberg, on this one I want to hear all of your ideas. Please tell me what combo fetishes would you like to try (or have tried) that are not something normally thought of as going together? Please tell me, I am dying to know.

guy03234a 55M
242 posts
11/22/2021 3:10 am

It's funny... I think of fetishes as anything weird.... but if I'm willing to do it, then I don't consider it weird. I know, it's a terrible double-standard. Partially dressed sex is always hot, just imagining you in just your boots and hat is a huge turn on; it speaks to the rush and lust of animal love, and neither party wanting to slow down enough to get fully undressed before engaging.

I'll agree that heels in the shower is a safety issue... in fact wet clothes aren't that romantic, except for the "wet t-shirt" experience. Food in the shower would end up being watered down... Sharing a shower is either part of foreplay, as in you're cleaning up from a workout, or doing outdoor chores, and preparing for sex... or it's part of the post-sex cool down, getting all soapy and cleaning each other off afterwards. Not that you can't have sex in the shower too!

I like well fitting clothes... whether it's my own bikini briefs: snug enough to keep everything in place and highlight my bulge, but not so tight that I'm uncomfortable. For a woman to wear a t-shirt, turtleneck or sweater that hugs her breasts is a total turn-on. The blouses with the buttons that look like they're about to pop off under the strain of your breasts will always catch my gaze.

Darn... I keep think of things that turn me on, rather then the weird things that might be a fetish. I guess if you had several couples, you could blindfold the guys and see if they could identify their wife's panties by smell. LOL

Have a great day!


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