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Why can't we be clear?!?  

bigclitkitty90 33F
19 posts
5/17/2016 6:13 pm
Why can't we be clear?!?

The one thing that really can't stand is when guys (and ladies) say they want a 100% relationship (from friendship (With benefits), to long term.). If you just want to just have sex let me know. If you just want to hang out, LET ME KNOW?

Now, when you're ready to settle one or both people may or may not be able to fully give you their all? But then again everyone is different...

So gents and ladies, what do you think about this?

SnakeBiteB 53M
50 posts
5/17/2016 6:38 pm

 Erm, how do you know which you want from a specific person until you get to know them? I want a relationship, but I might not want it with the girl I meet out tonight, but just want sex with her. Then again, maybe after we've had sex I'll start falling for her and want a relationship. My point is, why are you trying to define this up front? Just let it be whatever it will be and enjoy yourself.


bigclitkitty90 replies on 5/18/2016 3:26 pm:
Guess I should've added if you don't want something don't string someone along. I totally understand that feelings do change. Just be straight up with what you're feeling.

Want2ShareOral 66M  
570 posts
5/17/2016 8:29 pm

 Honesty is always best


icon034112 51M
35 posts
8/5/2016 1:03 pm

 I completely agree. People say one thing and mean another. Or they can't really handle what they asked for. Now if I'm honest I have gotten caught up myself. I was in a FWB relationship that really did get out of hand and it was completely on me. So now, I stick to the script.


Kissnualova 61M
3 posts
9/12/2017 6:54 pm

 Be straight about what you want upfront but if your feelings change then let it be known right away. No games and don't play with other people's emotions. Like Icon034112 said; "...stick to the script."


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