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Best part of AFF?  

justplayin16061 54F
259 posts
10/30/2019 12:43 pm
Best part of AFF?


Ok, we all know TSdates.com doesn't live up our expectations when it comes finding consenting adult<b> sex partners </font></b>willing engage in whatever kink we are into.

So why are we all here??

What's your favorite part of the site?

Videos? Chat rooms? Pics? Blogs?

What keeps you coming back once you've discovered your playmate of the year isn't just hanging in the shadows waiting for you to send a pic of your genitals?

racyredlace 53F
147 posts
10/30/2019 1:50 pm

I'm still sending all the fellas pics of my genitals, just in case.


beenlost 63M
47 posts
10/30/2019 2:00 pm

The "It might happen" factor. You just never know.


dogslife2live01 71M

10/30/2019 2:03 pm

blogs

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Love2licku0279 45M
29 posts
10/30/2019 2:20 pm

Mostly chat but the hope for occasional real life fun.


wackerpp 53M
256 posts
10/30/2019 3:30 pm

I come here for the blogs now, you get some surprisingly intelligent musings.
everything else is a mess now


disago 55M

10/30/2019 3:36 pm

Okay
1) It’s definitely the pics for me. I enjoy finding pics (in the public feed) with creativity in its exhibitionism and style - something that can set a storyline in my imagination.
2) When I was ‘golden’, I really liked digging into a well written profile.
3) Well, there really isn’t a ‘3’ - it’s just that ending on a ‘2’ would be really weird.


101daydream 58M

10/30/2019 3:43 pm

1) sometimes to check out human behavior
2) sometimes to chat
3) sometimes to live thru others experience
Take care all


hellothere4u 59M
145 posts
10/30/2019 4:24 pm

Good point... I am more active with my SLS profile than TSdates.com. Sad but I'd say I stay with TSdates.com more because of habit than a compelling reason. I do meet every so often or get stood up.. every three or four mouths either can be the outcome. Being a workaholic does not help either...


Sexistephine 38M

10/30/2019 4:39 pm

Going on cam so people can watch and chat to me mmmm


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
10/30/2019 5:36 pm

I am here because I am eternally hopeful. Mostly it is a time waster.
I read the blogs.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
10/30/2019 6:14 pm

all of the above. im hopeful and i enjoy the interaction of the chatrooms...and love the readings/writings in Blog ville. ~~


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
10/30/2019 9:24 pm

Count me as a politely dissenting opinion. TSdates.com has not only met my expectations, it has in many ways exceeded them.

Full disclosure: I have been in and out of online communities since the late 1990's and have found them all dysfunctional at some level, so I set my bar for TSdates.com pretty low. [Note: no one in this community articulates the dysfunctionality of online communities better than aflower2c. For some penetrating insights on this topic, I refer you to her lively and highly-readable blog]

Without further ado, here are a few of my favorite things:

1. The blogs are a digital reincarnation of "Cheers". If I have to explain "Cheers", you are too young to handle this Truth. The writers (posters and commenters) here have become for me familiar, reliable and unfailingly entertaining people. To be sure, it's not all good. But neither is Life. TSdates.com blogosphere is populated with artists, poets, comedians, exhibitionists, posers, manic depressants, irrationally exuberants (yes, I just made that up), lost causes, trolls, masochists, sadists and nebbishes......in short, a literal potpourii of the Human Comedy.
2. Authentic connections. Part of my managed expectations is to appreciate that NOT EVERY connection I make has/will result in sexual relations. In fact, many- if not most- of the *fast-friendships* that spark for me crash-and-burn or wither in slow-motion into oblivion with a whimper not a bang (to shamelessly riff TS Eliot). Vonnegut's Rule: So it goes. There is great joy to be had in the process of building friendship and trust....even when- for good reason or bad- it amounts to naught. If you do not feel excitement and anticipation with beginning a fresh correspondence or chat, then you are not only preordaining loss and disappointment, but there is likely no virtuous feedback loop to help you *get some better game* for your next opportunity.
3. Incandescent connections. These are unicorns, but be assured they are out there. A very few *authentic connections* progress to *incandescent connections* (I will leave it to your imagination to define *incandescent*). This transcendence is the result of patience, unrelenting cheerfulness, tenacity, recognizing and cultivating common ground and a willingness to bare a bit of your soul in *real* way.

In sum TSdates.com is Life- with a lot of sexual *transparency* swirling around it. So, if all you want is an opportunity- this is TSdates.com, what are you waiting for?


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
10/30/2019 9:55 pm

I'm mostly here to read the blogs but am open to meeting someone from this site.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
10/31/2019 9:10 am

Perhaps you should ask "least worse part of TSdates.com"
I come on to blog and basically kill time, I do chat occasionally, but I've stopped meeting unless I'm offered more than just sex.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/1/2019 5:09 pm

It happened just like it was supposed to.You get to talking and after a little bit
you exchange phone numbers and depending on how old you are you have great phone conversations .You take your time and you start a conversation about meeting and all that time goes right out the window.Mostly because people lie about what they look like or their pictures aren't really them.

I hadn't been on another site for sometime Four of my messages got responses.
When we're not under the pressure of sex people tend to be much more engaging
and seriously looking.

blogging was fun for a while.

Using more than all the road!


IAmToxicity 58M

11/5/2019 8:00 am

Yeah, all comments are good, but I ain't paying for this.


Albany_NY_Frank 64M

11/7/2019 4:59 am

I keep coming back because of the hope that I will finally find someone with the same situation and seeking the same thing.


BellaGuido1956 67M/71F  
63 posts
11/13/2019 6:45 pm

TSdates.com has it's drawbacks but I have met some good people that are real and fun to play with. Weeding out the trolls and wannabes is a pain in the ass though. And it's lousy IT


BellaGuido1956 67M/71F  
63 posts
11/13/2019 7:01 pm

So it goes! ;~)


6inchjoey 54M

11/21/2019 9:42 pm

I like seeing her naked or on cam playing with her self and when we meet it just feels more comfortable and relaxing than meeting a gal on pof all dressed and find out she to conservative for me, so that's why I like TSdates.com as woman are a little more open about her sexuality and not shy to show her naked body off.


Cum_Happy 110M
2824 posts
11/23/2019 3:44 am

I have never intended to actually meet someone here. My one expectation of the site is solely seeded and seated in blogs. If one reads my signature they have a good understanding of why I am here.

Thanks for the interesting post.

By the way - (Yes, I still spell it out, lol.) I was drawn here by your rear Very nice!

Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH


merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
1/28/2020 6:47 am

.... the blogs are great... reading people's stories is interesting.... and not everything has to be sexual... kinda like real life... the eye candy is also fun...


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