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Hello Gorgeous!!  

Ladywithatti2d 83F  
261 posts
2/7/2009 3:04 pm

Last Read:
2/10/2009 6:59 am

Hello Gorgeous!!


Don't you simply love getting an email that has those two words as the subject matter!!.

Hello Gorgeous, then when you read it, one of two things happens. Number 1 would be, that they continue on with the flattery, on your beauty and how devastatingly adorable you are, so much so they are breathless. Obviously, it does not affect their typing ability for they sent the email after viewing.

Number 2 is when you open it, you are then confronted with a paragraph or two of spewing, viscious venom about the fact you are fat, gross, old, ugly a religious fanatic, or any other insult that comes to their mind.

Keeping both of those options in mind, lets peer a little deeper into number 1!.

This email, is filled with overwhelming compliments accompanies by the fact that he simply has to meet you or his entire life is over, done, finite!. This makes you go read HIS profile. Once you get there, you sit and either smile, laugh, or sit and cry and wonder WHAT THE HELL IS THIS!!!.

Reading his profile, he is like on the other side of the world from you, I have had them from Spain, Denmark, Italy, to name a few, oh yes and they said "I have got to have you!!". Really now. I have often wondered if they thought I would send them the ticket here, or if they planned on sending me the funds to get there! Yeah right!!.

Or as I am 6' in high heels which I always wear when I am dressed to go out, and his profile says he is 5'4. Hmm well, I guess we could carry along a foot stool.

There are many other things in HIS profile that does not match a single thing in YOUR profile, but he is sitting there without a doubt waiting for the ding of that incoming email from you, because well gosh he did call you GORGEOUS.

Very politely, you send him a refusal, a nice thank you but no thank you. Don't even need to elaborate on the reason why you are declining. Actually, you don't need to explain to anyone your reasons, the fact it's your choice is more than enough, well unless you are on this site.

Your next reply from "hello gorgeous" is that you are now, the worst thing he can think to call you, cause we are female, and none of us want to be considered overweight, even if we are, he send the next missive filled with "who the hell would want a fat sow as ugly as you are". "You are one miserable slut bitch that no one would touch with a 10 foot pole". "Hey bitch this is a sex site, either put out or get out!! They got other sites for people like you that aren't looking for sex".

I am still looking for where in the terms of use it says that if you join this site you are obligated to have sex with each and every male that sends you an email or makes some form of contact.

In one email you went from "gorgeous, breathtaking" to this. Now to wonder who the hell would want you to begin with, don't look now jet fuel genius, but YOU DID. So ummm what the devil does that say about YOU?? Other than you don't handle rejection very well.

From flattery to insulting in one email, faster than the speeding bullet that superman was. It always makes me laugh to see how women instantly go to you are FAT AND UGLY, the two things that men know are weak spots for many females.

I think women should rebel, and when they get those unasked for, emails from men that are so far off the mark of your own profile, that instead of being polite, we should lash out and hit them where it does the most good. THEIR PENIS.

Imagine sending an email, "Good afternoon Little Dick". or, "Hey I got my magnifying glass can you show me that dick again so I can find it". Of course the picture of their dick on their profile is so big that you could pole a naval destroyer across the pacific with it, but just wound them where it is the most important to them. In their britches.

I have never figured out WHY the hell men just gotta send emails to women that are 100% OPPOSITE of what they want to begin with and expect the ladies to be cheerful, and say ok, come right over, your number just came up on the TSdates.com lottery for the day. You are entitled.

If they went shopping in any real STORE, and lets say fruit department, and the apples were spoiled, just because they were there they should purchase them anyway using their logic. Not only purchase them, but devour them with gusto and remark on how great it was, if only for 15 minutes that it takes to satisfy them. Oh yea, that's how it usually works, they want to meet for the 15 minutes it takes to get in, get on, get off, and then GET OUT. The theory of the 4 G's.

From flattery to hypocrite in a twinkle. Only on this site.

Lady

steele1BBW 48F

2/7/2009 4:08 pm

This was a great post! I applaud you


Ladywithatti2d 83F  
485 posts
2/7/2009 9:37 pm

Thanks one and all for your comments. It just never stops amazing me what people here will write or say! I guess they never heard of thinking before they opened their mouth.

Talk about spoiled brats!! Tell them NO and all of a sudden they turn into the incredible green hulk!! dripping venom. Then never once stop to think that THEY were the ones who initiated contact FIRST and they thought you were better than bubble gum at that moment, the magic NO arrives then all of a sudden it's like we have the plague and they are telling the world how worthless we all are.

Umm guess they must really LOVE worthless, skanky women seeing as they were so attracted to begin with!!.

Shaking my head.

If this don't top all here is one for your books. My daughter was out with a friend to hear another friends band last weekend. During a break in the set, a gentleman, HA! approached her from the back of the bar. He stopped and talked to her and told her how beautiful she was, ( I wouldn't argue with THAT idea! she is!), then right in the middle of his conversation he looks at her and says.

"my god your mouth it just looks so perfect for sucking a cock". I got a question just what the freaking hell does the perfect mouth look like for that?? A sucker fish!! you know the ones who's lips unfold when they suck the bait off the hook? Apparently, they are not all one size fits all either, as many women have been told the same thing. What knocks my socks off is WHY would you approach a total stranger in PUBLIC and say something like that. The drummer who is her friend, took one look at her face, cleared the stage and told the guy he was going to kill him! get lost.

Oh yeah, and he was NOT some 20 year old either!! he was far older and should have known better. I wonder if he tells his own daughter that about HER mouth.

Lady


haversack_smith 47M
6189 posts
2/9/2009 2:43 pm

'Ello gorgeous.

I dread to imagine where some of these guys learned how to talk to women. Was this how their father talked to their mother, I wonder? Where did they learn these singularly unattractive seduction techniques?

I sure hope that's not the content of the "100% sucessful sekrets 4 seducing women" dossier I keep getting spam messages about...

OTOH, maybe some women do go gooey-eyed at the first compliment? I wouldn't have thought it possible, but I was today talking to a friend whose friend had just gotten back with a real low-down scumbag of a boyfriend after he filled their appartment with flowers. And I'm thinking "Um, isn't that like the oldest trick in the book? How can anyway fall for that?"


toy45foru 60M

2/9/2009 5:03 pm

well, I can honestly say I've never had an email headed 'Hello Gorgeous'! Seriously though, Ladywith...it's exactly like you say, alot of guys just don't think it would seem. Just 'cos you're online shouldn't mean the normal rules of interacting with other people, does it? Maybe this makes me old-fashioned or something. Well, if it does, I don't care. I think the Rev made a good point about how some guys act on this kind of site.


Ladywithatti2d 83F  
485 posts
2/10/2009 6:59 am

Toy, apparently the majority of males, see "sign up tonight, get sex before sundown" and actually believe that rubbish!!.

The only place that would work is in a bawdy house where you PAY up front for a one nighter or one hour or whatever it is you do pay for.

Anyone who joins this site, and thinks that just because they did, and there are women here all waiting with their britches around their ankles for them to send them the email has to be delusional. BUT they do believe it!!.

Lord even a prostitute reserves the right to say NO!! Those same men would never in real life approach any woman not even the prostitute and say the outrageous things they do on this site. They think this is a drive thru whorehouse warehouse.

Lady


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