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Stranger Sex
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Stranger Sex I bet you thought you were going to read real kinky sex didn't ya!! Sorry to disappoint you but you may just find this interesting reading. A few years aback there was an Autobiography titled "The Stranger Beside You". The woman who wrote it did so, because she had sat, worked with, had many laughs with Ted Bundy, on a Crisis Hot Line. That of course was before he got caught for murdering 37 women. He WAS a stranger to her with that disclosure. She never had a clue he was a killer and knew him personally for several years. I have read so many times in posts, blogs, emails, from people on this site that they "knew" what the person was like, what they wanted. That begs the question, HOW do you know? Can you honestly believe that you have so much more intelligence and insight of people from emails, posts etc and never even meeting them? Todays statistics are that a woman is sexually assaulted or abused every 6 minutes. That is a staggering number to my way of thinking. How many of you can walk down a street and point out the women walking around you that have been , or are victims of domestic violence? Unless they are bruised, or disfigured you couldn't. Do yourself a favor, men and women both, READ profiles and see how many fantasize about . Oh yes, one man described graphically how HE wanted to be . Another wrote out the entire scenario of sneaking into a womans home in the dead of night, putting a knife to her throat and her. I have read, and received emails from men telling me how they want to pull my hair, slap my ass, ram it in, make me scream. For some weird reason they find this idea sexy and foreplay. Worse is they TRULY BELIEVE this is a hot sexy come one intro. Unless you are into the B&D scene and have clearly stated that is your preference, what makes anyone male or female think that inflicting pain is sexy? Why do men truly believe they can join this site, set up a profile, surf thru female profiles, pick out the one they want and then email her, with telling her they are going to be in town on a specified date, and are looking to connect just for sex. Regardless of what they look like, or if they are even remotely similar to the females age, or wants in HER profile. This isn't a drive thru Sexual Buffet guaranteed sex in 24 hours or less. You are not looking for a piece of meat. OK, some are. A woman would be a lunatic to meet someone she had never even said hello to. Lets suppose she says, "well he sounds nice in the rest of his email". Allow me to tell you about a case of internet beginnings that just was featured on TV. Listen up ladies!!! The male, made the contact, was sweet, polite, charming etc. He chatted for a bit gaining her confidence. They finally agreed to meet. They did, it went wonderfully!!! He invited her to go someplace else he would drive, she agreed. OH He did go someplace else. He went to a remote area, then brutally assaulted her and beat her mercilessly with his belt, using the buckle. Women had whole entire images of the buckle embedded in their skin from the force of the blow. He did this to many women before he was finally caught. So, did they really know him?? Could they really tell he was "a nice guy". No more than Ann Rule did when she wrote the book about Ted Bundy. How many of you men send out emails, and say here is my personal email addy, and my home phone and my cell phone, call me any time, I am waiting for your call. Uhh are you aware there is about 100 ways using just that information provided to locate your home address, and just about anything else anyone would want to know about you from the internet. There is a spiffy search engine called reverse look up. Yep, all ya need is a phone number simple as that. In the event you are unfamiliar with the area, you can also get a map from your front door to their front door, by the shortest route. Have any of you stopped to think for a minute now?? How about it gentlemen, would you like having a wild, mentally unstable, jealous female land on your doorstep? Or if you are a married man/woman, having your wife/husband find out with him/her knocking on your door. If that don't make you think, perhaps you should think about Aileene Wurnos. The female that shot all the men she agreed to meet!!! Nope men you are not the invincible people you seem to think you are. There are strangers all around you and one day, be you male or female and you are so eager to hand out your emails and you will one day run right smack into one of those strangers. Wise females never give out such information or even reply to such emails, for their own safety. When they refuse my gosh, they are told, "Hey this is a sex site, if you don't like it leave". Well, if you have a death wish, or enjoy playing Russian Roulette, then go ahead. When you are online, walking in the mall, the grocery store, sure all the people around you are strangers, however, some are more STRANGE than others. Lady |
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1/17/2006 10:15 am |
Good points to take to heart. However I have found that if I follow certain rules I will be okay. Of course I am not going to elaborate, lest some maniac read this, but they have kept me from meeting the wrong person and getting into a serious situation. And most of all I trust my instinct implicitly.
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Goldmember, matter of fact I did work in law enforcement. Not the enquirer. But even if I had not worked in any of them, all you need to do is listen to the radio or television, or pick up a newspaper. You are right we do all have to die sometime, but let me ask you. Are you willing to stand in the middle of a train track with a train coming at you about 80 miles an hour??? Or leap into the shower holding an electric razor and take your chance and see if it will or will not kill you, or are you far more careful. If it's your choice to take the chance of death just for the sake of sex, that lasts what an hour or even less. Perhaps if more caution were used death neednt be a factor at all. Even if someone "claims" they are STD free, they could have been tested today, if they had unprotected sexy yesterday with a person that is infected, it will not show up for 3 months. The anti bodies will not even form in your body for three months, and you can be infected, and every single person you have sex with unprotected of course will also be infected. THANK you Kofla!!! for your great input, and your information. That was EXCELLENT. Part of the problem is that men fail to see or understand that they can be victims as well!!. I am not sure if it's that great macho image, they can handle anything or just why they believe it don't happen to men. Trust me it can and it DOES. That's why I can't understand why men on this site, on the very FIRST contact send out an email to someone that is just a name or a picture that could turn out NOT to be them, and pass out their phone number, cell phone number, and private email address. If they run into one of these psycho babes, who stalks them every where perhaps they will understand that there are men and women out there and on this site, that are pure predators. We are all strangers to one another on here, and even if we spend a good amount of time chatting by email, moving to private emails, to phone conversation to eventual meeting, there is no GUARANTEE that the person you eventually meet is going to be like they were in conversation. Not by looks, or disposition, or a few other things. Lets not leave out the emotionally needy one that if the meeting does not go as they fantasized, that it can turn nasty real quick. Thanks for the input here thats, what makes a subject informative, and interesting. Lady
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Ted Bundy lured a minimum of 37 women to their deaths. He was good looking, intelligent, and very well spoken. These monsters *hide* in their normalness. I myself lost my virginity in a date . It was NOT fun, exciting, nor did I orgasm. I screamed, I cried, it hurt like hell, and all I could think of was how did this happen? How can I get out of this? Contrary to the popular belief is NOT sexy. I was 15. To this day, do NOT walk up behind me...it terrifies me. Do NOT even try to hold me down nor pull my hair. I will kick your ass. And yes, men that start with emails of this crap...you are deleted and lost. I am shocked at the number of men that fantasize of hurting women thinking it is sexy. I a shocked at the number of women that allow it. Yes Soy, there is a difference in playing and reality, but some don't know that line. And being on a website you have NO CLUE who you are with unless time has gone by. Meeting a total stranger and trusting them with your life and body of which you only have one of, is truly stupidity at it's finest if you have not done anything prior. Yes, I can die in a bathtub. However I don't get into the tub with an electrical chord in my hand. Caution is a good thing. And men should NOT be angry at women for being cautious. My lover whom I met on here...oh yeah..I was beyong cautious. I had multiple people that knew where I was. I gave them locations and scheduled times to call me on my cell phone. Had anything happened...they knew right where to look. And guess what..HE knew I did this. So had he thought about it, he would have thought twice now.
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