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Anyone else?
Posted:May 27, 2019 7:46 am
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2022 12:35 am

Anyone else out there tired of the smartphone, online dating, and all the “hook ups”. Anyone miss asking a lady out on a date to get to know her. Anyone else miss that first good night kiss. Anyone else miss making out on the couch after watching a movie and sharing a pizza with beer. Anyone else miss that first touch of her face, throat, sliding her top up over her head to kiss the indent of where her bra is holding her breasts. Anyone else miss that first touch of your bodies coming together to give each other pleasure because you like someone not because you “want to get laid”.
Tired. Alone.
Posted:May 15, 2019 8:45 pm
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2022 12:35 am

I'm so tired. So very, very tired…
…of being hurt.
…of getting my hopes up.
...of being disappointed.
...of being ghosted, rejected and the silence.
I'm so tired. So very, very tired….
...of men who feign interest.
...of dick pics.
...of men that only want to “hook up”.
...of feeling excited and the ensuing letdown.
Now, I'm smart enough to know it's not just the men here. Part of it is me. I'm far from perfect and that brings up something else I'm tired of, wondering what's wrong with me?
I yearn for a companion, a friend, a lover and a Dom. I so badly want to feel that spark, a connection and a mutual desire. But at that end of the day I climb into bed, alone, again and again.
I've carried a quiet whisper inside of me for sometime now, refusing to believe it. Its tenacity has become increasingly alarming and something I fear. The end of my days will come, alone, without that which I so greatly desire, my friend, my lover, my companion and my partner.
I'm so tired. So, very, very tired…
...of being unwanted.
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Bathroom Pics
Posted:Dec 20, 2018 7:54 am
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2022 12:35 am

Is it just me or do other lady’s get turned off by the “toilet” pics that are taken by men?? I understand taking a pic in the bathroom mirror but please, please stop posting pics of your cock while sitting on the’s truly a huge turn off for me.
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Thank you
Posted:Aug 19, 2018 3:58 pm
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2022 12:35 am

I would like to thank those that have commented nice things on my pics and have ignored the rude and untrue comments that were there.

As I stated in another blog, men can be very rude and unfair with being turned down. One man stated that I was "a wack job" because I relied to his rude behavior and comments to me after I said "no thank you". Another accused me of "stealing his wallet" when in fact he got drunk and lost it during a date of ours.

Those of you that still made statements after seeing their comments, I appreciate you not believing a word two men that did not get what they wanted from me say.

Am I the only one
Posted:Jul 2, 2016 10:29 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2018 3:59 pm

I've been a mbr of off and on for many years and 97% of the time I've been here I have had a lot of fun and really enjoyed those that I have met. But it seems in the past year or so the men that are emailing me has changed, which leads me to ask:
"Am I the only one that still reads profiles?"

As I read through profiles of men that I find some sort of attraction, if I read anything that is no "me" such as I am older than they prefer or they prefer athletic/slender women or what ever it is, I respect what they write and I move on to the next profile that catches my eye.

What baffles me is the emails I get from men that are not even close to my preferences in "my ideal person", I find it disrespectful when I get an email that is so far outside my spectrum, I mean really? Does anyone read profiles anymore? Does it matter that is say "no 20-somethings" or "no married or attached men" or that I'm tired or "playmates & fuck-buddies" but all they want to do is hook-up that night?

BUT I do know this - there are some very polite men that will email me and say "I know I don't meet your wants but I'd just like to say......" and I do appreciate those emails.....

Oh Shit - I guess I just answered my own questions.....a very few respectful men do but not the majority.
Only those that know........
Posted:Jun 29, 2016 9:56 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2018 4:02 pm

I've been in this Pity-Pot for a few days now and I've been trying to figure out what's wrong with me, or with men? I've come to the concussion, I think, I'm ready to have someone in my life on regular basis (I've been single for 8yrs). A few friends and family mbrs have been suggesting it for a few years but I swore I'd never "settle" again. I need a man that is an equal to my sexual desires and wants.

I'm on this site and one other Adult Site and I get a stead flow of emails but a problem is, there's no one that has emailed me looking for more than just a "playmate". And I understand why - this and the other site are "sex" sites but where else do you find/meet others that have the same sexual mind-set and/or lifestyle?

So anyway - what do I do? I do want any other lonely woman in today society does - I join a couple "dating" sites. I have the same face pics (minus the skinned body shots) on these "dating" site and do I get any emails? 1, I get 1 email and it's from the opposite of the "ideal person" I described. So I decide to take a leap and I "swipe" right and email a few men. And guess what happens?!?! You guessed it, they look at my profile but never answers my email or 2 actually emailed me back and say "thanks but you're not my type". BUT if they knew how sexual I was and how I like to fuck - you bet your ass they'd be interested!

So why do I feel that men are only attracted to sexual women as playmates and not partners in life? Why do I feel that women (me) can't get a man interested unless he knows her sexual preference? And are there any men out there that doesn't get intimidated by my shorthair; accepts a strong, independent woman yet submissive with her man; and wants a lady on the streets, but a freak in the sheets?

Why is it so hard?

Pity-Pot, remember
Is it insecurity or rudeness
Posted:Jun 21, 2016 11:02 pm
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2016 10:55 am

Normally I have always tried to email someone back that has emailed me by responding to the email and starting a conversation; or saying "Thank you, but no thank" to those that I am not interested in. I only think its polite to at least acknowledge someone trying to contact me BUT I have changed my mind.....the last few gentlemen that I have said no thank you to can not take the "rejection" even in a nice way and have to be rude and say very mean and horrible things to me.....Why?

I have emailed men and have gotten no reply at all or a "Quick Reply" saying NO which I have deleted and then moved on. But there are some out there that get very offended and say horrible things to or about me that aren't true, then they block me....not giving me a chance to explain my reply.

So is this an act of insecurity on the man and his need to degrade a woman when she has "rejected" him or are most men on this site just Assholes?

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