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Here's your sign!  

secret_lade 49F
14097 posts
1/30/2021 1:22 pm
Here's your sign!

How do you know you've let things get of control??



The winter floor mats you set by the door so you wouldn't forget to put them in the car have become a boot mat.

....

I feel a little like a piece of has given up.

Why couldn't it have been the piece that drops food on her boobs every while she's eating lunch.... Good lord!

No, it's that piece of that makes sure she has the dishes done before inviting company over. The piece that makes her bed and cleans up the clutter....

The piece of that actually *remembers* that she's invited company over!

Nah, of course not!

As of this moment, working on changing that, though.

Thank you to the kind readers who've left the personal messages in my<b> inbox </font></b>and on my blog.

Your thoughts and input are always appreciated and valued by me. That's one of the best parts to the whole blog world....

The ability to interact with real people.

While I feel a little like suffocating beneath a black cloud of doom, my rational mind knows it's all just perspective. going to be working on changing that perspective.

After all, change does start with .

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/31/2021 3:04 pm

    Quoting flannel_light:
    It's just me here in my apartment and my kitchen looks like a Drs office with so many meds. This week I am going to be working on some changes . You have helped me in more ways than you know.
I'm glad that I've been able to help you! Sometimes all it takes is a little inspiration to get moving in the right direction.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/31/2021 3:01 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    They say a change is as good as a rest
I'm definitely ready for some change.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/31/2021 3:01 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    It's not just you, I feel the same way. My kitchen is no longer my clean space, I've surrendered my living room and my dinner table to the g-girls. But, when they move out in the near future I'll be ready to take it back, clean it well, and see it remain that way every day that they aren't here. I blame Covid, nobody ever leaves the house anymore.
You're so right.... Nobody EVER leaves the house anymore! Even if you do... Everything is closed and shut down so there's nothing to do, unless of course, you want to eat a meal in a 25 degree igloo or stand around outside in a snowstorm to shoot the shit with friends. It's so fucking depressing.


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
1/31/2021 9:07 am

It's just me here in my apartment and my kitchen looks like a Drs office with so many meds. This week I am going to be working on some changes . You have helped me in more ways than you know.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
1/31/2021 7:25 am

They say a change is as good as a rest


mc_justmc 63M

1/31/2021 6:52 am

It's not just you, I feel the same way. My kitchen is no longer my clean space, I've surrendered my living room and my dinner table to the g-girls. But, when they move out in the near future I'll be ready to take it back, clean it well, and see it remain that way every day that they aren't here. I blame Covid, nobody ever leaves the house anymore.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/31/2021 2:12 am

    Quoting jolielaide:
    all i see are some really nice boots by the door. i don't even have boots, secret.
Do you need boots where you live? They're essential in the snowy climates.... I've got another pair that I haven't even worn yet this winter.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/31/2021 1:58 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    change does start with . handing RedRock a Hundred dollar bill
Ha ha ha. I like that!!


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
1/30/2021 8:18 pm

all i see are some really nice boots by the door. i don't even have boots, secret.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/30/2021 7:05 pm

change does start with . handing RedRock a Hundred dollar bill

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/30/2021 7:02 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    Actually, using the winter floor mat as a boot mat looks like a great idea! Keeps all that slushy stuff off your carpet and you can always take the floor mat to the bathroom and clean it off in the tub. Or take it to your car. lol
You definitely need something to put your boots on during the winter where I live. Between sidewalk salt and snow... Your carpet would be a mess it you didnt. I do have a regular boot mat, it just isn't out.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/30/2021 6:39 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    It's actually a pretty good idea for a boot mat.... I'd buy another set for the car and put the second one by the back door.
I do already have a boot mat... I just need to put it out. Yikes! Lol


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/30/2021 6:37 pm

    Quoting coolpoolguy3:
    You know if you hadn't explained it I would have thought that was a brilliant way of recycling a car mat.
I actually have a different mat for my winter boots.... Lol I really do need to get these into my car.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/30/2021 6:34 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Control? 🤔
    It's a state of mind. None of us are REALLY in control of anything.

    Those boots look nice and warm. ❗❗😎
They are nice and warm... I hate having cold feet.


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
1/30/2021 6:18 pm

Actually, using the winter floor mat as a boot mat looks like a great idea! Keeps all that slushy stuff off your carpet and you can always take the floor mat to the bathroom and clean it off in the tub. Or take it to your car. lol

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
1/30/2021 5:55 pm

It's actually a pretty good idea for a boot mat.... I'd buy another set for the car and put the second one by the back door.


coolpoolguy3 57M
3357 posts
1/30/2021 5:50 pm

You know if you hadn't explained it I would have thought that was a brilliant way of recycling a car mat.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
1/30/2021 5:33 pm

Control? 🤔
It's a state of mind. None of us are REALLY in control of anything.

Those boots look nice and warm. ❗❗😎


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/30/2021 5:04 pm

    Quoting big54al:
    Apparently, the site doesn't recognize the word 'me'
The word goblins have been chewing up my posts lately.... So I put the whole post in the first comment too. Today it didn't like I'm, yah, me....


big54al 69M
2259 posts
1/30/2021 4:27 pm

Apparently, the site doesn't recognize the word 'me'


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/30/2021 1:23 pm

How do you know you've let things get out of control??

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The winter floor mats you set by the door so you wouldn't forget to put them in the car have become a boot mat.

Yah....

I feel a little like a piece of me has given up.

Why couldn't it have been the piece that drops food on her boobs every day while she's eating lunch.... Good lord!

No, it's that piece of me that makes sure she has the dishes done before inviting company over. The piece that makes her bed and cleans up the clutter....

The piece of me that actually *remembers* that she's invited company over!

Nah, of course not!

As of this moment, I'm working on changing that, though.

Thank you to the kind readers who've left me the personal messages in my inbox and on my blog.

Your thoughts and input are always appreciated and valued by me. That's one of the best parts to the whole blog world....

The ability to interact with real people.

While I feel a little like I'm suffocating beneath a black cloud of doom, my rational mind knows it's all just perspective. I'm going to be working on changing that perspective.

After all, change does start with me.


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