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My Perpendicular Purple Dick-ular  

mc_justmc 63M
2046 posts
8/4/2019 7:11 am
My Perpendicular Purple Dick-ular


Sometimes I find myself perusing the profiles of other site members and mostly feeling depressed b.y. the fakes and scammers t.h.a.t. didn't exist here back when I first joined. Or maybe they did and I was too naive to admit it. Either way, every now and then I come across a profile with lots of sex pics and sometimes videos t.h.a.t. take me back to the long forgotten days when I had sex. Some of them inspire my desires to get back o.u.t there and have some fun. Then I remember not o.n.l.y do I have no partner, I don't even have a current wish list. At this point I tell myself it's too much of a hassle, besides I have a hallway to tile, bathrooms to scrub, and a huge stack of dishes with my n.a.m.e on it, waiting me in the kitchen.

When I first decided abstain, coming 6 yrs ago, I felt l.i.k.e I had t.o get o.u.t . I was stuck in a cycle w.h.i.c.h. sounded inviting when it started, but after 2 yrs left feeling like a tool. Not t.h.a.t. the people I "associated" with weren't friendly, they were sharing, giving, like minded sexual perverts much like myself. But I was tired of being the third wheel, or the fifth wheel, or the odd man , being passed from couple to couple. So, I posted my profile NO COUPLES, NO MARRIED WOMEN. And t.h.a.t. was t.h.a.t .

I assumed sooner or later some unsuspecting w.o.m.a.n would stagger into my life and we would have , sweaty, endless, video-taped orgasms and my life would be complete. Except, no o.n.e staggered in and now, years later, I don't care. Every night I can have sex however, with whoever, whenever I feel like imagining it w.i.t.h. And afterwards, a quick wash off, and I have the entire bed t.o myself.

I often imagine this is the world we live in, now. Where we are MORE connected with the rest of the world b.y. our technology, and yet less connected physically BECAUSE of our technology. It makes me sad the youth of today t.h.a.t. won't know t.h.a.t. worthless feeling of having spent most of a Saturday night and too much of a weeks p.a.y. in a sleazy bar, getting drunk and turned down b.y. women I wouldn't give the time of day to, sober. Ahhhhh, the good old days.....So now and maybe forever, I carry on, just me and my perpendicular friend.

Do you feel MORE or LESS connected b.y. technology?


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 7:15 am

Sometimes I find myself perusing the profiles of other site members and mostly feeling depressed by all the fakes and scammers that didn't exist here back when I first joined. Or maybe they did and I was too naive to admit it. Either way, every now and then I come across a profile with lots of sex pics and sometimes videos that take me back to the long forgotten days when I had sex. Some of them inspire my desires to get back out there and have some fun. Then I remember that not only do I have no partner, I don't even have a current wish list. At this point I tell myself that it's too much of a hassle, besides I have a hallway to tile, bathrooms to scrub, and a huge stack of dishes with my name on it, waiting for me in the kitchen.

When I first decided to abstain, coming up on 6 yrs ago, I felt that I had to get out. I was stuck in a cycle that sounded inviting when it started, but after 2 yrs left me feeling like a tool. Not that the people I "associated" with weren't friendly, they were sharing, giving, like minded sexual perverts much like myself. But I was tired of being the third wheel, or the fifth wheel, or the odd man out, being passed from couple to couple. So, I posted on my profile NO COUPLES, NO MARRIED WOMEN. And that was that.

I assumed that sooner or later some unsuspecting female would stagger into my life and we would have hot, sweaty, endless, video-taped orgasms and my life would be complete. Except, no one staggered in and now, years later, I don't really care. Every night I can have sex however, with whoever, whenever I feel like imagining it. And afterwards, a quick wash off, and I have the entire bed to myself.

I often imagine that this is the world we live in, now. Where we are MORE connected with the rest of the world by our technology, and yet less connected physically BECAUSE of our technology. It makes me sad for the youth of today that won't know that worthless feeling of having spent most of a Saturday night and too much of a weeks pay in a sleazy bar, getting drunk and turned down by women I wouldn't give the time of day to, sober. Ahhhhh, the good old days.....So for now and maybe forever, I carry on, just me and my perpendicular friend.

Do you feel MORE or LESS connected by technology?


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/4/2019 8:20 am

Technology?
I was on a PC when the hard drive was 512k...in the 80's... Technology is my friend. Beats beating to the same mag over and over. A New ass, with the scroll of the mouse..
The hassle you mentioned... I'm just lazy... but I get what you mean.


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 9:18 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Technology?
    I was on a PC when the hard drive was 512k...in the 80's... Technology is my friend. Beats beating to the same mag over and over. A New ass, with the scroll of the mouse..
    The hassle you mentioned... I'm just lazy... but I get what you mean.
I'm lazy, too. My favorite word is tomorrow.


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 9:20 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Technology?
    I was on a PC when the hard drive was 512k...in the 80's... Technology is my friend. Beats beating to the same mag over and over. A New ass, with the scroll of the mouse..
    The hassle you mentioned... I'm just lazy... but I get what you mean.
MS-Dos mode. Uggghhhhh, I hated that shit.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
8/4/2019 10:05 am

Do you feel MORE or LESS connected b.y. technology?

Both really.
More because I can connect to women outside of my little local area. And even locally I can connect to women I didn't know of before.
but
Less because it isn't an in person connection.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
8/4/2019 10:18 am

YES! lol
OK, that's not confusing, right? Yes, I feel more connected, but at the same time less connected. The technology gives us a wider area to search and more people to potentially connect with, but even with the possibility of more people, the potential is rarely realized. We have brief connections through the internet, then they fade off into the dim mists, never to make that true, in-person connection that most of us desperately want.
In short, life sucks sometimes. Maybe I should go to Walmart and check out the cucumbers. For a salad! Sheesh! You guys are perverts!

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
8/4/2019 10:30 am

Oh yes hugs V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
8/4/2019 11:06 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    MS-Dos mode. Uggghhhhh, I hated that shit.

I'll whip up a batch file, from time to time . . for old time's sake


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 11:11 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Do you feel MORE or LESS connected b.y. technology?

    Both really.
    More because I can connect to women outside of my little local area. And even locally I can connect to women I didn't know of before.
    but
    Less because it isn't an in person connection.
Without that physical connection it seems like make believe.


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 11:13 am

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    YES! lol
    OK, that's not confusing, right? Yes, I feel more connected, but at the same time less connected. The technology gives us a wider area to search and more people to potentially connect with, but even with the possibility of more people, the potential is rarely realized. We have brief connections through the internet, then they fade off into the dim mists, never to make that true, in-person connection that most of us desperately want.
    In short, life sucks sometimes. Maybe I should go to Walmart and check out the cucumbers. For a salad! Sheesh! You guys are perverts!
When your cucumber shopping, think of me.


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 11:14 am

Is that a "virtual" hug?


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 11:15 am

    Quoting HAMONMAN:

    I'll whip up a batch file, from time to time . . for old time's sake
Aiyeeeeeeeeeee!!! No comprende senor, me no habla MS-Dos.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
8/4/2019 11:29 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Without that physical connection it seems like make believe.
Nooo shit. There are a notable number of people who say they want to meet then . . . can't or don't. Poof

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
8/4/2019 12:15 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    When your cucumber shopping, think of me.
And when I'm slicing and dicing it into my salad....still want me thinking of you?

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 3:00 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Nooo shit. There are a notable number of people who say they want to meet then . . . can't or don't. Poof
Yep, I've had a few evaporate just when things got interesting.


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 3:08 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    And when I'm slicing and dicing it into my salad....still want me thinking of you?
Sure Lorena, slice it, dice it, just keep me in mind.


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 3:09 pm

    Quoting  :

Wait till someone asks her to fax something.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/4/2019 3:16 pm

I can relate. I have gone lazy. I don’t find many who I want to shave for.
Oh lordy, I may need to just quit and learn to crochet. 🤦‍♀️


lust4life59 65F  
2552 posts
8/4/2019 4:16 pm

I've had real life connections with people I wouldn't have ever been aware of had it not been for technology.


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 7:44 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    I can relate. I have gone lazy. I don’t find many who I want to shave for.
    Oh lordy, I may need to just quit and learn to crochet. 🤦‍♀️
Shave? That would be a very special person. I normally use some Veet and wash those unwanted hairs away.


mc_justmc 63M

8/4/2019 7:47 pm

    Quoting lust4life59:
    I've had real life connections with people I wouldn't have ever been aware of had it not been for technology.
I did too, but that was years ago, now it seems the site is full of fakes. I guess there could be some real ones now, but I'm so tired of trying, it's easier to take matters in to my own hands.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
8/15/2019 10:27 am

Good post, mc - clearly you're speaking to what a lot of us are feeling.

Like others have said, in some ways I feel more connected because I'm acquainted with people all over the country. And, I will say that when I first came on this site, it was fun to go to the local meet and greets and hang out with people who I NEVER would have met and socialized with in my normal life. Like a small town fire fighter 20 years younger than me.

But, yes - it is too easy to be lazy and feel like I'm keeping in touch with friends just by virtue of seeing their Facebook posts, instead of making the effort to actually get together with them.

and I won't even go into my nonexistent sex life...


mc_justmc 63M

8/16/2019 5:13 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Good post, mc - clearly you're speaking to what a lot of us are feeling.

    Like others have said, in some ways I feel more connected because I'm acquainted with people all over the country. And, I will say that when I first came on this site, it was fun to go to the local meet and greets and hang out with people who I NEVER would have met and socialized with in my normal life. Like a small town fire fighter 20 years younger than me.

    But, yes - it is too easy to be lazy and feel like I'm keeping in touch with friends just by virtue of seeing their Facebook posts, instead of making the effort to actually get together with them.

    and I won't even go into my nonexistent sex life...
The face to face has been eluding me, lately. I've found myself in a rut of just sitting at home and not getting out. This Saturday I've got a social meeting to attend.


mc_justmc 63M

8/16/2019 5:20 am

    Quoting  :

I'd love to find someone in my area, but when I look online I don't see anything interesting until I get a couple of hundred miles away.


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
8/17/2019 6:26 am

Well, technology allows this introvert to stay connected to people, or feel like I'm connected, on my terms. So, if I don't want to "people", I can still check in on folks and stay in my apartment.

Technology makes it easier to get to know someone really quickly, and I'm not sure if that's good or bad.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


mc_justmc 63M

8/17/2019 6:33 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Well, technology allows this introvert to stay connected to people, or feel like I'm connected, on my terms. So, if I don't want to "people", I can still check in on folks and stay in my apartment.

    Technology makes it easier to get to know someone really quickly, and I'm not sure if that's good or bad.
That's a good way to look at it.


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