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Then, now, and real or not  

Slaver1956 68M  
8 posts
2/9/2022 2:38 pm
Then, now, and real or not


Set the background. Veteran, previously high end professional, globally experienced, college degrees, personal Copyrights. Also been married times, and now a widower. Now, that I have the "This is why I walk on water" stuff out of the way, time for the frustration. Understand, I know this is NOT universal, but I want to let off some steam. Oh, I do NOT go to<b> bars </font></b>or do any of those kind of things. Been there, done that when younger.

I do actually seek a long term romantic - and yes sexual - relationship. I had success online at one point, how I met my third and late wife, some 3000 miles away at the time with eHarmony. But now it seems to be different. The usual sites are not providing much, actually almost nothing. Senior Sizzles which is the TSdates.com owned site I am on, has many claiming to be female and many claiming to want long term. Oh, alt is another TSdates.com owned site, but they truly need to hire someone to actually manage the site so it will load and work and it keeps hanging .

Now, I get if I am outside the selection and have no issue with that. What irritates me is all the ones that reply chat we discuss, on and on, but then they ignore my very clearly listed Red Flags. To wit, start calling me names like honey, dear, darling and so forth and even after being reminded more than once, continues. OK, tells me you in Nigeria or Turkey or somewhere like that. The other worst is asking for or similar considerations before we meet face to face. Tells me they are fake and very likely scammers. And especially when we get close to hopefully meeting. Then they tell they are somewhere that is NOT what profile states and they want help to get back. Know what, you lied from the get go. Freaking hitchhike.

So, in summary, if in fact they are real and truly seek a long term relationship, why do they absolutely ignore the Red Flags, which are clearly listed front in my profile? OK, I have blown off steam. Continuing the search, and yes, across many sites.

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