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My Thoughts  

Slaver1956 68M  
8 posts
9/19/2022 9:19 am
My Thoughts


Just my thoughts on Romance, Foreplay, and Sex

Some Thoughts on Romance

Romance is not a one time thing. It must be a constant, ongoing, and even change over time as the relationship evolves.

It is not just a flower when expected. There can be that, but best when the flower is not expected, done for no reason then just to give the flower.

It includes holding hands, including in public. Giving your hand that quick little kiss.

It include a gentle caress of your hand or the small of your back.

It includes whispering some sweet words in your ear.

It includes that look when eyes meet.

It can include cuddling for not other reason than to cuddle.

It can include long kisses.

It can include giving you a foot rub with lotion after a long day at work.

What else can it include? That is yet to be explored!

Some Thoughts on Foreplay

Foreplay can be an extension of Romance, and in truth should be. I believe that it is also crucial to a great sexual part of a relationship, and also as a stand-alone fun part of a relationship. It does and should take time.

It can certainly include cuddling, and should.

Gentle sucking of fingers and toes – before lotion - perhaps.

Kissing your neck and licking the backs of your ears.

Caressing each other, over our clothes.

Exposing each other – to a point only. Maybe go caress each other under clothes – to a point only. The idea is to excite each other, but the further fun may come later.

Wearing items at home that we know excites the other, or dressed the way we know excites the other.

Washing your back when you are taking a bath.

Giving you an all over rub with lotion.

At times watching porn together. For that, should be wearing very little, or nothing.

What else can it include? That is yet to be explored!

Some Thoughts on Sex

While “hook-up” sex can be fun, it is not more than that. Great sex can and may, and likely will and should, start early in a relationship but, like Romance and Foreplay, gets much better as the relationship gets deeper.

It should build from Romance and Foreplay! Those two should be the foundation!

I do like to start with the Foreplay. Nice long time of Foreplay.

You do not get to undress yourself, that is for me to do! You can claim the same.

I will take my time, touching, kissing, licking, as I go.

I enjoy masturbation, taking care of each other at the same time, or watching each other. Both can be very stimulating. It can also be a part of Foreplay.

I do enjoy oral, both giving and receiving.

I can use Masturbation and Oral on you to bring you to many orgasms, which a woman is very capable of.

If you are not already a screamer and a squirter, I will do my best to get you there.

For intercourse, which is not always necessary, many positions are possible, and should be explored.

Some sexual activities can be done in a car.

Outdoors sex is fun too. That is, even if sitting on your own patio at night and just masturbating each other.

If you have not already tried it, I will introduce you to what is known as Lite Bondage, which is just simple restraint. It can be a fun addition occasionally or even as a constant.

After play, holding you, talking, kissing.

What else can be done? Exploration can be fun!

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