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We have found a nice place to be  

puddytatt1005 58M/57F
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12/30/2017 7:27 pm
We have found a nice place to be


My Lovely Bride and I have been together for the last 26 years and we are still going Strong. We have found a nice even place to live out our days, i am the center of her world and she is my reason why.

one of the things that has really surprised us both is how much better our SEX life has gotten as we have aged. Just like every young person out there, I think we thought that we were the SHIT when it came to the old in and out. What we realize now was that we were trying so hard to perform for the critics that we carried around in our tiny little LIFE EXPERIENCE.
What it boiled down to was what I have learned about doing something that requires a bit of skill, Focus and concentration.

FOR AN EXPLANATION I HAVE BORROWED FROM A Friend's BLOG

"Too many mind” is a favorite quote I often share with students. It’s from “The Last Samurai”, a 2003 movie directed and co-produced by Edward Zwick. The quote is about mental control, maintaining a mental state free of distraction, it’s about performance, focus, being in the moment. Being truly and utterly IN the moment.

The storyline takes place in 19th century Japan during the Meiji Restoration, details on the movie here. Captain Nathan Algren (played by Tom Cruise) is taken captive by Samurai and held in their village. They treat him very well and he is free to walk around the village – always with a Samurai following him – and observe their customs and lifestyle. He is even allowed to join them while they practice martial arts fighting techniques. Specialized wooden swords (bokken) are used in these practices.

In one particular scene, Algren is mock fighting with one of the Samurai and is getting seriously schooled. It is not going well for him. After watching Algren struggle and face defeat in several punishing matches, a young Samurai named Nobutada (played by Shin Koyumada), rushes up to him:

Nobutada: “Please forgive…too many mind.”

Algren: “Too many mind?”

Nobutada: “Hai (yes). Mind the sword, mind the people watch (watching), mind the enemy, too many mind. No mind.”

Algren: “No mind?”

Nobutada: “No mind.”

Algren takes a moment to contemplate Nobutada’s words and their meaning. Then he and his opponent resume mock fighting. This time, instead of getting completely schooled, Algren is able to hold his own against his opponent and the match ends in a draw. A significant achievement and major confidence builder for Algren.


I think we now live in the present and dont worry about things that wont affect us and mean less than what we are to each other

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