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Treat Yourself... Once In A While... ðŸ˜Ū😊  

Paulxx001 66M
8702 posts
11/14/2019 12:24 pm

Last Read:
12/15/2019 12:10 pm

Treat Yourself... Once In A While... ðŸ˜Ū😊

It was around lunch time on Saturday. I was running about and the day was dragging so... I decided to treat myself to food - prepared by random strangers. I chose a cute little Italian bistro, not far from home. Did I have time for a glass of wine? "Sure," I thought. "Why not?"

I looked on my table for a wine list. In the vibrant energy of that lively place, it took a few minutes... for the waiter, to appear and answer my question.

"We don't have a wine list," he replied blankly.

"Well, what wines do you have?"

At which point my waiter nodded. And... with an exasperated sigh and a roll of his eyes, strode quickly to the back of the bar (where he spoke with the manager) and then - hustled quickly back up to my table. And breathlessly replied...

"They're ALL... thirteen percent."

Red, was the colour I chose. It was also the color of my plate of rigatoni bolognese, which I might add - was a real pleasure. The flavours...? I don't know exactly what they put in there, but they pulled it off. I was impressed !

The wine turned out to be, surprising as well. From a local winery and all, but really, really ... smooth. I had a second glass, to confirm my suspicions about the first.

I walked out of that, tiny busy bistro, with a huge smile on my face... and wondered something. I mean, that place had been there for a few years : why, had I never gone there before?

And then it dawned on me. I just don't treat myself very often. How many of us, do?

........................................
. ..


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 12:24 pm

I went to a movie... once. ðŸ˜ķ
How do you treat yourself? ðŸĪ” ðŸ”Ĩ ðŸ’Ķ ðŸ˜Ū


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 12:24 pm

I guess I SHOULD, treat myself more. Other interests? Outdoor stuff... you know.
I do love good restaurants! Yep! Good food in general... anywhere. lol THAT'S treating myself, isn't it? ðŸĪ”


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
11/14/2019 12:43 pm

Sounds like a nice treat you gave yourself. I don't treat myself often either as there really isn't any places worth trying here. So glad you enjoyed yourself, and perhaps you will try that place again sometime and try something different from the menu. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Livin_my_Life14 53F

11/14/2019 12:44 pm

I do treat myself. I am very good to myself. Live today because tomorrow might not ever come. There was a time in my life I felt this. Some memories have left me. So, I am trying to make knew ones.

My life has changed because I have changed. I love being me. I love the people around me. BE good to yourself. It helps with healing!


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
11/14/2019 12:45 pm

Some people would consider my whole retired life a treat.
I treat myself to a trip periodically and in between trips, I'm a little more frugal so those treats would be a pedicure or going to the bookstore.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
11/14/2019 12:47 pm

btw - I like your new blog header picture â€Ķ the snowy playground not the goat. Though I do like the goat.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Patricksatx4518 34M

11/14/2019 12:54 pm

I just want the points.


Paulxx001 replies on 11/14/2019 2:45 pm:
Okie dokie. 👍

Love2eatpussy909 36M
36 posts
11/14/2019 12:55 pm

Sure


Paulxx001 replies on 11/14/2019 2:46 pm:
No worries... 👍

sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
11/14/2019 2:11 pm

Of course it would be better to share experiences with 'someone special'. But when that is not an option, I do 'treat' myself once in awhile. It may be a movie, a theatre ticket, lunch or dinner, buying a new outfit or lingerie or going on vacation to a treasured place on my 'bucket list'. Life is too short not to enjoy what I can, when I can.


57FredFred 66M  
752 posts
11/14/2019 2:26 pm

Every once in a while, it is nice to be waited on. And there's no cleanup!


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
11/14/2019 2:33 pm

I treat myself to good food fairly often, although there are a few places in my neighborhood I haven't tried yet.

Tonight I'm going to the opera by myself, kind of a spur of the moment purchase.

And tomorrow I'm off to spend a week at a spa. Obviously I don't have a problem with treating myself!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 2:37 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Sounds like a nice treat you gave yourself. I don't treat myself often either as there really isn't any places worth trying here. So glad you enjoyed yourself, and perhaps you will try that place again sometime and try something different from the menu. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..
I'll go back there again. Great food!
I used to treat myself all the time. What happened? ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 2:40 pm

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    I do treat myself. I am very good to myself. Live today because tomorrow might not ever come. There was a time in my life I felt this. Some memories have left me. So, I am trying to make knew ones.

    My life has changed because I have changed. I love being me. I love the people around me. BE good to yourself. It helps with healing!
That's a great way to look at things. Sounds like you're having fun! 👍 😊
Tomorrow is gonna come.. no? ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 2:41 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Some people would consider my whole retired life a treat.
    I treat myself to a trip periodically and in between trips, I'm a little more frugal so those treats would be a pedicure or going to the bookstore.
It's true... retirement IS a treat.
So? Where ya gonna go next? ðŸĪ” 😊


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 2:44 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    btw - I like your new blog header picture â€Ķ the snowy playground not the goat. Though I do like the goat.
😂 lol Yep. That goat is me. Aries ♈...
The other night we had a storm. Perfect time to head out and catch the shadows against the virgin white stuff. Sometimes I get lucky 🍀 It was cold though.... â˜đïļâ„ïļðŸ˜Ū


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 2:49 pm

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    I wish i was closer... because i would treat you
Treat me... really? ðŸĪ” Ooooo... sounds like fun! ðŸ”Ĩ😊ðŸ’Ķ
Sounds like a lot of fun.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 2:51 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Of course it would be better to share experiences with 'someone special'. But when that is not an option, I do 'treat' myself once in awhile. It may be a movie, a theatre ticket, lunch or dinner, buying a new outfit or lingerie or going on vacation to a treasured place on my 'bucket list'. Life is too short not to enjoy what I can, when I can.
So I'm the only one here who spends his evenings by the lake or on the computer or phone... spending hours talking with people? ðŸĪ”
Sounds like you have a plan? 😊👍
What's your next adventure?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 2:53 pm

    Quoting 57FredFred:
    Every once in a while, it is nice to be waited on. And there's no cleanup!
That's true! Sometimes it's a pleasure to not have to face the cleanup.
So cooking is a hobby of yours? ðŸĪ”


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
11/14/2019 2:56 pm

Oh Ho How Cool: I LOVE the goat!
As for treating myself: several places that I like have email"clubs" and you get email about specials. Romano Macaroni Grill is one and weekdays you almost always count on some Buy One Get one or 25% off or a free glass of wine with a meal.They just got a new Rose that is delightful I just photo the offer in my cell phone and if I happen to be starving when I am out and about I have the proof that there is a treat somewhere if I am so motivated. I'd give anything to get a pedicure but that is not in the starts for a few more weeks.

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Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 2:56 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I treat myself to good food fairly often, although there are a few places in my neighborhood I haven't tried yet.

    Tonight I'm going to the opera by myself, kind of a spur of the moment purchase.

    And tomorrow I'm off to spend a week at a spa. Obviously I don't have a problem with treating myself!
It's true! You DO treat yourself all over the place.
So whatcha gonna go see?
Now a SPA is a great idea. Ya gonna take pics? 👍😊ðŸ’Ķ


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 3:00 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Oh Ho How Cool: I LOVE the goat!
    As for treating myself: several places that I like have email"clubs" and you get email about specials. Romano Macaroni Grill is one and weekdays you almost always count on some Buy One Get one or 25% off or a free glass of wine with a meal.They just got a new Rose that is delightful I just photo the offer in my cell phone and if I happen to be starving when I am out and about I have the proof that there is a treat somewhere if I am so motivated. I'd give anything to get a pedicure but that is not in the starts for a few more weeks.
Oooo... that little guy is so cute. The goat 🐐 I meant.
Wow.. You're so prepared. So I'm the only one who is kinda holding back? ðŸĪ”
Hmmm.. I gotta pay closer attention to my flyers. 😊


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
11/14/2019 3:06 pm

I treat myself constantly... little trinkets, good food, quality drink, the occasional massage or concert... sometimes I treat myself by not feeling guilty about staying in my jammies all day.

Hey, if I don't do it, nobody else will!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/14/2019 3:07 pm

I always have a hard time eating alone..... There's something about it that makes me feel so loserish. So, no. I don't really treat myself to food.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 3:17 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    I treat myself constantly... little trinkets, good food, quality drink, the occasional massage or concert... sometimes I treat myself by not feeling guilty about staying in my jammies all day.

    Hey, if I don't do it, nobody else will!
I'm taking notes from everyone. Sounds like a great plan.
I'll have to try and harder to let loose. 😊
Jammies? Sure... now THAT'S a plan! lol 😂 👍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 3:21 pm

    Quoting secret_lade:
    I always have a hard time eating alone..... There's something about it that makes me feel so loserish. So, no. I don't really treat myself to food.
Hmmm... now, I'm starting to wonder what people think, when I sit there alone. I'm hungry? ðŸĪ”
I've got a spot at MY table.
But hey... you're treating yourself to margaritas, right 👉? 🍷😊


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/14/2019 3:28 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Hmmm... now, I'm starting to wonder what people think, when I sit there alone. I'm hungry? ðŸĪ”
    I've got a spot at MY table.
    But hey... you're treating yourself to margaritas, right 👉? 🍷😊
What could be better than margaritas on a week full of Mondays???


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 3:36 pm

    Quoting secret_lade:
    What could be better than margaritas on a week full of Mondays???
Ya took the words right outta my mouth. Now... I'm thirsty. Vodka pineapple 🍍 slushy? ðŸĪ” 😊 Cheers ðŸĨ‚


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
11/14/2019 4:43 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    😂 lol Yep. That goat is me. Aries ♈...
    The other night we had a storm. Perfect time to head out and catch the shadows against the virgin white stuff. Sometimes I get lucky 🍀 It was cold though.... â˜đïļâ„ïļðŸ˜Ū
I'm sorry dear but you do know that Aries is a ram and Capricorn is a goat, right? You can borrow this...

[image]

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 replies on 11/14/2019 6:53 pm:
Shhh... Very few are aware.
It's an inside joke (between me and me) AND... an acronym. 😊

mc_justmc 63M

11/14/2019 5:57 pm

I treat myself every Saturday. Last Saturday I tried a fried chicken place that I had been told was the best. I was very disappointed. Sunday I made my own 3-salt fried chicken recipe and all was right with my world.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 6:34 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I treat myself every Saturday. Last Saturday I tried a fried chicken place that I had been told was the best. I was very disappointed. Sunday I made my own 3-salt fried chicken recipe and all was right with my world.
You know what? I know EXACTLY, what you mean.
Yep... Exactly. 👍


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
11/14/2019 6:58 pm

Never thought of it as "treating myself: I just do what I feel like doing ..be it going out to the movies...............terminator" and midway" to fancy dinners out or weekly visits to a hot dog joint or benny&co. for chicken.....I don't see them as treating myself .it's just what i do.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 7:26 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    Never thought of it as "treating myself: I just do what I feel like doing ..be it going out to the movies...............terminator" and midway" to fancy dinners out or weekly visits to a hot dog joint or benny&co. for chicken.....I don't see them as treating myself .it's just what i do.
Sounds like a well balanced way to live.
So.... do you have a favorite restaurant? ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 7:39 pm

    Quoting  :

Go for it! 😊
Sounds like a plan that WORKS! 👍


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
11/14/2019 8:54 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Sounds like a well balanced way to live.
    So.... do you have a favorite restaurant? ðŸĪ”
At the moment its a restaurant called....."Crescendo "


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
11/14/2019 8:57 pm

Your window on the river ...

Located on Lasalle Boulevard, at the intersection of Desmarchais, Crescendo Restaurant has been elegantly erected at a cost of three million dollars with the ultimate goal of filling all your senses. You will find yourself in a 180-seat dining room whose fenestration, more than abundant, will allow you to admire the banks of the St. Lawrence River with a spectacular view of Nun's Island.

You will discover a fine evolving Italian cuisine and a personalized and friendly service. Crescendo is open every day from 8 am to 10 pm to prepare dishes of exceptional freshness. Whether it's for a breakfast, a four-course table d'hÃīte dinner or a five-course dinner starting at $ 19, you and your guests will be delighted.

As for the dining room, Martin Bernier, owner, welcomes you in a setting where maple, stainless steel and stained glass merge, all creating a haunting atmosphere. Martin will allow you to discover the exceptional wines of our vast storeroom. He will advise you on our wide variety of private import wines at prices as affordable as $ 28 a bottle.

Crescendo does more than just serve meals. We offer you a memorable experience. We work hard to give you an impeccable and personalized service as well as a good choice of dishes and wines. After all, when you want to celebrate a birthday, a special occasion, a professional success or just have a nice evening, it's imperative for us to know you're fulfilled.


Paulxx001 replies on 11/14/2019 11:22 pm:
Wow.... Thanks for the review. I'll look that place 👆. 😊Thanks.

Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 9:26 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    At the moment its a restaurant called....."Crescendo "
Looks... like a great place!
Sounds... like the food is pretty good as well. The pictures of the food look scrumptious! âĪïļ

It's always nice to find a really good restaurant . 👍
Now... I'm hungry... 😊 lol 😂
What would you recommend? ðŸĪ”


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
11/14/2019 9:31 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    So I'm the only one here who spends his evenings by the lake or on the computer or phone... spending hours talking with people? ðŸĪ”
    Sounds like you have a plan? 😊👍
    What's your next adventure?
No not at all. I Love talking on the phone with friends and have been known to do it, all night long. But you asked, about what we do to 'treat' ourselves.
My daughter thinks it's strange to go to a restaurant alone but I have no problem doing so. Next adventure? Seriously thinking about a trip to Ireland but I also would love to see Newfoundland and Quebec. What about you?


Paulxx001 replies on 11/14/2019 11:30 pm:
I was planning on going to the marina on the weekend. Ya know... whatch the water freeze into ice... and all.
ðŸ˜ķ🙄

Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 11:16 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    No not at all. I Love talking on the phone with friends and have been known to do it, all night long. But you asked, about what we do to 'treat' ourselves.
    My daughter thinks it's strange to go to a restaurant alone but I have no problem doing so. Next adventure? Seriously thinking about a trip to Ireland but I also would love to see Newfoundland and Quebec. What about you?
I have no plans. Travel doesn't intrigue me. Too much travel, as a member of a band, sitting in a van? ðŸĪ” lol
Or just lazy and content where I am?
Perhaps a bit of both.
Your plans sound exciting! Especially if you're into them. Who doesn't like an adventure?
Except me... 😊


backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
11/14/2019 11:21 pm

Hey Paul,
.........About a million years ago, I was a bartender and a wine steward at a local country club,...........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/14/2019 11:27 pm

    Quoting backpocket13:
    Hey Paul,
    .........About a million years ago, I was a bartender and a wine steward at a local country club,...........
    Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
Hey.... Now THAT sounds like a fun job.
I mighta been tempted if I'd had THOSE responsibilities. So you know wine 🍷 do you?
I betcha THAT comes in handy when you're out and about. 👍Yep...


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/15/2019 7:12 am

    Quoting  :

Ahhh... sushi ðŸĨ and sashimi!
Love 😍 those. Ya got any of those 'all you can eat' places? ðŸĪ” They're worth it.
Thanks for giving me an idea for lunch today... lol 😂 ðŸ˜Ū 👍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/15/2019 8:33 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I'm sorry dear but you do know that Aries is a ram and Capricorn is a goat, right? You can borrow this...

    [image]
True... I should alleviate all confusion, right? ðŸ˜Ū ðŸĪ”
Okie dokie. Done! 👍 😊


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/15/2019 1:52 pm

    Quoting  :

Wow! THAT, is funny. Ya put a smile on my face. 😊 Go for it... I guess.
Looks like I'm a minority here. I gotta start treating myself more!
Ya think, somethin simple, like buyin a new razor counts? ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/15/2019 6:07 pm

    Quoting  :

Full body massage, right?
Kool... Yep. I'd be into THAT! ðŸ˜ķðŸ”Ĩ


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/15/2019 9:00 pm

    Quoting  :

Wow. That sounds worthy! 👍
So... do you ask for any 'extras' ? ðŸĪ” 😊 ðŸ”Ĩ


scoupe42 60M

11/16/2019 11:54 am

Have fun treat yourself, and going out alone is not that bad! I now go to concerts alone.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/16/2019 1:37 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Have fun treat yourself, and going out alone is not that bad! I now go to concerts alone.
Hey... So do I. There are no barriers when it comes to music. 👍


chiptopbottom 62M

11/18/2019 5:46 am

very sexy men made my saliva glands soaking wet


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/18/2019 6:31 am

    Quoting chiptopbottom:
    very sexy men made my saliva glands soaking wet
Okie dokie. Glad to hear that. 👍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/20/2019 7:19 am

    Quoting  :

True! 👍 And I KNOW you do! 👍 😊 ðŸ”Ĩ


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/21/2019 8:03 am

    Quoting  :

Hey... It's all good! 👍


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
12/8/2019 8:43 pm

I eat out too frequently...nothing fancy though, usually just a salad at Panera. I will go to a movie if the whim strikes me, and massages on occasion.

Treat yourself more often, Paul! You deserve it!

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/9/2019 8:00 am

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    I eat out too frequently...nothing fancy though, usually just a salad at Panera. I will go to a movie if the whim strikes me, and massages on occasion.

    Treat yourself more often, Paul! You deserve it!
I'll be moving forward with THAT advice.
Sounds like you have a handle on things! 👍 😊


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