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fancy_legs 50F  
96 posts
1/8/2020 10:00 am

Don't sweat it, most of the time it is the IM. Or the person who may have flirted with you are using the mobile app. In which the IM doesn't work well on the app so, they can't reply to it. People flirt for many reasons on here.
Hope your experiences get better. TSdates.com has lots to offer. Talk to people free in the chat rooms. People are friendly if you just say hello.

Have a Blessed day.
Happy New Year


Harlyman54321 48M  
79 posts
1/8/2020 10:00 am

If your a standard member you can't talk on im. That sucks.


BiggLala 49F  
30144 posts
1/8/2020 10:18 am

Unless I misunderstood you, I think your reasoning for not paying, "Crap like this is why I will not pay TSdates.com $35. a month," is flawed in the context of what you said. If you paid for a membership, you wouldn't have to worry about losing points. Yes, you *might* still experience the frustration of people not responding, but everyone experiences that...regardless of membership level.

What I don't understand is why would you spend the fifteen points to message someone just because they flirted with you. I also wonder if you were already logged into IM. If you were, wouldn't they have messaged you first to demonstrate genuine interest?

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MyBaffies 52M
4884 posts
1/8/2020 10:18 am

I've found no evidence the IM works for all of the people all of the time. I've read some people have no issues with it (they are obviously all gold members who are allowed to use it), and others who are unable to get it to work at all.

Make of that what you will.

Baffies

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sensualmaninmn 60M  
517 posts
1/8/2020 10:27 am

Another reason is that women get inundated with IMs-- 15 or more at a time. Impossible to keep up.


BiggLala 49F  
30144 posts
1/8/2020 10:33 am

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    I've found no evidence the IM works for all of the people all of the time. I've read some people have no issues with it (they are obviously all gold members who are allowed to use it), and others who are unable to get it to work at all.

    Make of that what you will.
they are obviously all gold members who are allowed to use it
-I don't know if you're being sarcastic, but this is false. I don't think it wise to perpetuate this 'gold vs. standards' myth. Gold members have challenges with the site features as well.

When I used to frequent IM after I first joined, I always experienced problems with IM when on my mobile phone. I never had problems when I used IM on my laptop computer. Thus...I quit using my mobile phone and solely used my laptop.

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lookn4hrnyfun 50M  
146 posts
1/8/2020 10:43 am

The IM sucks. I stay logged in to it while I am on line. Half the time if I get a message and reply it never shows delivered. If I try to start a conversation probably less than 10% of the folks respond. It is marginal at best but sometimes it will work!


703papi 44M
26 posts
1/8/2020 11:02 am

couldn't agree with this post any more. TSdates.com should only take points from you if the other person actually responds. We have no way of knowing if they are actually getting it or if they just choose not to respond.


superbjversion2 66F
23793 posts
1/8/2020 11:52 am

The mobile app automatically shows everyone as being on IM...when they may not be.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


positively4you 72F  
4523 posts
1/8/2020 2:59 pm

Some flirts and views are site generated and not from the person. I trust none of them.


MyBaffies 52M
4884 posts
1/9/2020 5:26 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    they are obviously all gold members who are allowed to use it
    -I don't know if you're being sarcastic, but this is false. I don't think it wise to perpetuate this 'gold vs. standards' myth. Gold members have challenges with the site features as well.

    When I used to frequent IM after I first joined, I always experienced problems with IM when on my mobile phone. I never had problems when I used IM on my laptop computer. Thus...I quit using my mobile phone and solely used my laptop.
"I've found no evidence the IM works for all of the people all of the time."

Baffies

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Olderfun25801 26M/24F

2/4/2020 5:36 pm

I agree its a pain in the ass !


author51 58F  
126433 posts
10/22/2020 7:22 am

    Quoting sensualmaninmn:
    Another reason is that women get inundated with IMs-- 15 or more at a time. Impossible to keep up.
Bingo, which is why I do not use IM at all..


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