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Are LOve and luST LOST?  

JaniceJanes 49T  
707 posts
8/9/2019 9:17 am
Are LOve and luST LOST?

Something that I have thought about for the last few years is where are we headed as a culture in regard to our sexual behavior. Now and again I see indications that traditional Love and Lust might be becoming a rarity in our society.

Love is a complex mix of Emotional, Mental and Physical elements that are in various amounts in each person but they all must be present to create Love. How much of a portion of each one depends on the individual and several factors (gender, age and upbringing for a few examples) and is above my ability to explain.

People tend to over use the word Love anyway and they use it to express a Like for something other than another person. You can Love a Person but to me when someone says They Love a Song, or They Love a Movie or whatever, this isn’t real Love because not all three essential factors are present. I don’t think you can Physically Love a Movie.

Lust, in my opinion, also contains these three ingredients BUT to a much lesser degree. Lust, in my mind, is probably best described as “Temporary Love”. Lust may be very intense but it is not as long lasting as Love.

I believe Love and Lust are being replaced by quick, no questions asked SEX.

I’m not condemning this in anyway since at times we all may want instant, non complicated Sex in a Physical way without the Emotional or Mental aspects.

What I am saying, is that more and more people today seem to want just Sex without any complicated beginning or ending. People these days don’t even want to take the time to establish a Friendship or Trusting relationship.

To prove this, I kept loose track of the number of message and IMs I get on here daily, well more accurately each night, and determined that approximately 50% simply say “Let’s Fuck” or something similar. They don’t even seem to care if I had a Good or Bad day or was hit by a bus earlier. They don’t want to know.
Again, I am not being critical of this trend. Rather, I am saying we are Losing our need to become involved personally and have eliminated traditional interaction and have skipped straight to non commutative SEX.

Why? I don’t know for sure but I have a theory. I call it “The Amazon Age”. If we can’t get it in two days or less, we look somewhere else or go without. In New York City, you can get anything Delivered in Two Hours or less. This seems to be how many want their Sex these days. Go on-line, find the item you want, place your order and have it at your door almost immediately. You usually don’t even have to talk to a real person.

So, it seems to me, this is the way many people want their Sex these days.
Go on the internet, find a hot body, place your order (Let’s Fuck) and have it in Two Hours.

I envision a fast approaching time when mens’ arms will become much shorter. Only long enough to reach their keyboard and not their cocks. They don’t need to jerk off. Just go on-line and find someone to do it for you within 1 hour or less without even leaving your home.

So much to look forward to.

Jan
Still a traditionalist


Geiler_Bi_Lover 60M  
113 posts
12/31/2019 1:52 am

very hot and sexy Lady - she make me so horny


Seanstrd69 58M

8/13/2019 8:19 am

great photo, by the way.


Seanstrd69 58M

8/13/2019 8:18 am

This is one of my pet-peeves, I get all these men that say lets fuck. It takes me at least a week, at the quickest to line up a sexual encounter, its quality over Quantity for me. I like to get to know at least a little bit about someone before we get naked.

This is the primary reason, when I am on the Down-Low, that I switch back to women again. During the better part of my marriage, I got to experience that sex is actually better in a committed relationship, and that has nothing to do with morality.


funguycle4u 46M

8/12/2019 7:10 pm

Well said, and I agree 100% Lots of options these days, which also has made infidelity a regular occurrence.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
8/10/2019 8:14 am

I prefer Lust that turns in to good swing friends. I have those and I have fallen in love but it can bite you and hurt you. I have been there. Again you look so Sexy!!


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