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Abstinence vs Indulgence
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Abstinence vs Indulgence It seems , the Stay at Home policy has had a terrible effect on some people, and I include myself. For us that are single, we have been put in a Form of Isolation that has pushed some the edge of keeping their total sanity. I noticed this by having many discussion on this site with both men and women since the Lock Down began back in March. The internet allow us to talk to others in various states and other countries. I have many friends throughout this country and overseas and a common subject in our discussions is “How are you doing?” and this has taken on a completely new meaning from when that was just a simple Greeting. It use to be just a simple way to start a conversation but in the time since the Covid-19 and the Lock Down it really has become a question of “How are you holding up under this Shut Down?”. Everyone wants to know the impact this forced isolation has had on others. As usual, I view this in a Sexual light. It is so obvious to me that people denied all activities and the resulting emotional release have nothing else to think about but our most basic needs. Food, water, shelter and sex. And the order of importance has has been reversed. Our benevolent city and state officials have graciously allowed us access to Food, Water and of course the Shelter where we must remain. Household pets get the same for that matter. What our wonderful leaders have in a sense denied us, is the freedom to have sex. Think about it, don’t bars, clubs, restaurants serve as meeting places and often a prelude to sexual activity? Take those away and then demand we Social Distance and there no means to express your sexual temperature to another person. Internet meetings are the only recourse to those of us who live alone. Is like in the movies of someone in prison getting a visitor and only being allowed to talk from behind a glass barrier. No hugging or anything like that just the ability to see but not to touch. Being denied sexual freedom has several possible negative results besides being just Horniness which is a legitimate symptom. WED MD sites potential emotional problems, high blood pressure, anxiety, stress, loss of memory, inability to concentrate and others. Even frequent masturbation can’t fully help they mention. Please note, the potential problems associated with not having frequent sexual relations are common to older people and they are considered “The Most Vulnerable” to the virus. In my mind, that makes younger people who have to go without sex also very vulnerable to the virus also. This just doesn’t make any sense. We all know the risks the virus may have. We also know that not everyone who contracts the virus will have a bad reaction to it and many don’t even realized they had it. Certainly not everyone who has the virus will die from it. I believe it is up to the individual to decide for theirselves if the risks outweigh the possible pleasure or vice versa. We’re adults. The officials that were elected must think some of us are smart, we voted for them so we must by their own definition be Smart. In all cases, if people willingly consent have sex they should be allowed the freedom have sex. How about a compromise. Let the bars in NYC open one day a week without social distancing, without masks and gloves and let the people have a little fun. Call it a Sexday instead of a Friday. It could save our sanity. Let the people FUCK! Jan  |
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My swing group and I haven't played in months. Better safe than sorry. You look so sexy!!!!!
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Stunning picture!!
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5/19/2020 2:36 am |
Well considered discussion. Thanks honey
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I'm sorry to hear that the lock down is proving to difficult for you. I guess my concern with what you suggest is the potential harm that may befall others. I'm not thinking necessarily of the participants in sex day. I am thinking of the people who would need to treat anyone who falls ill. The health workers who would be in danger of catching the virus themselves. Also, anyone else who might unwittingly come into contact with a participant. Perhaps if all the participants were to waive their right to treatment and undertake to self isolate and only ever come into contact with other participants it might be fair? Terribly sorry m'dear, I don't mean to ruin your party.....
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He has been in California attending to family matters since March 10 is I have been alone since this started.
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5/16/2020 6:09 am |
Well hello im sure you know I follow your blog...Im sorry you are alone. I thought you had aBF?
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