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Going down... part 2
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Going down... part 2 Dine at the Y, Pearl diving, Lip service, Licking the beaver... by any of it’s varied names...Cunnilingus. |
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One of my personal favorites (activity and topic) but also one that can show quite a different attitude between men and boys. Sorry this may not be exactly politically correct. This is a topic that shows my biases and double standards. Many of the young men (boys) out there complain or refuse to perform this, what I consider a vital, service for the women they are supposed to be pleasing. And their rude, obnoxious, self centered comments have left many a young lady reluctant to let anyone else go down on them. Yet, I have never met and have heard of only a very small handful of woman that do not enjoy having it done... and at least some of those we can probably blame on a bad performance or a bad attitude by a guy. Gentleman, be supportive and patient with your girl if she is nervous about this. This is one of those sensitive areas for woman, many feel that it is not their most physically attractive feature and they need to know that you find her girl parts beautiful and that you absolutely 100% WANT to give her pleasure there and that it is OKAY for her to lay back and enjoy! Many woman are worried about how guys will react to taste and smell, both of which can change depending on cycle, diet, and stress (just to name a few) so be honest with her and let her know you like the way she smells and tastes. They have all heard the bad sex jokes men tell in locker rooms... hopefully it is JUST in the locker rooms... and many woman worry that they will be your next joke to your friends. Make sure she knows you respect her too much to do that. And for @$&!-sake!!! Pay attention and ASK her what she likes and what feels good! And yes, this is where my double standard kicks in! Women should never ever be “required” to go down in a guy, but a man should be ever willing and endlessly enthusiastic to go down in his girl. She should never have the slightest qualms about pushing your head down there and she should absolutely KNOW that you will keep at it until she is satisfied. No reciprocation required! Looking forward to hearing from ladies and gentlemen on this one.
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8/23/2018 4:45 pm |
Finely, someone knows what they are talking about. Do it right and she will come back or more. By all means, be patient, gentle, and slow... not only tell her how beautiful she is...maker her feel beautiful... She is "Special". These are moments that will be cherished forever and the level of respect will never be compromised. And the rewards will always be yours..
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8/26/2018 11:01 pm |
Good Advice
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