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account4me22 50M
31 posts
2/22/2019 5:49 pm

I don't think you are wrong in your statement at all. As a male, I would like for a nice conversation to start up before anything happens happen. We are all adults even though through this site people get the wrong impression. Good luck on your endeavors.


Brassandass 64M/61F

2/22/2019 6:16 pm

It is normal for most people not to play on an initial meeting. As long as that was made clear, the fault was with the guy. Some guys are just total jerks and all you can do is just move on to the next guy hoping he is a class act.


pinkalts 60M

2/22/2019 6:38 pm

You need to have physical attraction and feel comfortable with your partner.


Mdg618 48M

2/22/2019 7:26 pm

For me the meet & greet is to, for 1 make sure the real person matches their pic, see if there is as much real attraction as the fantasy attraction. Also all parties should respect each other in terms of any ground rules that you set. If they won't agree to any rules then there shouldn't be a meet. Also if they agree but don't honor the rules then they are SOL. I can usually tell through convos on here if a meet & greet will happen or not even before any rules or expectations are set


Mike74588 50M
17 posts
2/22/2019 10:36 pm

Love it all 4194506


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/22/2019 10:56 pm

That's what they want us to believe.
I certainly don't!

Way to risky!

Using more than all the road!


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
2/23/2019 3:11 am

Good Morning Bear,

I don't think your profile is too explicit, you state your wants and expectations clearly. Meet and Greet at a neutral venue, is to my mind essential, for the ladies safety and to check out compatibility.


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Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/23/2019 5:26 am

So what are the expectations of a meet and greet? .... Bottom line? [From this kind of site] To see if having sex together is possible.

I do not want to make out with you in the parking lot of Wal-mart before I've even shaken your hand or hugged you. .... Sure, but some of the people you meet, especially if you spent too much time chatting online , get this delusional feeling they know you well enough to act as though they really know you well enough to get really personal..... People sometimes get delusional about who they meet...that is the problem of chatting too long online.

Isn't a meet and greet supposed to be about seeing if the words that appear magically on the screen of our phones or on the screens of our computers translate to physical attraction in real life?... Yes, basically.

Does it not matter if there is no physical attraction?.... Sometimes there doesn't need to be physical attraction. When people [ men OR women] are in a heightened state of horny....any physical contact will do. Rare, but that can happen.

Is it so bad out there that men and women are willing to fuck a total stranger just for the holes? ..... Sometimes, yes. Absolutely.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/23/2019 5:28 am

Also ... keep your meet and greet plan under one hour.

Don't make a production out of it.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
2/26/2019 1:51 pm

We are all different. I make my expectations clear before meeting.. first meet to see if we are real and connect . If yes next step decided together.


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