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The FWB lifestyle...4/8/21
The FWB lifestyle...4/8/21 Choose Wisely The point of a friends-with-benefits situation is to maintain a casual relationship without complications or commitment. In the end, don’t hook up with a longtime buddy or member of your core friend group. You probably also want to avoid anyone who lives in your building, advises Christine Coppa in Glamour Magazine. If you see your FWB outside of the bedroom on a regular basis, your relationship is likely to move faster than you intended. It’s best to choose someone whose daily life doesn’t intersect much with yours. Lay the Ground Rules For an FWB relationship to work, both partners need to agree on what they want. The romantic attachment will change a casual relationship, says Martin, and if feelings exist between you they will only grow stronger. prevent awkward miscommunication, tell your partner exactly what you’re looking for. Ground rules might include: no speaking about the other people you’re dating, no sleeping over, and no going out together. You make the rules -- just make sure that you and your FWB both agree. Keep It Casual Once you make the rules, stick to them. Don’t invite your FWB to hang out with your other friends, advises Coppa. Don’t suggest that you both go out to dinner together. Go home after a rendezvous instead of staying to cuddle. And try not to think about who else your FWB might be dating if he doesn’t bac You both agreed to keep it simple, which means you’re free to have your own fun instead of worrying about him. Make sure you continue to have your own plans with friends, family, and dating. Speak Honestly If your feelings change, you have said something. Miscommunication happens when one person in a friends-with-benefits situation begins to want more but doesn’t speak the truth. In a study done by researchers at Michigan State University and Wayne State University, of the friends-with-benefits relationships studied, “One-tenth of these relationships went on become full-scale romances…about a third stopped the sex and remained friends, and one in four eventually broke it off — the sex and the friendship. The rest continued as friends-with-benefits relationships.” In short, the relationship is likely to change or end at some point, so it’s best to be honest about your feelings if you want to avoid complications. All photos found free on the web Delete Response | Edit Post | Edit Colors All photos found free on the web |
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Hot Pic!! Great Post! Don't fall in love like that song states "Fooled Around and Fell In Love" No, No!! Have fun and go home until the next time.
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