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6431 posts
1/11/2019 5:57 pm

»I Respect/Understand That«


agedfun1 71M  
220 posts
1/11/2019 6:11 pm

The only thing that comes up in some of my chats is what type of work do you do in general, admin, customer service, etc. Never where or when you work.

AliOrbit 62F
542 posts
1/11/2019 6:20 pm

People will ask all kinds of inappropriate things. And since you had a stalker type of situation you have the right to be more guarded.

MidBucksCpl 48M/45F  
3 posts
1/11/2019 6:40 pm

"Never" might be a bit excessive, but we definitely would not share our work or home information with anyone until a reasonable trust has been established. Until then, general job type is fair.

We have a couple with whom we have developed a great friendship. We have met members of their family and visited the lady-half of that couple when she was in the hospital. At that point in the relationship, being protective of work and general life details is not necessary. That's the only reason I say "never" is excessive.

2Saltie2 62F  
1259 posts
1/11/2019 6:43 pm

I agreed . I was a senior care giver in the mans home. Profile says not meeting but want to go to events. At the time to busy to go to any. Some man wrote me about events. Told him to busy at this time to go to anything. Next message, only his second one he asked if he could visit me at work. Deleted it unanswered. No way would i give that information to anyone as to where I live.

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HoHowdy 57M
1286 posts
1/11/2019 7:26 pm

You can never be too careful these days.

japaneseass 51F  
47880 posts
1/11/2019 7:51 pm

i had a person stalking me around where i used to work. i could not prove he was, so i did not report to the police, but he was there often, acted like he happened to have something to do around the area that day, and no matter what time it was, he came up to me, and tried to talk to me...started to wonder if he was following me...since then, i will never tell exactly where i work, especially at first, i will answer what type of work i do, but not exactly where. maybe later, if i get to know him, i might or might not tell him, about work...

2trythis 55F  
5059 posts
1/11/2019 7:55 pm

Be safe. That should be your number one priority. Take care.

waepais 33F  
2 posts
1/11/2019 10:18 pm

Some people escalate too quickly.

oldrbi4yngr 55M
11 posts
1/12/2019 2:45 am

I think as long as one applies good common sense and it sounds like you did this and all will be well. There are always going to be weird and pushy people in any walk of life and perhaps especially so on a site like this.

FresnoWoman 48F
368 posts
1/12/2019 3:24 pm

She was out of line. Can you just block her at this point?

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