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Dating in the Digital World  

SexyGILFNeedsLuv 67F
170 posts
4/16/2021 1:30 am
Dating in the Digital World


OK guys, this is how I proceed thanks there being so many fakes on dating sites.

1. After I get a message from you, I check your profile. PLEASE answer the questions about height, body type, whether you smoke/drink/do drugs, etc. Since non-smoking is a must for me, I'd rather not have ask. If you meet my basic requirements (as stated in my auto reply message) or if you say you are willing to relocate, I will message you. We will figure out if we have the same goals for being here.

If so, 2:
After a WEEK OR SO of chatting on TSdates.com, I will want your PHONE NUMBER. I will run your phone number through a background search site and hopefully it will show that a person with the same name that you've given me has that phone number. If not, I probably won't contact you again. If you're giving me a generated phone number, tell me that and be aware that you will also have to give me a real full name and address because I have to verify in some way that you are not a deadbeat felon with a long sheet. Think this is excessive? Well just a short while ago I started conversing with someone on here and his phone number was for another state and I kept talking to him against my better judgement until he urgently requested $7200 from me. It happens.

3. After another WEEK OR SO of texting, I will want to hear your voice AND see your face via some type of video chat (skype, FB Messenger, Google Duos, etc.). Yes, you better look like your pics. You will get to verify that I do also.

4. IF I'm still interested in meeting you, I'll want to do that fairly quickly. If you're local there should be no reason that we can't meet in person. Coffee/tea, a light lunch, just an iced tea all work fine for me. If you want to buy me dinner, I probably won't turn you down. I will totally be willing to my way! I hate eating dinner alone so I welcome company for dinner. I will want meet you in public! I've had a<b> stalker </font></b>in the 4 years that I've been divorced so I want let my feminine intuition tell me if you're safe.

Hey, we could end up having such hot chemistry that I end up in bed with you that day but I'm not doing that until I feel safe. I need have some connection with you. If we can't make that connection in 2 or 3 dates, I won't see you again. I just don't have the time.

I'm sorry but I can't continue endless emails or texts. Even though I'm mostly retired, I have things do, dogs love, cars get serviced, etc. If I don't feel like it's ever going amount anything more than chatting, I'm not going continue. If you're interesting and I enjoy your company and you're local, then maybe we can be friends but the "benefits" part comes from CHEMISTRY and CONNECTION.

As stated clearly in my profile, I'm looking for a man of my own. More than a boyfriend, less than a husband. Kind of my part-time significant other because, well, I have a life and you have a life and it's unlikely we can spend every day together. I might want to but it's not likely to happen. Plus my therapist says I can't live with anyone until we've dated 6 months so part-time it has to be. We don't have to tell her about the sleepovers though!

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