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I Just Received My First Hate E-Mail From An AFF Black Male User  

Mochahoneypot 29F
0 posts
2/19/2019 5:33 am
I Just Received My First Hate E-Mail From An AFF Black Male User
How Should I Deal With This?
What Should I Do To Avoid These Kinds Of Hate E-Mail Messages Again?
Why Do Men Message Me Automatically Asking Me Do I Pay For Play?


Rdy2meet2day34 56M
26 posts
2/19/2019 10:36 am

 What a jerk


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/19/2019 11:14 am

 #1You don't change diapers!
Most are awarded free gold.If you
Aren't just tell them.
If you aren't interested in them
Answer them like everyone else
by not answering.
Using more than all the road!


astute2r3 68M

2/19/2019 12:58 pm

 Do not reply back! Sever the cord! Block them! Assholes come in many different forms! Best of Luck!


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
2/20/2019 2:17 am

 Ignore it, and delete it. Haters are going to hate, no matter what you do. Live your life according to your rules, and no one else's.

If they contact you again with the same hatred in another message or IM, report them and block them. I don't put up with data byte abusers.
"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


swifty50517 76M

2/20/2019 5:35 pm

 I'm so sorry...It's painful. It hurts. Be strong and ignore the guy. Keep in mind the problem is with him. Success, beauty, etc. often elicits the worst in people, most often jealousy. Don't worry....ignore him.


SwinginApe69 39M
70 posts
2/20/2019 8:16 pm

 As for why men immediately ask you if you pay for play:
I'm gonna be honest: I've been on TSdates.com a long, long time. And I can definitely say that, more often then not if you match the following criteria:

Female
Under 25,
Black
Engaging/Outgoing
In the Los Angeles area
Not acutely detailed in your profile

More often then not, its pay to play, insinuates P2P tacitly or alludes to it.
Something about young black women from LA seems to have SOME (NOT THE MAJORITY) of them equate sex sites with an opportunity to earn some cash. Now, I'm not saying that this is EXCLUSIVE to young black women that fit this criteria, or that its exclusive to my area. But there is definitely a trend.

Honestly, you can find the same general trend across social media: Lots of women (from ALL BACKGROUNDS, really) are using social platforms and a form of self-prostitution. It makes a lot of sense; I don't think there is anything particularly wrong with it as long as its done in a safe and healthy way. Oldest profession in the world, takes on its latest form, lmao. But it does lead to impressions like my own, based on the various trends surrounding the issue on various platforms. Right or wrong.

Just my 2 cents (and I'm black, so don't know one give me no bullshit lmao)


Stoph8ten 37M
185 posts
2/23/2019 10:38 am

 Don't even pay it any mind. You are a sexy ass chocolate woman. There is plenty of us out here who would enjoy you.

Stoph8tenMake sure to like, comment, vote, and watch. Participation is the key over here.


biglotofun4u 69M  
34 posts
3/13/2019 6:31 pm

 Just block him and don't respond


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