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Sure An Open Relationship.  

CisandTGirl 47M/48F
54 posts
12/12/2020 5:40 pm
Sure An Open Relationship.


Yes for once there is a couples rant. I have been on here for 3 years waiting for tgirl give me the ok bring someone into our relationship for some fun. We always talked about me having fun with a guy. I have waited thru the indecision of being herself. And of starting hormones and even thru the unable to proform because of the hormones. I have been relatively patient with her. I havent been the most innocent either, but I did not push her at all.

2+ weeks ago, she came to me. She has fallen in love with an on line friend. Another female, who is lez. After almost 20 yrs of talking of bringing in a guy.

But get this. This female only wants her. Not me. And tgirl isnt being honest with her that for the last 2 weeks we have been working on our relationship. Tgirl has moved back into my bed, after 8 yrs of sleeping in another room because we are trying, and things go great until I start asking questions about her.

I got pissed at the fact she txts at 4:30 am. That she monopolizes tgirls time. We were snuggling and talking when she txted late one night and tgirl sat up and kept answering her back. They have video chatted as I got me and the ready for school/work for me. And I asked for them to not do this when I am home, as I figure out how I feel about another woman.

Well on Tuesday, not even an hour after making out and grinding on me a minute before my alarm. They were on a video chat. So I walked into tgirls home office and kissed her on the cheek. Then realized her phone was turned away from us. So I said fucking show her me. She refused and hung up her video . Of course the other txted and asked what was happening. We argued for a bit. But I left with clear instructions tell this Spanish only speaking hoe that we are working on our relationship.

That night she tried move back sleeping in her office, so I grabbed my pillow and marched right in and crawled into bed.

CisandTGirl 47M/48F

12/12/2020 5:42 pm

I dont think I over reacted. This is my house. My family. My relationship. I am not give up on it yet.

Plus tgirl crawled back into my bed the next night and has been there since.


CisandTGirl 47M/48F

12/13/2020 4:39 am

The thing is I think this love is just lust. I didnt mention that this person lives in South America and we live in Canada. She is butt ass poor and cant get out of her country. She has used my partner's budding emotional state to her advantage. She has sent crying videos because she was beat by the police for money, her ankle was broken during it. Her village flooded, and a whole host of other problems. She seems to have a bad day every couple days.

After reading a shit ton of blogs at 1 1/2 yrs of hormones tgirls get insanely emotional, like a 14-15 year old girl. Anyone who has been around girls know how emotional they are.

My partner has been working frim home since the pandemic hit. I was on medical leave from a back injury, the kids were out of school. But I have been at work since end of Aug, kids went back to school in mid October. Which is just before these feelings of love started. This girl happened to txt when my partner was feeling alone and sad that the holidays were coming and her mom passed away.

I havent been the most innocent. I have been sexting, and even had a few meets. I havent been the most emotionally available either because I spent time flirting. But never looking to replace my partner.

We both agree that there is still love between us. We still hug, kiss, look at each other deeply. And just had sex for the first time in 1 1/2 years without the help of viagra.

I am not giving up easily. It would have been too easy to throw in the towel.


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