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Blogs > SuckerForDrummer > Truth Teller

Conundrum  

SuckerForDrummer 40F
3 posts
4/2/2019 9:21 pm
Conundrum

I misunderstood someone on here. Well, they actually didn't say what they actually meant to say. No matter- there was a misunderstanding and my defense was to be a total cunt. And it was awful. I was awful. I feel awful.

See, my main reason for being here is because on other dating sites, men who have contacted me have publicly wanted thin or athletic women on their profiles but in DMs are all into fat girls.

So, I come here thinking that it's at least a place to be honest about desires and although it's promoting a Grindr-esque culture for straight people, it's at least not full of people looking to project something that they are not.

When I saw that message in my Inbox that seemed to be body-shaming... I kinda lost my shit.

I already don't enjoy dick pics. I'm not beating off to close-ups of junk on here. I'm not gonna fuck someone because they told me solely from the pic of my ass that they want to fuck me. I'm not interested in hook-up culture. That's not how I roll.

But I need a man who's honest about what makes him hot. Not someone who's trying to hide that shit. So if not here, where?

I'm sorry, Dude That I Came For. Not In the Good Way. I hate that I did that to you.

Fervent7 55M
Ask me for a photo
457 posts
4/10/2019 2:32 pm

 To be fair, there is a lot of dishonest misrepresentation here...


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