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Age related?  

Cajunspirit57 66M
7 posts
6/8/2019 7:03 pm
Age related?


I got to ask is it , my age, my presentation, can't be those cause all you people are soooo understanding and non-judgemental and polite, and never misinterpret anything lol so can some one tell me why I get no responses and when I put myself there why do I get ignored I try to be polite witty and understanding are all of us DOM just not worthy or do we just not understand the New World Order lol. wait wait I got it we're just to damned senile we just missed the responses that said "Hell YES elder Studly I must have you NOW" lol

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
6/8/2019 7:32 pm

Uhhh, yeah, that's it.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/8/2019 8:33 pm

Being over 50 (or maybe over 40) here doesn't help since there are a lot of 40s women here. A bad approach will generate silence no matter what your age is. Thing is you didn't give any idea as to who or how you approach them. That says to me neither are likely to be appropriate.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Cajunspirit57 replies on 6/9/2019 5:42 am:
Ok here's the basic approach I read their profile and if I find we have same desires or at least majority of the same I message "Hello names John yes i can show you how to enjoy life in multiple ways i don't lie or deceive are you ready to take a chance for an adventure" plus i add in the specifics of what can be achieved to our Mutual satisfaction,

lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
6/8/2019 9:11 pm

    Quoting  :

well what do you know, together again at last.. Just miss the "bantering" between you two..I said it!!!!

Red, I second your comments on NOT any information on his desires, it is hard to get someone's attention if you don't meet more than half way, a bit more on the profile will help,

AGE, Sheeeez nothing to do with it, don't let Lala or Red confuse you on that, all the little 20s and 30s say it is just a number.. and you heard this on the internet....have a good evening and enjoy, but be patient... Listen to Lala...she is the goddess of REAL information..

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Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/8/2019 10:02 pm

I got to ask is it , my age, my presentation, ... Can be both. Can also be the women you're going after.

Too close to your age within 15 years... likely to be bitchy and pissed off at men in general due to her own bad decisions.

Too young , 19-28, not a good idea unless you have money she can see and smell, but not have.

So what's left? Age 30 to about 42. would be a good target age group.

why do I get ignored I try to be polite witty and understanding .... That could be your problem. Stop doing those.

Your goal should be to get the woman to come meet you , not be her online psychoanalyst , not to be her online gay buddy giving her support..

Sometimes better to just treat the woman like shit, or close to shit, instead of being the understanding polite elderly guy for her fucked up mess of a life.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
6/8/2019 10:18 pm

Try Heathen’s method and get back to us. Let us know how that works. 😬


dogslife2live01 71M

6/9/2019 3:38 am

SEX! is the answer. this is a sex site, the only reason to be here is for free gratuitous, uncommitted sex.
threesum,foursum,toomanytocountsum sex.
so i guess it must mean that if you drop them a line here it makes you a perv.
but they are just here out of curiosity! denial is such a comfortable place to live
but the number one 1 reason the nobody replies is because they all heard/read/wrote reasons why not to meet people from social sites
bonne chance

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
6/9/2019 10:15 am

It's always going to come back to you.When you complain you show a weakness that people with feelings are often associated with.Some people have gotten very
comfortable biting their lip for long periods of time in order not to be associated with the same.

Oh and about that age thing it's much more than a number.If it wasn't,
as many have stated, it wouldn't be so prominent or stated so
adamantly in countless profiles.A good rule of thumb is "actions speak louder than words."Sadly though you'll be required to do both.

Using more than all the road!


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